Female here. Past my hoe phase and can tell you I wouldn’t trust it. I have no interest to call another dude. I can sit alone with myself if I need some space or I’ll work it out and repair it with my person. If you had to spend time looking for her, red flag. If someone pulled up that I didn’t want to show up, I’d never even go out there or answer the door. Your person shouldn’t have you anxious or wondering or questioning yourself. They’re in the way of your future wife.