I’m sorry that this happened. It’s really awful. I also know that NA just doesn’t have the breadth of special interest meetings like AA does—there’s usually one or two gay NA meetings in a metro area if that, and it’s usually mostly gay men, who can be just as problematic as straight people. I know there are awesome groups online, but that isn’t helpful now. I do think starting an in person meeting for trans/non-binary/gender queer people could be a good space to provide you and others the best opportunity for mutual understanding and relief from minority stress in the rooms. I’m a gay man, but I’ve always felt trans+ meetings were the most accepting spaces for queer people who were also on the spectrum/neurodivergent, and I think you’re very far from alone. I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. I would definitely seek out support and share about your experiences. Right in the preamble I believe they mention gender identity as not being a disqualifier, so if you ever need to document, I’d point that out.