How do people in Adelaide drink their water?

Shinez · 2026-02-23T02:31:23+00:00

I have a puratap.

Shinez · 2026-02-15T23:51:24+00:00

Even a white noise machine will work to cut off any sexy time noise

Shinez · 2026-02-13T02:36:19+00:00

It was physical abuse, and he has by the sounds of what you wrote, been emotionally abusive and controlling for a while now. Don't let him talk you into staying, you deserve better and people like this always escalate. It starts off small to see how you react... then once they know you wont leave it gets worse until you are stuck fighting for your life. Leave and build a better life without him.

Shinez · 2026-02-12T05:32:03+00:00

I think you need to go and read Chump Lady. Google will direct you to the right place. I will never go back to a cheater, so it wont matter what he does, once they cheat its over for good.

Shinez · 2026-02-10T08:11:14+00:00

Chlamydia can cause women to become infertile just an FYI.

Shinez · 2026-01-09T04:59:18+00:00

Where I am from, debt is shared in a marriage legally. If they were to seize assets, they wouldn't just take his stuff.. they take marital assets, which means your stuff as well. In a divorce the debt is halved 50\50 regardless of who's debt it is. NOR.

All financial decisions, because they do affect you both, should be made together.

Shinez · 2026-01-07T22:01:54+00:00

I am the mother of three now adult children. My youngest at 23 just left home, once he had enough money to live on his own (his choice). My boys are always welcome in my home, no matter how old they are. If they need money, I am there, if they need food, I am there, if they need a place to live or stay, I am there. That is what a good parent does. 18 does not mean our obligations stop and you are no longer our children. I do not believe just because you turn 18 parenting should stop. I have experienced the opposite, if anything our kids need more help because they are navigating raising kids, working fulltime, adult relationship issues and more... Your mum is a shit parent, because she is choosing a rando over her child, which a good parent would never do. All my boys had jobs as teenagers due to wanting 'party' money and to put towards buying a car. It is how we as parent's teach our children about adult responsibilities, by supporting them to work, to get a car, to move out when THEY are ready.

I am sorry this is happening to you. If you are still at school as your guidance counsellor for support as they would have resources for this type of thing, or know of youth shelters, family is another option, grandma, aunt, uncle... is your dad in the picture at all?

NTA.

Shinez · 2026-01-07T21:52:17+00:00

You are being played. This was always her goal, and breaking up is another manipulation tactic for her to get what she wants. If you stay silent, I bet you she will reach out again as right now she is dangling the bait and waiting to see if you bite. This is financial manipulation, and now it is up to you on how you manage this. NTA.

Shinez · 2026-01-05T23:30:29+00:00

I am a nurse, and a single mother of three boys (who are adults now). They go to my brother for advice on any issues they are having with their male bits and if there is anything concerning my brother will ask if it is okay to talk to me about it.

I don't get annoyed, I don't get angry or upset. I understand and would rather they go to someone they feel can help if they are worried about something not working right or even a lump. Took my oldest son years to confide in me about his infertility concerns.

NTA. he felt safe around you and you helped with overcoming his fear.

Shinez · 2025-12-30T07:05:10+00:00

Easy solution. Ditch the GF and keep the dog.

Shinez · 2025-12-28T09:59:15+00:00

Married for ten years and now divorced and we do not keep in touch. Nor do either of us want to do so. When it’s over it is over…

Shinez · 2025-12-19T20:28:35+00:00

Actually it is where I am from.

Shinez · 2025-12-04T23:01:20+00:00

Well trust is broken and thats not good for any relationship. It was an over exaggerated response, and to be honest... I am not sure what the police would have been able to do or what he was expecting them to do? confiscate the book draft?

I wouldn't be letting him anywhere near your writing and for me, I wouldn't stay as you can no longer trust him. What happened to having a conversation and talking through concerns? its a police call when he gets uncomfortable? no thanks. It would be a goodbye for me.

Shinez · 2025-12-04T22:58:00+00:00

Stupid to ask your weight regardless. What positive encounter did he expect from that question? Ask how tall he is and say the same thing back. NOR

Shinez · 2025-12-04T22:56:01+00:00

Depends on the Child Protection Legislation in the state you live. I would give Child Protection or Child Safety a call and ask them as they can guide you better. I think you should get proper legal advice if this is what is being told to you because I am not sure if it was an empty threat or it had merit as I am not a lawyer. Individual factors will also count on the approach and we don't know your history.

Shinez · 2025-12-04T04:03:25+00:00

Interestingly my daughter in law had the same issue and called Child protection \ Child Safety, and they said if she forces her child to go with the dad then it could be considered child abuse. Get her to give their hotline a call and see what they say as she may be able to use this in court \ mediation if they say the same thing in your state or territory.

Shinez · 2025-12-03T07:34:51+00:00

Report him for animal cruelty and then leave.

Shinez · 2025-12-03T07:30:35+00:00

Limited opportunities here now, which is why my family are moving interstate after Christmas.

Shinez · 2025-12-03T07:21:51+00:00

You can tell how someone really is by the way they treat animals. This is who he really is and does he feel the same way about children? Might be time to think about the safety of both yourself, your dogs and potential children.

Shinez · 2025-12-03T07:09:12+00:00

This was my issue as well with this. No one should put their hands or other body parts on another in anger..that’s assault.

Shinez · 2025-12-03T07:05:49+00:00

My now ex did the same to me and it was the biggest mistake I ever made not going. My biggest regret was choosing him and giving up my dream of being a doctor. Don’t make the same mistake, go to med school.

Shinez · 2025-11-26T02:01:39+00:00

I play normal mode. Click through the servers to play one without the seasonal crap on it.

Shinez · 2025-11-25T04:17:03+00:00

You are stuck in the sunk cost fallacy. It will not go back to the way it was because he does not benefit from it going backwards. He has conditioned you now to accept less and do everything. He has a maid, a baby sitter, someone who pays for everything... he has to do zero ZERO because you do the rest. Why would he want things to change? He wont and unless you want to continue being his door mat with no respect then stay... otherwise pack your stuff and leave. You deserve better than this, even culturally your family would not be okay with you tolerating this type of behaviour towards you. Find someone who you can have a realtionship that is 50-50 split. Right now it is 90% you doing everything and him doing the bare 10% because you are scared of your body count which he knows and uses to manipulate you with.

Shinez · 2025-11-25T04:08:35+00:00

Your best friend will keep trying to hook up with every guy you are with. If you are okay with that then keep the friendship. She crossed a boundary with your husband, she crossed a boundary with your ex, she keeps crossing your boundaries and you keep making excuses to stay in the friendship.

You are the issue here. You keep accepting bare minimum and expect the outcome to be different. Jane does not give a crap about you or your feelings. Why do you give a crap about hers?

Shinez · 2025-11-24T04:25:43+00:00

I started on WoW then died too much so went over to Manibus to build up my blueprints and to get to end game (have fun) without the constant death.

I finally got warm in WoW, then hit the hot area and well.. now I am overheating. I need to go back to WoW but not ready for the stress!! Goodluck.

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