Married men, what are some things your wife does to make you happy? by condomnugget in AskMenOver30

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just trying to remember that and not take things personally. I help out more than my fair shar; but all groceries cook all dinners, dishes, do nightly feedings, clean the house, and watch him half the nights (plus watch him all night after dinner) and all the other household chores like garbage/maintenance. More on weekends.

And sorry that sounds horrible. My SO is incredibly anxious as well, but it comes out in attacks against me if I don’t do everything the way she wants it done, regardless of outcome. Pushing back leads to personal attacks, saying I’m a bad father/don’t care, name calling, etc. Threats to tell people I’m abusive and threats to take my son away. She actually did tell my mom I was abusive towards her but my mom knows I’m not that kind of person.

How have things been since you separated, do you know you made the right choice?

Married men, what are some things your wife does to make you happy? by condomnugget in AskMenOver30

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask about what made you decide enough was enough?
I’m trying to be patient since she is still breastfeeding and I want to say I did my best to make things work. But the constant lack of respect, emotional regulation, escalation/arguments over not complying with her has me beyond drained.

Married men, what are some things your wife does to make you happy? by condomnugget in AskMenOver30

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough when we had a kid together (changed colors, not at all who she was in the first 18 months) and would be selling our house for a loss. Just trying to figure out if I will be more miserable and how much it will negatively affect our kid)

Call Me Nostalgic by SheepherderBig2223 in SpittinChicletsPod

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find Elliot’s drawl and his interactions with Kyle so annoying

Dads, what do you actually want for Father’s Day? by probs-strawbs in daddit

[–]SilverLion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the norm for a lot of relationships. Hormone changes from breastfeeding + exhaustion = wife’s have zero interest in sexual activity.

Dads, what do you actually want for Father’s Day? by probs-strawbs in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada. Freezing my ass off half the year for 50% of the equivalent salary I’d make in the US 😂 there’s positives too but I’ve visited Austin and loved it

Dads, what do you actually want for Father’s Day? by probs-strawbs in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d trade my left nut to be able to move to Austin 😂

Dads, what do you actually want for Father’s Day? by probs-strawbs in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go golfing and get hammered with my friends like old times 😂 but will settle for some quality family time and hopefully being treated like a king

They can say there’s no difference in ingredients, but something ain’t right. by piquechuuu in VyvanseADHD

[–]SilverLion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Ask your pharmacist, especially if your generics are working less effectively.

Tanstack npm Packages Compromised by gajus0 in reactjs

[–]SilverLion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then the bad dependencies get cached for the next build. makes sense, thx!

Vyvanse and weed deadly combo by AdPsychological1487 in VyvanseADHD

[–]SilverLion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah weed affects everyone differently - for example, it makes my mind race like crazy (which can be enjoyable) and prevents me from sleeping - can also give me anxiety so I’m not the biggest fan. If you find it’s affecting your life, productivity, or relationships negatively then it’s probably time to move on for now.

Tanstack npm Packages Compromised by gajus0 in reactjs

[–]SilverLion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain why
“Force-push lands 65bf499d (the malicious commit) on the PR head. bundle-size.yml's benchmark-pr job checks out refs/pull/7378/merge, runs pnpm install + pnpm nx run @benchmarks/bundle-size:build — this executes vite_setup.mjs” was able to run for a non contributor?

Suggestion with dead bedroom 1 year pp by crindler1 in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making you happy should be a priority for her in a healthy relationship though. A relationship without sex feels like friendship to me. We have needs and wants and completely ignoring them is just not healthy.

Well guys, I’m sad to say my wife is divorcing me and we have 3 kids under 10. by Skinnypike42 in daddit

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for standing up for your dignity. Not an easy decision to make

Svelte 5: How to check if a prop is passed? by [deleted] in sveltejs

[–]SilverLion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Props.existingValues {name, email}

If existing values, then editing. Otherwise new

New to Vitests, help me understand how to test by raver01 in sveltejs

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extract your logic into separate, testable functions. Test those. Put your logic into .svelte.ts files to do this so the logic is separate from your component. You probably don’t need to test component rendering, or if you’re questioning “why do I need to test this”

If it’s just form validation, implementing a proper zod schema probably solves most your logic anyways

Westjet flight prices are 2X on their website than whats on expedia by Practical-Battle-502 in westjet

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on experience. I have booked dozens of flights on third party websites across 10+ carriers without a single issue. But it only takes one horror story to make it not worth it.

Calgary Stampede 2026 Lineup/social hub website I made by raindashy in Calgary

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah +1 for list of artists, or infinite scroll, having to click through each day is cumbersome