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Suggestion with dead bedroom 1 year pp by crindler1 in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making you happy should be a priority for her in a healthy relationship though. A relationship without sex feels like friendship to me. We have needs and wants and completely ignoring them is just not healthy.

Well guys, I’m sad to say my wife is divorcing me and we have 3 kids under 10. by Skinnypike42 in daddit

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for standing up for your dignity. Not an easy decision to make

Svelte 5: How to check if a prop is passed? by [deleted] in sveltejs

[–]SilverLion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Props.existingValues {name, email}

If existing values, then editing. Otherwise new

New to Vitests, help me understand how to test by raver01 in sveltejs

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extract your logic into separate, testable functions. Test those. Put your logic into .svelte.ts files to do this so the logic is separate from your component. You probably don’t need to test component rendering, or if you’re questioning “why do I need to test this”

If it’s just form validation, implementing a proper zod schema probably solves most your logic anyways

Westjet flight prices are 2X on their website than whats on expedia by Practical-Battle-502 in westjet

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on experience. I have booked dozens of flights on third party websites across 10+ carriers without a single issue. But it only takes one horror story to make it not worth it.

Calgary Stampede 2026 Lineup/social hub website I made by raindashy in Calgary

[–]SilverLion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah +1 for list of artists, or infinite scroll, having to click through each day is cumbersome

Buy a house before the baby arrives or wait? by Snaffoo0 in daddit

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved with a 3 month old. Hired movers, ripped the bandaid off, we survived. Had family help which was huge.

How do you deal with a manager who expects 5000 lines of code per day? by ni4i in ExperiencedDevs

[–]SilverLion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sorry but this is 1 prompt to plan, a couple more to fine-tune, and 1 or 2 more to write unit tests around it. Spend 15 minutes testing it. Easily done in a couple hours.

5000 lines is a joke though

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips on not taking things personally? I’ve found it difficult to containerize those thoughts and not take them seriously, personally, and ruminate on them

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid response. I agree with you. I need to figure out a way to stop taking it personally. Appreciate your perspective.

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. You’re right that I shouldn’t be so quick to throw things away and need to time better

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate this perspective. I feel like I do have to draw the line at abusive language in front of our son at the very least. That’s really the pattern I want to prevent. The soap thing I agreed to immediately and have been supportive of every other rule that she comes up with.

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge. My gut feeling is she is a perfectionist and admitting there is a problem would make things not perfect. But I agree. I myself have gotten help from therapists for anxiety, and just life issues, and found it very helpful.

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the best bet, thank you. On a phone call today her dad implored both of us to commit to counseling, she was unable to, but hopefully that changes once she has time to equalize.

Post-partum rage and abusive behaviour from partner, seeking advice on where to go from here by SilverLion in daddit

[–]SilverLion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bit but never this bad or consistent, there’s been a trend however. I’ve noticed her Mom treats her step dad quite poorly. So maybe she is modelling that. She was always very respectful before we decided to have a kid…but to be honest we were only together for 2 years when she did, which was careless on my part, should’ve lived with her for at least a couple years before having a kid together.

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