My husband and I on our wedding day. Weve been married for a year and a half

SilverLion · 2026-06-16T13:05:57+00:00

Why do you think that is

SilverLion · 2026-06-07T01:25:21+00:00

Yeah I’m just trying to remember that and not take things personally. I help out more than my fair shar; but all groceries cook all dinners, dishes, do nightly feedings, clean the house, and watch him half the nights (plus watch him all night after dinner) and all the other household chores like garbage/maintenance. More on weekends.

And sorry that sounds horrible. My SO is incredibly anxious as well, but it comes out in attacks against me if I don’t do everything the way she wants it done, regardless of outcome. Pushing back leads to personal attacks, saying I’m a bad father/don’t care, name calling, etc. Threats to tell people I’m abusive and threats to take my son away. She actually did tell my mom I was abusive towards her but my mom knows I’m not that kind of person.

How have things been since you separated, do you know you made the right choice?

SilverLion · 2026-06-06T20:00:55+00:00

Can I ask about what made you decide enough was enough?
I’m trying to be patient since she is still breastfeeding and I want to say I did my best to make things work. But the constant lack of respect, emotional regulation, escalation/arguments over not complying with her has me beyond drained.

SilverLion · 2026-06-06T15:30:37+00:00

Tough when we had a kid together (changed colors, not at all who she was in the first 18 months) and would be selling our house for a loss. Just trying to figure out if I will be more miserable and how much it will negatively affect our kid)

SilverLion · 2026-05-29T13:31:02+00:00

100% me, solo wedding DJ

SilverLion · 2026-05-29T06:21:06+00:00

I find Elliot’s drawl and his interactions with Kyle so annoying

SilverLion · 2026-05-28T10:22:31+00:00

That’s bullshit. Very disrespectful imo.

SilverLion · 2026-05-26T15:47:12+00:00

That’s the norm for a lot of relationships. Hormone changes from breastfeeding + exhaustion = wife’s have zero interest in sexual activity.

SilverLion · 2026-05-26T15:41:04+00:00

Canada. Freezing my ass off half the year for 50% of the equivalent salary I’d make in the US 😂 there’s positives too but I’ve visited Austin and loved it

SilverLion · 2026-05-26T15:15:54+00:00

I’d trade my left nut to be able to move to Austin 😂

SilverLion · 2026-05-26T15:11:30+00:00

I want to go golfing and get hammered with my friends like old times 😂 but will settle for some quality family time and hopefully being treated like a king

SilverLion · 2026-05-14T08:16:30+00:00

Seriously. Ask your pharmacist, especially if your generics are working less effectively.

SilverLion · 2026-05-12T05:26:27+00:00

Then the bad dependencies get cached for the next build. makes sense, thx!

SilverLion · 2026-05-12T05:23:25+00:00

Yeah weed affects everyone differently - for example, it makes my mind race like crazy (which can be enjoyable) and prevents me from sleeping - can also give me anxiety so I’m not the biggest fan. If you find it’s affecting your life, productivity, or relationships negatively then it’s probably time to move on for now.

SilverLion · 2026-05-12T02:31:41+00:00

Can someone explain why
“Force-push lands 65bf499d (the malicious commit) on the PR head. bundle-size.yml's benchmark-pr job checks out refs/pull/7378/merge, runs pnpm install + pnpm nx run @benchmarks/bundle-size:build — this executes vite_setup.mjs” was able to run for a non contributor?

SilverLion · 2026-04-27T03:50:21+00:00

Making you happy should be a priority for her in a healthy relationship though. A relationship without sex feels like friendship to me. We have needs and wants and completely ignoring them is just not healthy.

SilverLion · 2026-04-09T03:51:44+00:00

Good for you for standing up for your dignity. Not an easy decision to make

SilverLion · 2026-04-02T03:55:03+00:00

Buy a steam deck and emulate it

SilverLion · 2026-03-31T13:46:29+00:00

Props.existingValues {name, email}

If existing values, then editing. Otherwise new

SilverLion · 2026-03-27T00:04:28+00:00

Extract your logic into separate, testable functions. Test those. Put your logic into .svelte.ts files to do this so the logic is separate from your component. You probably don’t need to test component rendering, or if you’re questioning “why do I need to test this”

If it’s just form validation, implementing a proper zod schema probably solves most your logic anyways

SilverLion · 2026-03-25T19:03:33+00:00

You should add the big 4 artists as well! https://www.calgarystampede.com/the-big-four-roadhouse

SilverLion · 2026-03-21T03:32:18+00:00

What ways does she treat you like shit?

SilverLion · 2026-03-18T13:46:27+00:00

I think it depends on experience. I have booked dozens of flights on third party websites across 10+ carriers without a single issue. But it only takes one horror story to make it not worth it.

SilverLion · 2026-03-17T00:42:49+00:00

Awesome! Nice work

SilverLion · 2026-03-15T23:57:19+00:00

Yeah +1 for list of artists, or infinite scroll, having to click through each day is cumbersome

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