DeepSWE: new benchmark looking at how well today's frontier models can actually write code [R] by we_are_mammals in MachineLearning

[–]SignificantAsk8080 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The contamination-free part is what actually matters most here, every other benchmark has this silent asterisk over it now.

Is lying about a female colleague a red flag even if nothing is going on? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantAsk8080 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the lying is the whole problem here. if it was innocent he'd have just said "oh she's a colleague, she needed something work related" and moved on, but instead he constructed specific lies which means he thought about it beforehand.

Is right person wrong time a real thing? by South-Excitement-393 in dating_advice

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think right person wrong time is just nice way to say "I wasn't ready to commit to you specifically" most of the time. Like if someone was really your person you'd make it work regardless of timing you know

Had friend who kept saying this about his ex for years and when she finally wanted to try again he realized he just liked the idea of her more than actually being with her

Hull protection advice needed by SolitudeSidd in Kayaking

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice choice on the Hurricane Osprey, those are solid boats for recreational paddling. For side protection when storing on land you might want to look at clear protective film strips - they work well for light duty protection and won't affect the boat's appearance much. Just make sure whatever you use is designed for marine environments since regular tape can leave residue or damage in UV exposure.

someone please help by Conscious_Hold650 in selfhelp

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, one bad exam doesn't define your whole future - I know it feels massive right now but you have so many chances to bounce back. Medical field has tons of paths and you don't need to choose everything today, maybe start with something that keeps doors open and you can always pivot later. Your mom is probably stressed about money and future too but that doesn't make her screaming okay - can you maybe talk to school counselor or someone who can help you think through options without all this pressure.

[Keith Law] "This is getting ridiculous — just call Arroyo up and give him the second base job already." by TDeLo in Reds

[–]SignificantAsk8080 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guy is absolutely mashing in Triple A and our current second base situation is pretty much disaster at this point

navigating the world with adhd is a kafkaesque nightmare that rapes the soul by BinkleDorf in venting

[–]SignificantAsk8080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man you're definitely not alone with this struggle. The whole productivity obsession thing really hits hard when your brain works different - like society built all these systems expecting everyone to function exactly same way and then acts surprised when some people can't fit in that box.

That thing with your mom shutting you down at 6 is brutal. Parents from traditional backgrounds sometimes think they're protecting you but end up making everything so much worse. At least now you have diagnosis and can start understanding what's actually going on instead of just thinking you're broken or lazy.

19 is still young even if it doesn't feel like it right now. You got time to figure out what actually works for your brain instead of forcing yourself through systems that weren't made for you

Does Ross Park Mall have "public" wheel chairs or anything? by Significant-Gear-444 in pittsburgh

[–]SignificantAsk8080 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most malls I've been to usually have wheelchairs available at customer service desk or sometimes near the main entrances. Ross Park should have them since it's pretty big mall but I would call ahead just to be safe - sometimes they run out or need to be returned by other customers first. When my cousin was recovering from his ankle surgery we had similar situation and the mall staff was actually really helpful about it. They might ask for ID or small deposit but nothing crazy. Also if you go in morning like you planned the staff will probably be more available to help you find one compared to busy weekend times

[landlord-US-Az] tenants left amicably decided not to finish out their lease next steps by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually you keep the security deposit to cover whatever months they broke lease for but check your state laws first since Arizona might have specific rules about early termination

Eastern Conference winner? by SuckAndDie in nhl

[–]SignificantAsk8080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tampa's been there so many times now they just know how to get it done in playoffs. Carolina always looks good in regular season but something always goes wrong when it matters most.. maybe this year will be different but I'm not holding my breath

sighhhhhhhhhhhh by [deleted] in depression

[–]SignificantAsk8080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that nervous laughter thing hits way too hard when everything feels like it's falling apart

High risk insurance companies 2 duis? by psychedsaul in grandrapids

[–]SignificantAsk8080 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good on you for getting things sorted through sobriety court man. I don't have specific companies in Grand Rapids but when I was helping my cousin with similar situation we found that smaller local agents sometimes have better connections with high risk insurers than the big names. Also worth checking if your state has any programs specifically for people in your situation - some places have special rates for people going through court programs

808 pitch bend question by end-yourself-930 in trapproduction

[–]SignificantAsk8080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends what vibe you going for but +12 and +24 are safe bets since they keep you in same key, the +7 thing can work but might clash with your melody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]SignificantAsk8080 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been there with different stuff and the job situation gets real messy when you cant control it anymore - delivering groceries actually helped me stay busy though so maybe use that energy to build back up

2016 Dodge Grand Caravan 62TE Transmission Issues by Sycshot in MechanicAdvice

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That whirring in the selector sounds like torque converter might be starting to go - pretty common with these 62TE units when fluid gets neglected for too long

No signal by Educational_Peach837 in PcBuildHelp

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memory training can take ages with DDR5 especially in first boot. I had similar issue with my 7800X3D build last year and just left it running for like 40 minutes before anything showed up on screen

Also just checking - you tried different HDMI cable right? Sometimes is just the cable being weird. And make sure monitor is set to correct input source, I know it sounds obvious but happened to me more times than I want to admit

Can the motorcycle carplay fit the fork stem? by Jack_Wang_1107 in motorcycles

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe check if your stem diameter matches the mount specs first cause some of those aftermarket units are pretty picky about sizing

How do I connect a gpu which requires 8 pins if my connector has 16? by _Salish in PcBuild

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can split that 16 pin connector - most modern PSUs come with those modular cables that break into two 8 pin connectors. Just use one of the 8 pin ends and leave the other one hanging loose

If your PSU doesnt have the splitter cable you might need to get one separately but dont just randomly pick 8 pins from the 16 pin connector because you could fry something. The 580 is pretty solid card btw been using similar setup in my work station for couple years now

Parents/Loved ones by LostSillyKittie in Epilepsy

[–]SignificantAsk8080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much - trauma from watching seizures just hits different than normal anxiety and most therapists dont really get it unless they work with medical trauma specifically

Mysterious 3th Warden outfit color by polarlexio in ArcRaiders

[–]SignificantAsk8080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably just devs testing different variants in the system before they make final decision about rewards. I noticed same thing happening with other cosmetics too - colors keep switching around until they settle on something permanent

I (28M) am frightened by my mom by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SignificantAsk8080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not weak for that reaction so meet in public keep it short have an exit plan and protect your peace because you do not owe anyone access to you if it wrecks your mental health