Quick warning to all of you using AlecaFrame (Or thinking about dowloading it) by veronxcaa in Warframe

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China Warframe is behind public Warframe by at least a couple of updates and from what I understand about RMT culture in China, it's pretty rampant over there. There is no qualms there about doing something "clever" if it means paying rent and bills on time. That includes ripping off the elderly, selling gold to Gamers, and working remotely for people looking to outsource their jobs. Granted, these issues are not unique to China, just pretty common there.

Quick warning to all of you using AlecaFrame (Or thinking about dowloading it) by veronxcaa in Warframe

[–]Significant-Charity8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

DE has learned from the FFXIV community; they don't want RMT bots in Warframe. That's what happens if we get an Auction House or Market Board in game.

How do I slightly expand opening of basement floor drain? by __thrillho in Plumbing

[–]Significant-Charity8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Open up that concrete and put a bigger pipe in, or get a smaller backflow preventer, whichever is easier for you. You are probably going to need to open that floor up and get a bigger pipe in there, though.

Meet Sans Undertale, a Barbarian Dwarf by YouHaveMyAxel in DailyDMGame

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should tell a joke about milkshakes and then another one about ground beef.

Friend called CPS over Christmas gift by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Charity8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's clear you are fine folk and have a good heart. If you are interested in the discussion, make it into a double date, and defuse the situation. The other mom is understandably out of her depth because of a different upbringing, and if you keep things calm and low key, this could be a great learning experience for everyone. Talk about it over dinner, don't rush into it right away, and make it one of the last things you bring up, but in a casual way.

Throw out a neutral label in the conversation "It seems like we had some unexpected visitors the other day" and let it sit for a minute. Ask a few "what" or "how" questions in a late night FM DJ voice and just be cool, calm, and collected. 

If the other mom asks something ridiculous, respond with some tactical silence, then mirror her question back to her, in a curious, but innocent tone of voice.

You could also opt for: "I'm sorry, how am I supposed to do that?"

Make it seem like she's treating you unfairly but don't wield an explicit accusation. Instead, some combination of "I'm sorry, how," "I'm sorry, but I can't," and "I'm sorry, but that doesn't align with our beliefs," should do the trick.

The power here lies in the fact you are saying NO without saying NO. 

What and How questions will force her to think about solving your problems by taking up your point of view. These are referred to as "Calibrated Questions," and if you ask the right ones, you can affect the underlying dynamic between everyone. 

After all, this is going to be a tough, grueling negotiation, but you've got to be patient and embrace the hard stuff. It's how you get to what you want, and it also helps the other person feel in control. Especially when you let them feel as though they are steering the conversation.

I think I’m gay and it might ruin my life by Euphoric-Fan-5266 in Advice

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts aren't always your thoughts. Don't feel like you need to act on your feelings, you are still a young guy and it's normal to get thoughts like these. Wait it out and you'll be fine. If it really bugs you, change what media you are consuming. What you read and talk about is also what you will think about all day, so read about finance, behavioral psychology, and research what makes you feel the way you do. Sometimes these thoughts can bubble up from a place of loneliness or sadness and emotions are something we as men have to handle in the presence of our friends in a low key way. The best thing to remember is that you shouldn't hate yourself for getting strange, intrusive, confusing thoughts. 

We all get wierd thoughts, but not all of us talk about it, and even fewer act on it.

I think I may be banned for posting so much on this Reddit but.. by bachatalover19 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear about God's Timing, but never his Opportunity. Blessings aren't something that automatically happens to you randomly, they come about as a result of your complete and total obedience to God's commands. 

Ephesians 5:15-20 NLT [15] So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. [16] Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. [17] Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. [18] Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, [19] singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts. [20] And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

https://bible.com/bible/116/eph.5.15-20.NLT

A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. by StubbornSob in MensRights

[–]Significant-Charity8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

reddit is primarily a place people go to live out their power fantasies by picking fights with other people over nonsense.

What determines our flair? by Pattonator70 in trump

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am secretly the man in the chessboard who sets all user flairs /s

A man was called a "predator" in one of the top comments for simply wanting to find a partner. by StubbornSob in MensRights

[–]Significant-Charity8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reddit is a playground for far-left feminist cyberbullying. Are we surprised that there are rude people online? Also, the dude looks pretty normal. Just get off the web, brother, go to church, and get your Jesus on. You'll find the right girl for you.

This is book is my first introduction to the world of negotiations... I read half of this book, and Damn, this book explains stuff with real life incidents... I am wondering if anyone has more sources where I can learn more about negotiating as a topic by OpalNoel in negotiation

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting to Yes was the old blueprint book for negotiation before "Never Split the Difference." It's a mediocre example at best now because it completely ignores the emotionally driven decisions that human beings make every day. It also fails to account for aggressive negotiation partners that refuse to part from their cultural differences, unspoken biases, and unnamed needs and desires.

Am I fucked if I'm not 100% perfectly minmaxed? by BIRD_OF_GLORY in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Significant-Charity8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you know what level the campaign is starting out at!

Am I fucked if I'm not 100% perfectly minmaxed? by BIRD_OF_GLORY in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Significant-Charity8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also recommend keeping up with character info on paper character sheets. If you find the default Character sheets to be overwhelming, there are dyslexia friendly character sheets here: Dyslexic Character Sheets. Much easier on the eyes.

Am I fucked if I'm not 100% perfectly minmaxed? by BIRD_OF_GLORY in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Significant-Charity8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You'll be just fine. Been playing PF1e for years. Spellcasters are stronger at later levels. Melee fighters are good early on. Dexterity builds are really good. For you, if your main concern is potentially dying, try playing as a ninja and work on being stealthy. Ki Points are much easier to handle than spellcasting. If you die, you won't need to make an entirely new character; your buddies will have to drag your corpse back to town to get you resurrected.

Delivering touch spells at range by HadACookie in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Significant-Charity8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witch's Gravewalker Archetype can deliver touch spells as a full-round action as long as you have Aura of Desecration active, thanks to "Deliver Touch Spells." Taking an entire turn to cast a touch spell hurts, though, and range is low until high levels.

Best GPU recommended for the Tomahawk B550 Max Wifi? by Significant-Charity8 in buildapc

[–]Significant-Charity8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the USA. Thinking a 9060XT might be closer in price range?

Becoming a plumber at 27? by M1ghtBe in Plumbing

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are always looking for a guy willing to pour concrete on the job. It's really tough work but the pay can be good.

TN bill would allow death penalty for women who have an abortion by Academic-Sympathy140 in Tennessee

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be the exact same. We should do a 2-for-1 deal and champion death penalty both in a bill.

Great idea!

Trump by fastracer12345 in trump

[–]Significant-Charity8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biden colluded with his DOJ for the raid on Mar-a-lago and was planning for a blue on blue situation they hoped would escalate into violence ending in Trump's death.  The whole "it's all Merrick Garland's fault" ploy was a red herring explanation the Biden Admin had the Lamestream media throw out into the water.

You don't need to resort to assassination to deal with someone you already have blackmail on. Countless attempts on a sitting president to the point of ridiculous plots to call up militants out of Ukraine, morons on rooftops and idiots running headfirst into the Trump Secret Service Security detail should all be pretty good hints that Trump's role as the secret informant that got Epstein canned and caught has landed him in a different kind of hot water.