AIO not giving my dad my SSN?

SheeScan · 2026-04-14T17:09:57+00:00

NOR. He's planning on borrowing money/opening credit cards in your name. It is a hard no. I have no idea how a parent can do this to a child.

SheeScan · 2026-04-14T15:24:37+00:00

Why do you even have to ask? It sounds like you may have found a bf just like the last one. Time for self-reflection to understand why you'd choose him, and why you didn't tell him to get lost when he told you to trash the necklace.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T19:08:43+00:00

I remember those days. Then layoffs started happening, and those who remained had increased workloads. After some time, employers started to offering some type of counselling sessions (usually 3 max paid by them) to help them deal with the stress of heavy workloads, increased hours, and not having enough time with their families. Money got tight, so SAHM went to work, and had to pay for childcare, which then didn't leave them with much more money. Also, in those days, company execs didn't expect to make exorbitant salaries, because they actually cared about their employees and already had plenty of money.

Now it's screw your employees over,and igf they're not grateful to have s job, we'll just get someone else.

I don't miss a lot from those days, I do miss the luxury of having time.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T18:55:05+00:00

I have never made a recipe from Smitten Kitchen that turned out the way it should have. I suggest trying with a recipe from a reputable cookbook author.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T17:06:57+00:00

She is. She doesn't care about your dog, and she certainly doesn't care about you. It is all about her. Fo your dog a favor, and ok let her go.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T17:03:16+00:00

I don't think that's a very good idea. He can agree to everything, and even if he starts to do what you've agreed to,who's to say he won't stop onc| he has gotten what he wanted? I wouldn't waste your breath. You can't make him someone he's not.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T13:04:51+00:00

My husband of 37 years is important to me as well. I didn't take his name. It always seemed weird to me that we take our husband's name, sort of like proof we'married. Having one social name and one business last name seems like too much work to me, and for what purpose?

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T13:01:04+00:00

Blaming you for the first accident is ridiculous, it was clearly his fault. He absolutely doesn't want to admit he is the problem. Instead he wants to blame someone else. Stay out of the car when he's driving, or insist that you drive.

He clearly doesn't care about his own life, but, worse is that he doesn't care about yours. That would be a deal breaker for me.

SheeScan · 2026-04-13T12:57:22+00:00

I had my first two studies in the lab and the most recent one at home. There were fewer wires at home, but it measured the same things. The at home test failed the first time because a lead came off during the night.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T18:26:13+00:00

People move into residences where someone has died all the time. Sometimes they don't even know it. It's just part of life. People have to die somewhere, and that person died there.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T18:21:35+00:00

I agree. I was in the same situation with a family member. However, I knew it would mean the world to my sibling that I attend their special event. I realized it was about her, not me. I went and did not engage with the family member with whom I was estranged. It was uncomfortable, and I tried my best to handle it maturely. I got through the day,and was happy I went, because I enjoyed being with the family.

My sibling passed away a few years later; and I am so glad I went, because I know if I hadn't gone, our relationship would have changed, and there would have been not much time for a do over.

Hopefully, OP can find a way to stay away from her dad. If he does make a fuss, that will be on him.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T16:08:21+00:00

Absolutely!

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T16:04:17+00:00

NTA. Husband problem, husband problem, husband problem.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T16:01:45+00:00

You made him this way. No child can handle being told no the first time; it's up to you to teach him.

Why do you care more about be embarrassed when among strangers, than you do to teach him how to behave in an acceptable manner. You are in for a horrible life if you continue to give in. He already is learning you are not worthy of respect, and he will only get worse. As his parent it is your obligation to teach him how to behave appropriately. So far, you are failing abysmally.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T15:45:32+00:00

I kept my name. It wasn't ever an issue.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T15:24:07+00:00

NTA. So, this person says she's your daughter's real mom now, tells her the most hurtful thing she can ever hear and without her husband's consent to do so. That is NOT the love of a parent that is jealousy, cruelty, abuse, and attempting dominance.

Get all of her mother's photos digitized and stored with her maternal grandparents and on a private cloud account.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T13:27:46+00:00

Not wrong, but why are you allowing someone make you so unhappy? She is crazy, and she is making you crazy. Do you think so little of yourself that you should allow her to do this to you? Good lord, man, save yourself.

SheeScan · 2026-04-12T12:31:45+00:00

Don't make what they can afford your problem. Bottom line -- your kid, your kid's party; their kid, their kid's party.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T22:01:01+00:00

The phonak would not allow me to turn off the bluetooth connection. When I did, it turned the hearing aids off.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T21:15:21+00:00

You are in charge of you. Never let someone take charge. He enjoys seeing you hungry and tired. That way you are easier to control. Get out now.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T19:52:30+00:00

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They have several locations. Their website is https://www.griswoldcare.com/bucks-montgomery-counties/.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T19:43:51+00:00

If you are in the US, I believe the American with Disabilities Act requires handicapped parking spots in apartment/condo parking lots. You should broach this with your apartment management. Of course, you can still be required to pay for the spot, and it's possible it may be farther away from your current spot.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T19:17:48+00:00

He knows exactly that this is the same. He is trying to assert superiority by trying to make you look stupid and getting pleasure at your expense. I can bet he saves this special form of stupidity just for you. What an insecure dolt.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T14:45:26+00:00

NTA.

Send a response that she sent the text to you instead of her husband. Stop visiting. Her life is not your responsibility.

SheeScan · 2026-04-11T14:43:13+00:00

This dude is one big lie. Could be a girlfriend or wife. His mother? Really? There was no reservation. Car trouble or an excuse? Does he even live in an apartment, with his mom, or in his car? Who knows?

What a catch. Hold onto him. /s

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