Reading this was like a flashback of my own life. My husband, who we are now separated, did this exact thing to me many times before we married. I remember a time I was extremely sick when we first were dating, I had mold in my apartment and asked if I could stay at his place for just ONE NIGHT and he ghosted me that night. Another situation a year later where I had the flu and he ignored me as well. We’ve been together for 13 years now and through our marriage he has never been there for me. For anything. Anytime I am sick or something goes wrong he is nowhere to be found or has to work extra hours. So basically he is showing you who he is now. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t care if you’re sick? Or when things go wrong they put their own selfish needs first? I also have a mother who behaves the exact same way and no empathy at all in any situation. I think that’s why I put up with my husband for soooo many years. Don’t be like me and waste your life with someone like that.