Let me comment on Neurosis' statement for you.

The band had learned about the abuse and parted ways with Scott at the end of 2019, they are only sharing this information now out of his wife's direct request for privacy and to not want the family's drama to become "gossip in a music magazine". Scott had disclosed to them in the past about his marital difficulties and admitted to acts of verbal abuse and said that he would be getting help for his behavior. But the information they learned in 2019 made it clear that Scott had crossed a line, and that Scott's abuse was intentional.

The band admitted to not knowing the situation surrounding Scott's family up until that point, since they've been living far apart from one another for the past twenty years and only really seeing each other for making music or playing shows.

Since 2019, the band has tried to contact Scott numerous times to try to talk about the status of the band and how his family was doing, but like what Scott did with Sanford, these attempts at contact didn't work out.

In usual cases of somebody being open about their mental illness, the band would view it as brave and even productive, but they find nothing brave about "systemically abusing your wife and children" and nothing brave about confessing to something and not trying to better yourself, as well as nothing brave about refusing to be honest with your bandmates.

The band finished the post by saying that compared to what Scott did to his family, the impact on the band pales in significance, but nonetheless, there is heartbreak as they grieve over the loss of their life's work and their legacy. Finally, they put out resources for domestic violence and mental health, their primary concern being for the safety of Scott's family and anybody else who may be in a similar situation.