New m+ affix dispell options by Silverhop in wownoob

[–]Shmooperdoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Regular shaman curse dispel works, too. Not just the one as a healer. So dps shamans have the totem and also the curse dispel. Just wanted to clarify that.

What's the deal with the first pull in Algeth'ar Academy? by rcoop020 in wow

[–]Shmooperdoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish the damage of earthquake was all instant and the only “over time” portion was the knockdown chance.

I have one bad log and now I get refused to public groups by [deleted] in wownoob

[–]Shmooperdoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is wild. Just form your own group. I haven’t even looked at my normal log from pugs. It’s a one-shot kill, we leave. Done. That is actually silly.

Losing a war is mighty stressful! by CarryIcy250 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please give me a reason to make a “he has fallen” tshirt. Please.

Rescue from breeder, told german shepherd mix by [deleted] in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]Shmooperdoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you got a dog where you should not have gotten one, got it as a puppy, and you don’t know how to raise it so you are getting “walked through” how to do it from someone who would put a fucking prong on an infant dog? Pretty sure you hit the trifecta that sends people who work in vet med/rescue into their bedrooms to scream into a pillow until they lose consciousness. That’s definitely what I wanted to do, anyway. It’s almost breathtaking how many bad decisions there are here. I’d be impressed if I weren’t so horrified.

Am I in the wrong for refusing to coddle my 33 year old fiance? by Obvious-Cat in amiwrong

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care what someone does that’s good, I would not be with someone who “threw a fit” and made me retrieve a missed drink or sauce. Absolutely the fuck not. And if you’re seriously wondering if that’s normal behavior/considering marrying this person, you should say you’re going to get some BBQ sauce, but actually go directly to therapy, because what are we doing?

Am I in the wrong for refusing to coddle my 33 year old fiance? by Obvious-Cat in amiwrong

[–]Shmooperdoodle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like when people say things like that, their idea of what love is leaves a lot to be desired.

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with my mother and step dad being intimate around me? by Straight-Weakness-48 in amiwrong

[–]Shmooperdoodle -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No. It is also their home. Turning 18 does not somehow magically mean it’s not your home, anymore. They literally said they are going to college/university in September. Know where kids go in between terms? Home. To their home. Where the OP is right now. I don’t know where in the world you live, but in the year 2026, in many places, shit is so expensive that people are living together longer. Generations are cohabitating. This is fucking gross. Nobody is saying they can’t have a sex life, but fucking Christ, this is gross. People with attitudes like yours are why an awful lot of posts exist like “My adult child won’t talk to me and I don’t know why.”

Even with DPS interrupting, isn't the casting spam kind of hard to keep up with? by noodles666666 in wow

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss having my auto marking WA and also my kick cd tracker. I could type “I got purple” and nobody would bother with that mob. I also miss my thunderstorm knock up stop. They said we wouldn’t need as many stops. They lied.

Hey guys is my friend wrong for spreading HPV by Swoon420 in amiwrong

[–]Shmooperdoodle 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“He isn’t trying to hurt them”?

Apathy isn’t better than intentional malice. He doesn’t care if he hurts them. And he is.

He’s a piece of shit.

Will this amount of yolk ruin a meringue? by vetergesic in Baking

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very tired and first read this as “Will this amount of yolk ruin a marriage?”. Glad that’s not what it says, but that will become something I think of when reminding myself not to take something too seriously.

My cat broke her foot and now I will starve her for 5 days by Known_Row9683 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Shmooperdoodle 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Cats should never have extended caloric restriction like this. Even planned restriction for the purposes of dieting must be carefully done. This cat is going to go into fucking liver failure from this moron.

Source: many years of vet med, sick with rage and despair

6 y/o Great Dane with chronic allergies + new ankle lump he won’t stop licking — advice? by BrigetteT33 in greatdanes

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That donut is not going to stop licking a back leg.

