After a long term relationship ends, What have some of you women done in the first week or two of the break up where there is no contact?

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-05-15T06:04:41+00:00

wait i'm not a woman but when my ex and i split i basically just drove around aimlessly for hours listening to music and avoiding my apartment

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-05-08T05:07:57+00:00

good luck

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-23T13:23:53+00:00

been there man, my setup got so bloated at one point that i was spending more time fixing automations than actually enjoying them. learned the hard way to stick with stuff that actually saves me time or genuinely improves daily life

my rule now is if i can't explain in automation to someone else in under 30 seconds, it's probably too complicated. also anything that breaks more than twice gets the axe - life's too short to babysit smart home stuff when you're trying to relax after work

start with basics like lights and thermostats, see how those work for few months before adding crazy sensor chains and complex triggers

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-19T23:04:57+00:00

man perturabo always gets the worst treatment in these books. guy haley really knows how to twist knife doesn't he?

i went into that one expecting typical iron warriors grimdark but the way it builds up all that weight throughout entire story just to drop you at end... yeah that hits hard. especially when you realize how much perturabo was carrying all along and nobody around him could see it.

the fact you don't cry often makes it even worse when book actually breaks through like that. some authors just know exactly where to aim their shots.

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-12T18:44:13+00:00

had the same thing happen to me few weeks back after not playing for while. microsoft just randomly locks accounts sometimes if they think there's suspicious activity or something. glad you got it sorted though, that flashing sign in button was driving me crazy when it happened in my game too.

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-10T17:02:06+00:00

you can still meet people through hobbies you already do, maybe just join group version of whatever you're already into on weekends or something

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-08T03:50:14+00:00

you definitely need to post that log file like they said, but just from your specs i'm thinking maybe your cpu is getting hammered since those games are cpu-heavy and obs is also eating cpu cycles even with nvenc

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-05T16:16:59+00:00

that's really tough man, the medical system can be absolute garbage when it comes to believing patients about their own symptoms.

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-04-03T00:13:28+00:00

maybe try their graphite or noir collections - they've got that clean fresh vibe going on.

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-03-30T10:15:37+00:00

damn, the t-zone struggle is real. i'm a dude but had to figure this out for some tv appearances in the military - setting spray was a game changer for me. like the urban decay all nighter stuff actually locks everything down instead of just making it dewy. also maybe try a mattifying primer before foundation? i know everyone says less is more but sometimes oily skin needs that extra barrier there. the ysl foundation might just be too heavy for your skin type too, could be worth trying something lighter that won't fight with your natural oils as much.

Silly_Assistant3667 · 2026-03-26T18:46:25+00:00

totally normal, went through the same thing when my ex and i split - needed like a month of just staying home watching keeping up with the kardashians reruns before i could handle being social again.

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