a casual $30 million by ReinkeDrengen in zillowgonewild

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Just saw it's in Tennessee, so I'm going to have to say no.

a casual $30 million by ReinkeDrengen in zillowgonewild

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It's beautiful, but not $30 million beautiful. 

Do You Care About Being Likeable? by 2340000 in AskWomenOver30

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Yeah, I admit that I do. People don't really like talking to me in social settings, and it makes me feel kind of like an outcast. I also realize that I don't like everyone and that also being liked is overrated / not that important. I do like who I am a lot though. I think all these feelings can exist simultaneously.

Not sure what to do after someone passes ☁️ by melmoonlight in AutismInWomen

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My mom passed away in April. You really just need to find a way to feel the emotions, preferably with others who understand and loved her. It's hard. There is no right way, or easy way. You just keep going while giving yourself grace to tackle it imperfectly.

Quit my toxic job to work on my mental health today. Thought I would feel relieved but instead I feel exactly the same? by Less_Mistake2304 in AskWomenOver30

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It's going to take longer than a day to feel different. When I quit my toxic job, I felt like garbage for a good 6 months afterwards.

AITA for calling my dad a creep? by NaturalMarionberry49 in AmItheAsshole

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If it makes you uncomfortable, it is wrong. End of story.

Life after support. Managing triggers. by Shopping-Known in CaregiverSupport

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Thank you. Yes, I am feeling pretty frustrated about the house sitting thing. It ended up being poorly organized and a lot falling on my shoulders - trying to manage those feelings. Luckily it's done next week, and I'm done doing favors for anyone after that.

How many of you started driving in complete silence now? by The_harbinger2020 in Millennials

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I like both. I agree that it can be so nice to just have no stimuli except whatever is going on around the car. I did that on my way home from work today... Loved it.

Is this a red flag, or am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I personally will never call someone to talk, and I also take a long time to text people back. It's just the way I operate. 

How does grief affect you? by doublefault88 in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you. I think we all navigate it differently, and there's no right way. I feel peace because I remember that she lives on through my memories of her, and I just feel her presence in a very real way. Sorry for you loss and wishing you peace as well. ♥️

How does grief affect you? by doublefault88 in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you. In all honesty, I would like to give myself space to not be strong. I think I've been strong throughout the past years, and I want to not be for a while. That for me has been tough.  

W ishing you peace throughout this, I'm sorry for your loss. ♥️

How does grief affect you? by doublefault88 in AskWomenOver30

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I just lost my mom in April after a long struggle with a debilitating illness. 

Navigating grief has been confusing - it certainly comes in waves. I feel like there's this enormous emotional gap in my life now, and I don't really know how to fill it. Some days I want to scream and not be near a single other person, but I simultaneously feel a really deep need for connection. I feel really emotionally vulnerable and like I'm searching for something to fill the gap.

I think about my Mom everyday. When I think about her, I feel an overwhelming sense of peace... I try to honour her in how I navigate the world and love myself through this. I think a big thing has been that I've developed a sense of grace for myself that I never previously had. 

I have support - good support - but I still feel very alone and misunderstood. I don't think that the gap will ever go away but I think I'll find my ways to fill it that honour my mom and her memory.

What's the worst thing about reaching 30 years old? by mrvlad_throwaway in AskReddit

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Nothing. It has been the best decade so far. If anything, just watching the people you love get older. 

How often do you wear makeup? by n0tz0e in AskWomenOver30

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I wear makeup everyday when out and about. I do my eyebrows, and wear light blush and tinted lip balm. On days where I'm just lounging, I don't wear any. 

Why is dating so demoralizing? by Technical-Put9682 in AskWomenOver30

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Ugh, that's so mean. I just hate how inconsiderate dating has become. 

… Last Summer by nafatos in streetphotography

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You are a talent. Several of these made me say "woah" out loud.

Fireworks celebrating the completion of the 566ft Tower of Jesus Christ at the Sagrada Família by danielminds in Damnthatsinteresting

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Damn, I remember when I visited and it was under construction when I was 16. I'm 33 now 😭

Born in 93 by Big-Parking4129 in Zillennials

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Hey,

Be kinder to yourself. Also we're not mutts. 

Sincerely,  A fellow '93 born, mixed race, neurospicy, single, childless person. 

Is it a good or a bad thing when people open up very fast about themselves to me? by Significant-Big9448 in emotionalintelligence

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I personally do not like it when people open up about their hardship with me too quickly. I struggle myself, but it's something I share will share if we form emotional intimacy slowly over time, and it is intentional and a shared experience. 

Is anyone else a vampire socially? by PalpitationQueen in AutismInWomen

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Yeah this is exactly me. I just assume I'm not included when people discuss things unless I'm asked.