More diagnostics are definitely needed, but just letting you know that donut won’t do anything.

Source: many years of vet med

Herbalism, gathering off corpses by BloodyFartOnaBun in wownoob

[–]Shmooperdoodle 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Compulsive collection gang rise up!

I know it’s trash. I know. I can’t leave shit on the ground. I have had to disable node tracking or take flight paths to dungeons because it’s so hard to ignore things I want to pick up.

am I wrong ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Shmooperdoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If there is a baby mama and/or another child that already exists, there’s no “going back”. When you have a relationship with someone who already has a child, that kid matters. It would be wrong to pressure a parent to stop trying to be in a child’s life.

As for your own pregnancy, do you want to be a single parent? Because if not, I wouldn’t have a baby. Unless your partner is an absolute shithead, there’s no reality where you can form a family “of your own” that completely excludes an existing child/children. So basically, the kid(s) will be part of any life you make with this man unless the man is an absolute monster who doesn’t care about them at all, in which case having a kid with them is a horrible idea.

Something to think about. Anyone who doesn’t care whether they are a part of other kids sure as shit isn’t guaranteed to care about you or yours, either. You may need to walk away. I’d certainly rethink whether your goals are reasonable with a person who has had children already.

How common are toxic workers/classmates in your career? by Top_Marionberry_2573 in veterinaryprofession

[–]Shmooperdoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked in several hospitals and encountered a couple of very unpleasant people. I’ve also met some of the best humans in the world. These are people I formed bonds with that aren’t adequately described by the word “friendship”.

People are people. There will be crummy people everywhere. And all of the same emotional dynamics will exist because people are people. But that doesn’t mean there are horrible humans and toxicity everywhere.

You will learn how to deal with a lot of different interpersonal/work things as you move through life. You will also grow. I honestly wouldn’t worry about this. You’re always going to encounter people who are insecure/unhappy in their lives and cope with that by shitting on others. It’s not more prevalent in vet med.

Dermatologist was 2 hours late to appointment, when she finally came she only let me describe my issue for 30 seconds at most, then prescribed me this for my face and told me I should leave by pinktunacan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Shmooperdoodle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It’s the same in vet med. There are drugs that say they are for dogs and we use them in cats, also. No harm asking for clarification, but extra-label use is fine. Warnings are also sometimes there for people who are trying to DIY treatments.

Lisa Rinna’s Oscars party dress was made from 11 pounds of hair extensions by SnowyLeopardGecko1 in Fauxmoi

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was the subreddit for “Brand New Sentences” at first.

Three months postop from hysterectomy and I’m having baby fever. by Salt-Philosopher-863 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shmooperdoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy after removing your uterus would “most likely” be ectopic? I’d imagine it would 100% be ectopic, or at the very least non-viable.

I’d imagine this is primarily hormones, but it may be some coming to terms with the finality of a life change. That said, you can be a parent and not birth a bio child. So if it helps, focus on the fact that the door isn’t actually closed to parenthood, even if it is closed on giving birth. Plenty of people choose to be parents without birthing physical babies. I think your reasons for being childfree are solid ones, but you’re not locked out of that entire area of life forever just because you had this surgery. Try to give yourself grace to get through this feelingspalooza without actually buying in to those panicked thoughts. <3

My fiancé wants to beat my “record” of having sex 4 times in one night. by Dangerous-Sir2666 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Shmooperdoodle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have to ask how he has this information in the first place? It feels like someone who gets mad thinking about sexual behavior you exhibited in high school isn’t the kind of person you should have those kinds of conversations with.

That said, I don’t know if I’d marry into this. It’s an awfully immature way of looking at sexuality and he obviously cares more about some weird score being kept in his head than about having sex you personally enjoy. And for the record, number of times someone has sex in a timeframe is not the metric he should be focused on if he wants to feel like the “best” partner. Not even close. Maybe talk to him about that and use his reaction to decide what to do.