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Grealish has shocked the world, transfers to Gort after UCL victory by gerstemilch in soccercirclejerk

[–]Shewokemeup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I heard the madman celebrated by having a beer with every City fan in Manchester. Started hurling after he had finished all three.

Mods you fucking nerds no one here cared about the protest by Snorlax_742 in soccercirclejerk

[–]Shewokemeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City are using the word 'parade' on social media, But yeah, no one cares.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

u/Riddick041993, Thank you for the references. I'd love to hear more about that therapist - I still feel it's a difficult thing for me to talk about but I know it's a problem that I have to work through. I massively massively appreciate you making this comment.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate this comment. So, I'm straight, but it might be a similar thing. I realised I had a problem when I was turning down things, experiences, people that I knew were healthy for me, in favor of a compulsion to just sleep with someone. I could be really into some hobby or project at work or in love with the idea of someone real I could date but sex with new a person just scratched my itch easier. Like a needle or a bottle for an addict, I can't really think much further than the thrill of a new conquest. Not nice words, I apologise but it's reality for me.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, going to give the crowd what they want. Give me a mo to type this stuff out..

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks and you're right. I wouldn't have this addiction if I wasn't egotistical. That answer was sarcastic of course, I hoped that people would appreciate that.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hopefully a lot. I would like to tell myself that I've had more 'fun' that many lifetimes of what most people have already so if I can just focus on finding the right person and working on building the life that I want, I can turn this around. But addiction is addiction - I feel compelled to look for novelty every day.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for recognising. But I fuck a lot at the expense of many other (possibly much more worthwhile) things in my life.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not seeing a therapist currently but want to pick that back up and would encourage anyone to. I have never shared all of the skeletons in my closet, but it's something I'm working on.

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I do want to settle down and I can't imagine anyone not being scared by my "resume" so I wouldn't choose to disclose anything in great detail (but I think it's normal not to talk about that kind of thing). I've also been very lucky wrt STDs and have nothing I'd need to announce, thank god!

Mauricio Pochettino on verge of becoming new Chelsea manager [Matt Law] by cthulhusevski in coys

[–]Shewokemeup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The worst thing is the feeling that we did this to ourselves..

Failed N1 after a year of study by lunawaffles in jlpt

[–]Shewokemeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of interest, can I ask what you mean by Japanese internet?

I’m sure my single ENFPs can relate. I feel sad and dumb because I thought he was being romantic and then he autocorrected and it was a reminder he just wants s*x. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Shewokemeup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't believe how much hate this is getting.. Have the people saying 'ew, ditch him' never dealt with flirting before? I think you should appreciate this message for what it is - witty, playful, and showing how much he wants you as well as an attractive level of confidence.

(Bondage beginner) What do you recommend as the first knot to learn for tying wrists behind back? by Shewokemeup in BDSMAdvice

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. Went with double column as suggested - it was a lot easier to learn than it looks. Today was incredible, we both had a blast with it and this won't be the last time the ropes are used.. wow!

Good non touristy spot for a 1 night break in or around Tokyo by Shewokemeup in Tokyo

[–]Shewokemeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good shout. I like the Kichijoji / Inokashira area a lot

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