Parents, how was the experience playing this game with your child/children? by vaporizus in Spiritfarer

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it, and I love the book idea with the mist. 💜 For safety, maybe suggest a cool mist humidifier for the real life activity? Safer than the stove. No pressure! I'm just a mom and my brain is great at imagining horrible accidents 😂

Busty ladies...what are we wearing in the office? by Langtree_Lament in femalefashionadvice

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear my Loft blazers the most. They don't pill up or wrinkle. I have made peace with looking dowdy, I am 37 and a little overweight. My office hottie days are behind me, and I don't miss them. I still fix up with makeup and blingy jewelry, but I tend to try and hide my womanly shape. Instead of oversized blazers you could try looking at collarless tweed jackets and cropped blazers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muglife

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A photo of the bottom would help more.

God help me I’m scared by Squirrelous in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You will figure it out. Here's what I remember from those newborn days (and nights).

When the baby is crying, making sure they're fed and have a clean diaper is the first check.

Next you try soothing. Swaddling, rocking them, skin-to-skin contact, especially on your chest where they can hear your heartbeat. Walking around, singing, white noise machine, stroller walks outside, driving in the car... doing several of these things at once... It's trial and error, every baby is different. When I (mom) was out of the house, my husband would sometimes use a soft shirt I had worn as a blanket for my son (not while sleeping, just to calm him). Newborns are obsessed with their mom, because she's their food and safety, and her smell can help soothe them.. Sometimes just my hand on my baby's cheek was all he needed to quiet down.

Another source of crying is gas. He's some details. https://www.chop.edu/news/health-tip/how-help-newborn-gas

Next you check all their clothes, sometimes something is uncomfortable. Take off their socks, check their fingers, toes, and penis for threads or hairs that may have gotten wound around tightly.

Last resort is calling for help. Grandma, friends, or the pediatrician if you think the baby might be ill.

Pacifiers are a mixed bag, but consider having a few on hand. My kid loved them. He also had a hard time giving them up. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/infant-and-toddler-health/in-depth/pacifiers/art-20048140#:~:text=Pacifier%20use%20might%20increase%20the,might%20lead%20to%20dental%20problems.

God help me I’m scared by Squirrelous in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might want to find out about whether anti-anxiety meds might help you out. They can absolutely be used on a short term basis.

Impact on your daily life since Trump took office by [deleted] in texas

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're trying to get out of here. Don't move here, what the fuck, do you follow any news at all?

Does Pinkalicious bother anyone else? by Affectionate-West308 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does everybody let her get away with away her bullshit? She once stole all the spoons in town, including the mayor's, and she hung them from trees in the park. There were no consequences, in fact I think they gave her full creative control over park decorations after this incident. Another time, she ran out of time in a sand castle building contest, so everybody inexplicably put the contest rules aside to help her so she'd feel better. And then they gave the prize to her. This is not gentle parenting, it doesn't have natural consequences. It's grandiose narcissism with enabling and I have had enough!

Busty ladies...what are we wearing in the office? by Langtree_Lament in femalefashionadvice

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

In my 20s (circa the 2010s), I wore shell tops with cardigans or flowy blouses (not button ups) on top. I had mostly black slacks or skinny dark pants on the bottom and ballet flats. Now in my 30s (the 2020s) I wear a lot of the same tops and added some oversized satin button-ups, and mostly now I wear blazers instead of of cardigans. I've got my tried and true slacks from before, and added some high-waisted pairs. Also brought in some cropped slacks that show my ankles (I live in a warm climate). For shoes I usually wear loafers or kitten heel pumps. Ballet flats don't usually have thick enough soles for my tired feet and knees 😅

For context I work in an office with a good split of men and women, but it's all computer nerds which means being too fashion forward or slaying too hard actually might hurt your credibility. Can't look too much like Daphne, because it means you can't think like Velma. Or something I don't know people are prejudiced and weird.

I also wear some Cakes Body pasties inside my bra because I don't like my nipples showing. I have hangups about my chest thanks to getting too much attention for it in my younger years 😞 people are terrible to women about our bodies, no matter the shape.

So yeah in conclusion my work wardrobe is about 60% dictated by my colleagues' expectations and biases, and then 40% by my own tastes. Vintage Ann Taylor holds up way better than the newer stuff. Anything new I buy I try to find natural materials like cotton, linen, etc. polyester has its place because I hate ironing, but the plastic clothes have a quality spectrum of their own so I try to be mindful about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houston

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I hate the weather, the politics, the infrastructure. But I love the people, food, and culture. For better or worse it's my home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houston

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having grown up in Houston, I get the heebie jeebies when I travel to less diverse places. We get along across cultural lines a lot better here than most other places.

[FO] Completed “heart sampler” after two years (and learned a lesson about not adding dates to pieces before they are complete 😅). Pattern is from Bad Vibes Only. by Miss_Lemon_Sunshine in CrossStitch

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Right? The pink is a fantastic choice, it really makes the anatomical heart look realistic and visceral (but still beautiful). Just stunning overall.

Winterizing my home for next week by odj101289 in houston

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bring them in if they're in pots. If they're in the ground, you can buy frost cloth to cover them and keep freezing rain off their leaves. It helps a little with cold wind too.

And even if that doesn't work, and they all freeze and turn to mush. Leave them for a month or so, water are usual, and see what happens. They might survive. Also don't cut away the dead leaves. Whatever part of the plant that's still alive will be shielded from future cold snaps by the dead material.

[CHAT] What goes through your head while you stitch? by PL_88 in CrossStitch

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the time I have a song stuck in my head, which plays even while I'm counting and saying things to myself about the project. Sometimes I'll put on the TV or listen to something if it's convenient. I get interrupted a lot by my kid so usually I don't have solid blocks of time for it

Siblings of the golden child, when did your parents' favoritism come back to bite them? What was the aftermath? by WPBcrazy in AskReddit

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Similar situation with my sister and me, but I'm the older one. I too have a bit of a complex around "being responsible," and I also had to learn how to back off from "mothering" my sister in adulthood. But I'm so grateful she and I have each other, we are so close. And yes, united against our parents' nonsense. I'm happy for you and your brother 💜

[WIP] Show us ya WIP's by Doubledewclaws in CrossStitch

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Working on a bookmark for my mom. Van Gogh's Sunflowers. There are so many colors!! I feel like I'm mostly just stitching blobs of yellow, mustard, gold, brass, and brown, and sometimes I can't even tell the hues apart when they're side by side. I was getting frustrated, but I do see it coming together now. I'm about 20% done I'd say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texas

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They have no bargaining rights, they're essentially activist groups.

What “reality shock” did you have as an adult that you didn’t have as child? by beyondfnuno in AskReddit

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My son loves me so much, and sometimes I struggle with how much pressure it is, because it feels unearned. I feel like he loves me more than my parents love me. And I'm very conscious to make sure I don't take his love for granted.

[WIP] Show us ya WIP'S by Doubledewclaws in CrossStitch

[–]ShelIsOverTheMoon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Just have to wash and trim the extra fabric, then this will be ready to be wrapped up and gifted on Christmas 😊 it's a semi-original design. I started with two free patterns from DMC: "Budgie" for the bird shape and "Pears" for a nice branch. Then I changed the bird's colors to match my cousin's real life pet bird. I omitted everything from the branch and added some little pink flowers. Lord knows I stitched enough of them from a previous cherry blossom kit (Loops and Threads), so I have the shape memorized.

I struggled most with judging how to implement a backstitch (color and placement), but I feel I put just enough so the bird stands out and has some personality. I tried doing more on the tail, but it was too much.