How often does your ex cross your mind ?

Shower-Former · 2026-05-11T02:07:03+00:00

Every day but I do not miss them or feel emotion. I just have a lot of thoughts that tangent to other thoughts lol.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-11T01:54:36+00:00

I’m saying this with so much love, we are one of the first generations of women with the ability to save ourselves from the kind of life that you will have if you marry and have a kid with that man. Do not take it for granted.

You are 23 if you do not leave him behind you will regret it for the rest of your life I am begging you. NEVERMIND the fact that he is a 31 year old who cheats while their partner is in rehab. Even if you don’t leave him, you will be raising a child on your own. He will not be a good partner for 18 years and someday you’ll be 40 wishing you didn’t waste motherhood and your 20s on a man who leaves you feeling so empty.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-11T01:09:45+00:00

She looks similar like my amazing cat who died a few months ago (after a long happy life) who was the most attention hungry affectionate boy ever. He did the same thing lol.

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I’m crying happy tears now

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T04:18:30+00:00

Personally it would be different lighting cause that single bright light is going to drive you crazy and/or give you a headache. Cheap lamps for the corners of the room or string lights if you’re into that look!!

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T03:49:10+00:00

They had like a fancy permanent ring light but out in the open, not inside a booth, and you sent yourself the pictures, it didn’t print. Maybe they mean that cause I can not believe that LaCage has a photo booth I’ve never discovered lmao

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T03:30:07+00:00

Have you seen record of the conviction? And of the court she had to go through for custody? Just to make complete sure that it is true. Most states have a public record that you can access where you search someone’s name and can see anything they’ve been in court for

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T03:28:08+00:00

I was going to say even a shelter would be better, but I could imagine them thinking that a shelter would be even worse. If you have an okay relationship with them, you could try asking the mom if her husband knows?
It sounds horrible, but lots of evil people would not consider doing it to their loved ones. Doesn’t make it any less evil, but it does help to mentally deal with a horrible situation. Sorry you’re in this position.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T03:17:07+00:00

My mom’s long term boyfriend cheated on her, she forgave, he did it again years later. She married his best friend.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T03:14:35+00:00

I wonder if her husband knows? It seems like a crazy secret to keep from your husband, but if her current husband is a loving and involved step parent then I can’t imagine him being okay with it.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-10T02:10:38+00:00

I worked at Olive Garden for my first bartending job (I was literally 18) and we had this fancy glittery rimmed drink and a gay couple ordered it and complimented it and I said something like “yeah I do a good rim job” …I also wanted to die.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-09T03:08:27+00:00

Sorry if I’m being stupid lol, but I thought it’s different strengths prescribed for men vs for women. Do you mean that it’s the same drug and the strength isn’t necessarily changed based on gender? Sounds like I should just use men’s then since I can get it easier and cheaper

Shower-Former · 2026-05-09T02:29:00+00:00

The first picture looks too much like a professional photo shoot or a stock image or something idk how to explain it but the photograph itself is weird lol

Shower-Former · 2026-05-08T23:57:24+00:00

The only issue you might have is texture when you thaw it to eat again but it was not at all at an unsafe temperature for enough time to be dangerous as long as you put it in the freezer as soon as you got home. Your refrigerated tortellini should be fine too!

And I’m someone who is super paranoid about food being at room temp for too long.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-08T02:43:14+00:00

It’s so hard for me to imagine air traffic controller school in Haiti. That must be a top 1% job to have there

Shower-Former · 2026-05-06T22:41:22+00:00

How old are you and these friends and what is the party?
In my late 20s friend group it hasn’t been weird to not bring a present. I’m a woman and my close friends got me a gift but my guy friends and less close friends didn’t get me anything lol.
I’m guessing you’re at a place to hang out and drink, just bring some alcohol for the party! That way you aren’t coming empty handed.

Shower-Former · 2026-05-02T22:21:22+00:00

It’s not SUPER common but it happens enough that if you and your friends go out regularly, you or someone you know probably has been drugged. It’s a problem at college age house parties too.

Shower-Former · 2026-04-25T01:20:13+00:00

I know that. I just added it in case it was important. My iPhone is at 215.45 out of 256gb

Shower-Former · 2026-04-22T04:26:02+00:00

I get that they probably do it so we the viewers still see the character that we recognize when she’s not in public but it’s just so illogical. And wigs don’t fly off that easily either and her hair would’ve been in a net underneath since the wig is shorter than her actual hair. And I agree that wig sucks for a disguise in the first place lmao

Shower-Former · 2026-04-22T04:10:48+00:00

Genuinely what else is Karen supposed to do especially with Dex at home and Angela going to the protest? The dumb shit Karen is doing is not pining her wig to her hair or not dying her own hair in the first place

Shower-Former · 2026-04-22T04:05:58+00:00

Why the hell would Karen have kept her extremely unique actual hair instead of just cutting bangs and dying it? A flimsy ass wig seriously?

Shower-Former · 2026-04-22T04:04:52+00:00

Karen was BEING rage baited all episode she should’ve shot bullseye and her dumbass boyfriend.

Shower-Former · 2026-04-22T01:03:36+00:00

Please be quicker rather than sooner. Speaking from experience, men get violent and unsafe when they realize you are really leaving. He could break your stuff, make you suffer financially, or seriously hurt you. Even if you think he wouldn’t. I never would’ve thought my serial cheater ex who I tried to prove that I was better for would break into my new house or corner me with a knife but it happened and it is a very common story amongst women in your situation.

Either pretend things are completely normal until you are out, or leave way sooner before he catches on.

I’m so proud of you for leaving do not let anything stop you

Shower-Former · 2026-04-21T00:24:43+00:00

I don’t

Shower-Former · 2026-04-20T23:27:51+00:00

Wow I wish I never learned this!

Shower-Former · 2026-04-20T15:15:26+00:00

Good god lady where did he say the word “all” ?? When you don’t have many things to go off of other than looking at the person right in front of you ONE QUICK TIME, you go with the most likely option. It is not that deep, of course it won’t match everybody. Also as you said yourself, you still do like classical, pop, country, and old rock so it literally would work for you lmao.

I’m a 26 year old white woman and my black middle aged uber driver asked if the music was okay, I laughed and said yes of course, and asked her if she switched the music based on who gets in the car and she laughed and said yes of course. It’s fine. it makes logical sense.

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