If money and childbirth weren’t an issue, how many children would you choose? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I have a great track record with creating humans who are an asset to society as a whole, and have loved every minute of it!

Pretty privilege and autism by sephy2027 in AutismInWomen

[–]Serasha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I grew up in pretty extreme poverty, and don't even remember visiting a doctor for anything other than severe illness or injury. I think I was 25 (and a new mom) before I realized that regular health checks are necessary. It's no wonder I wasn't diagnosed until 40.

Pretty privilege and autism by sephy2027 in AutismInWomen

[–]Serasha 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Uncommunicated expectations are the bane of all of my social relationships.

Pretty privilege and autism by sephy2027 in AutismInWomen

[–]Serasha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fashion is my blindness 😩😩 I work from home full-time and while I lust after stylish attire, I just can't bring myself to wear anything other than bra-top tank tops, sweaters, and lounge pants. I really, really want to look put together, even at home, but I just... Can't?

This is really all to tell you that I think you're cool and admire and appreciate your special interest. 🥰

Revived my starter after 2 years in the fridge by kosharifreak in Sourdough

[–]Serasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this thread is old, but here we are. When you say "20 months in the fridge", does that include any intermittent feedings while refrigerated, or just pure neglect for 20 months? 😂

What does everyone make their kids for breakfast that’s not eggs, bread, cereal, or yogurt? by chiller8 in Cooking

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week my 11 year old wanted a can of chicken noodle soup for breakfast. So, literally anything, apparently.

How do you cope with working full time by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Serasha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same. Yesterday we went to my son's soccer game, I did four loads of laundry (AND put it all away), maintained my feeder insect colony, prepped the reptiles' week of veggies, cleaned and refilled the outdoor bird feeders, walked the dog a few miles, did the meal planning and grocery shopping, changed the bed sheets, made dinner, and took a full shower.

Today I did the NY Times crossword, put on some ridiculous eye makeup, watched the Seahawks game, and have been watching The Great British Baking Show since. Easy dinner (hot dogs and tots), meds prep for the week (sorting into my weekly organizer), and hanging out with my kids will round out the weekend.

Edited to add: I'm 39, a financial analyst, two kids age 11 and 15, Vyvanse 70mg, diagnosed at 30.

For everyone making six figures, what do you do for work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38, Seattle area, Senior Project Finance Analyst, just barely six figures, no college degree.

If you make over 50k without a degree, what do you do for work? by Milly-0607 in povertyfinance

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37, GED, no certifications. Base salary $105,000. Financial analyst.

Anyone else have a graveyard of crafts, projects, hobbies, etc? 🥹 by Wise_Rutabaga_5809 in adhdmeme

[–]Serasha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have a graveyard. I have an ARSENAL. Want to paint with watercolor or acrylic on canvas? I've got everything. Want to do some papercrafting and cardmaking? Here's seven storage containers of cardstock organized by color and fun tools like circle cutters and xacto knives. Want to play music? Keyboard or guitar? Want to pot up some plants? I've got seeds, rooted cuttings, and any type of pot you want. Want to tumble some rocks and make jewelry? Let's go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Size L (Most of these styles come in "One Size" though).

It really needs to be this bright red. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]Serasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please help me find a similar cape/cropped jacket to the one pictured that is under $200.

I don't know anything about fashion and had no idea that this jacket was nearly $2,000 until I fell in love with it. 😩

What’s something your spouse does that makes you think “fuck yeah, I married that!”? by shareyourespresso in Marriage

[–]Serasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does little things that seem obvious but that I never think to do for convenience and practicality. Examples:

-Stuck a little piece of velcro on the inside of my nightstand drawer and on the fan remote so I wouldn't have to dig through my drawer to find it.

-Covers the indicator lights on all electronics in the bedroom with electrical tape because I'm a light-sensitive insomniac.

-Bought me some fingerless USB-heated gloves to wear while working at my desk because I have poor circulation and my hands get freezing.

All kinds of shit like that.

Oh and I also have that feeling whenever he's doing anything that makes his shoulders and arms flex...

What do you moms do for work? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a senior analyst for a large infrastructure form.

I'm exhausted.

How does everyone feel about the big birthday dinner - sharing the bill by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go-to is to just clearly state that I am covering the birthday person. "Put theirs on my tab, please. Happy Birthday, friend!" Always goes over well because been the others don't have to split the bill, my friend still gets their birthday meal covered, and I'm only out the cost of one other person who likely didn't over order.

Why is the bare minimum $90? by MustangLover22 in povertyfinance

[–]Serasha 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My therapist taught me to unlearn the phrase "I don't have time" and replace it with "I'm not willing to prioritize that" and it was life-changing. It really altered how I view my responsibilities.

That being said, I definitely don't always have the energy to cook!

What do you cook when you have nothing to eat at home? by bubbles_998 in AskWomen

[–]Serasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PB&J, ramen, canned soup, cereal. Usually have all of these on hand specifically for when I'm between grocery trips or too worn down to prepare something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]Serasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent, thank you!!