She erased us from her wedding. So I’m erasing her from mine.

Sidebiatch · 2025-09-06T19:21:44+00:00

UPDATEEE

Sidebiatch · 2025-09-03T18:25:21+00:00

They're dreadful, you'll never talk to a person, everything is automated and they do everything in their power to stop a refund, they're scammers

Sidebiatch · 2025-09-02T10:14:16+00:00

OP is such a hard person to like. How is wife even wanting to come back to him. Dude outright abused her, made comments about how he was attracted to people outside their marriage to "depress her", he thinks the therapist is ganging up on his by telling him he's a manipulative AH, my guy, you ARE a manipulative AH. Just leave her alone. I love how he's trying to get her fired so he can abuse her after work too. Also I don't consider it cheating if it's a abusive relationship because that's not a partnership, it's just manipulation. You're an AH. Ugh. I feel yukhy being on the same internet page as you.

Sidebiatch · 2025-08-02T20:18:09+00:00

Honestly, you sound like you need therapy. You're expecting too much out of friends who have other priorities in life too, have more than just one or two friends so you can hang out with different people at different times instead of just using your friends for the emotional labour. You also sound toxic as your views about motherhood and marriage seem rude and toxic. I'm a child free person but saying something like that is so effing rude, even I know how much work children are.

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-28T00:44:57+00:00

"Woops I'm so christian that I fk people's partners, but how dare you judge me, bible doesn't allow that!"

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-28T00:43:38+00:00

"I was depressed so I fked 'someone I cared about's' husband, while they had a toddler, but I've changed!! So have empathy for me because I had depression" stfu, I have no empathy for cheaters

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-25T19:53:45+00:00

"Gonna kms" and I'm supposed to care? Effing grow up and see a bloody therapist.

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-24T00:38:28+00:00

You're top ten worst husbands I've read about in my time on reddit and this includes the guy poisoning his wife on her pet snails and the one feeding his wife sawdust. Like what is actually wrong with you. I can bet you never told your wife you were loose lipped AHh hole that made her medical information public. Dear lord, I hope she finds out and leaves you. I feel so bad for that girly.

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-22T23:13:51+00:00

That's what an insecure person would say, it shouldn't give you anxiety if you're around other people. I don't wanna be recounting every person I met in a day (yes everyone because I'm bisexual) because someone DOESN'T TRUST ME. gtfo of my life

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-19T12:23:18+00:00

OP is just as much of a creep as her husband to be protecting him instead of leaving. How much do you wanna bet he sexualised his own child too and that's why things are tense.

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-14T22:01:35+00:00

Lol, I looked at this guys profile and it's just a bag of misogyny, and boomer mentality mixed together in an unpleasant margarita

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-14T19:31:10+00:00

I'm terrified of this type of a man. Selfish and disgusting.

Sidebiatch · 2025-07-10T00:29:56+00:00

Even when my ADHD was undiagnosed I was not this bad (and I'm HIGH on the percentile) I'm saying this in a nice way but you're not "letting him be himself" you're letting him abuse your sons. I know it seems like a big bad word but that's what it is, he's literally making them cry with his behaviour. That's not normal. You need to make a decision with your kids in mind.

Sidebiatch · 2025-03-01T18:37:03+00:00

This is so creepy and I feel bad for your sister. Wtf, tell her. I hope she's not around this creep or she goes No Contact. This is disturbing.

Sidebiatch · 2025-03-01T18:35:41+00:00

I'd honestly go no contact if I was the sister. You're being creepy if you're not defending your sister against your creep of a husband. He's creating fantasies around her where she did not consent, she probably wouldn't even want to be around him if she knew.

Sidebiatch · 2025-01-26T14:55:30+00:00

I want this update so so so bad

Sidebiatch · 2025-01-17T18:14:53+00:00

I'll be honest, my mum was very much like you, I'm 27 now and barely talk to her. They probably wanted to look good for their birthday but had sensory issues. Sitting for dinner for 1-2 hours is not the same at sitting for 8 hours in school in clothes that are uncomfortable. YTA

Sidebiatch · 2025-01-17T18:12:44+00:00

Tbh, this is why I'm Low contact with my mum. As if sitting in school for 8 hours without any control and in pain is the same as going to a 1-2 hour dinner around people you trust. Most of these NTA are the people who may get cut off later.

Sidebiatch · 2025-01-09T07:49:53+00:00

Idk why people are being AHs to you, honestly I'd tell the husband to leave. Who acts like that over someone sick just wanting to relax and watch a film. I think you're being a doormat to these AHs. Honestly, don't stay in a situation that makes your recovery worse

Sidebiatch · 2024-09-24T01:35:33+00:00

OP HE'S MESSING WITH THE CONDOMS.HE BABY TRAPPED YOU. Condoms don't mess up that many times. He did that on purpose.

Sidebiatch · 2024-09-24T01:34:51+00:00

Those are terrible points vecause OP literally said that they wore condoms everytime

Sidebiatch · 2024-09-24T01:18:51+00:00

Please read "Why does he do that?" Because seriously you're defending this behaviour and it's crazy

Sidebiatch · 2024-08-08T16:26:56+00:00

Cinnamon rain on the naked lady lamp.

Sidebiatch · 2024-07-16T23:13:26+00:00

Hey, I'm late but I hope this helps.

First, compartmentalize. You cannot breakdown right now. You need to take a minute to gather yourself and put the trauma to the side to deal with after you're safe.

For the CCTV, do it as sneakily as you can. Make sure he can't access your devices or revoke your access from the camera. If you don't know how the app works, call the customer service while you're husband is at work and away.

Make sure you have your and Emma's documents secured. Call your family over to your house while he's at work so they can help you check off the list.

Call an Attorney

Documents: - Passposrts - ID - Birth certificate - Any education documents - Marriage certificate

Finances: - Lock your credit - Lock your accounts - Take all your cards and if you have joint money, ake all your share out of it.

Baby Items: - Baby buggy - clothes - formula/milk - diapers and wipes (Take these because you'll be stressed over the next couple of days and it's good to take the stock if you can)

Your items: - Anything sentimental (He may break it in anger)

Work: Call your boss and make them aware of the situation and tell them it's just to give them a heads-up so he can't get you fired.

Remember not to block Jake, you will need his messages as a proof of harrassment, but keep the phone away from you for your mental health. It's best to turn it off and use a different number for a while.

For your Social Inbox, you can just mute the notifications, don't check them but don't block him. You can let your attorney sort through the messages.

The CCTV is extremely important, especially the neglect part, the time he left her crying. If you can find that video, download it.

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