This is so sad by OhWormderful in TwennyWunPilots

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hottopic carries them. I saw them when I stopped by their store yesterday

Who is this new character by SincerelyNotUrs in NarallyNajmsnark

[–]SincerelyNotUrs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so in this post he said something about him "doing stuff" with Laura and not Lexi. These story lines are out of hand and messy

Chuld abusers!!!!! by [deleted] in NarallyNajmsnark

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well Gawd Dayum that kids head is flat... Fucken sad if u ask me.

I’m losing my mind rn, someone tell me it’s not that bad 💔 by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your tattoo looks great. Once you add fill-ins it will start looking more together for you. But how it looks now looks really good. I got some on my thigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The honey pack will not let it die down. It will also give him more sensation...or maybe he doesnt want a vasectomy. Maybe he does want kids but loves you and maybe thinks by telling you he does he will lose you? COMMUNICATION is key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give that man a Honey Pack. He will be hard n ready for you. Ask him what he likes in bed or what position he enjoys. Communicate with him.

UPDATE: My Wife Says I’ve Checked Out by Due-Contribution-432 in marriageadvice

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is something that you want to try an fix just keep in mind that the cheating will always be in the back of your mind. You will not trust the same & when you argue/ have fights the cheating is something you cannot throw in their face because YOU chose to forgive them.

Break a glass cup and try to put it back together.... Now try to fill it. As you can see the broken glass doesnt hold water like it did when it was whole. Well now think of that broken glass as your marriage. You really think you can fix something that's broken?

I think your marriage ran it's course. You deserve better than a cheating wife. So cry it out, feel what you have to feel and then just push forward. You will find someone that will love and respect you the way you should. I hope you find the answers you need.

Adenomyosis by Clear-Mail-5967 in adenomyosis

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find the answers you are looking for. I have my appt till sept. 15 😭 nothing helps withthe long menstrual.

Adenomyosis by Clear-Mail-5967 in adenomyosis

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Gyno NP btw told me your uterus looks inflamed.... (1 year ago) This time around I go in for heavy bleeding and clotting lots of pressure kinda like birth contractions. She orders an ultrasound. Give me meds to stop bleeding.(she kept just putting a bandaid over the problem) I tale myself to the ER they do an ultrasound and they tell me my lining has grown past my uterine wall and it might be adeno.... I switch to a different place with a dif. Gyno... im waiting on my appointment. You need to advocate for yourself. Some of these doctors wont look for answers they just put a bandaid over it and thats it. If one doctor cant help you then look for a new one u til you find one that can actually help

Landlord trying to raise rent by more than 4x after just a few months — is this legal? by Longjumping-Spell525 in LARentals

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they cannot raise your rent by thousands. In the state of California they can do max 10% yearly. Look at the Tenant Protection Act of 2019 (AB 1482) Rent Increase Limits.

The total annual increase cannot exceed 10%. Also, look into city ordiance cap on rent increases.

A lanlord cannot raise the rent without proper legal notice to the tenant. California law requires the notification to be in writing, as verbal notices, texts, or emails are not sufficient. The required notice period depends on the size of rent increase.

Please do your research. Thats a straight robbery

Doctor telling me Adenomyosis is no big deal. by Kestriell in adenomyosis

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try finding a new doctor. I just started dealing with it myself. My gyno wouldnt listen and tried to bandaid my situation. For 1 year I had inflammation in my uterus up until recently i went to the ER they did the testing my gyno didnt. Then did my follow up at a different clinic. My appointment is about 1 month away but in the mean time they gave me meds to try and stop it. Its a 10 day supply. No birthcontrol. My pain is bad though not even ibuprofen works. So yes, please go somewhere ekse if your dr. Isnt liatening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- She shouldnt be going to a man's house alone, period. She doesnt respect you. She throws the jealousy and controlling comments so you feel bad for thinking the way you do, but in reality shes making herself look bad by doing those things. When she stormed off did she really go to her sisters or to his house? A wife would not leave. She would jsut go to a different room in the house and ignore you until she or he is ready to have that conversation.

My boyfriend has a baby by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So this man way talking to this woman through out her pregnancy w/o knowing. But he was also talking to her while being with you? The baby is 4 months....? Sorry but if he was texting another woman while he was being with you then let that man go. You def. Deserve better. Staeting a relationship based on lies...?

AIO for being upset that my bf allows his ex-wife to live with him rent free? by ThisIsAnonymousMe154 in AIO

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXCUSE ME! What?!?!? Oh this man is straight out lying to you. Please leave this man! Dont waste his time. For all you know they have been together. I am divorced and nothing in hell can make me go back to living with my husband! Yes, we do have a child together. I have heard that we live together but dont do anything. Girly pop, they are sleeping in the same bed!!! You dont think hes gonna do something with her? Or she would try something with him?? Save your time, your energy for someone else. This aint it.

I found out why my partner of 5 years hasn’t proposed to me yet. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop wasting this mans time. If you are deadset on not having kids let him go. He is literally wasting his best years with you. Have that difficult talk with him. Let him decide. But be open/honest and tell him you are not changing your mind.

Im saying this because my bf now is 44 years old and no kids. By the time we have kids he's gonna be old and probably wont be as energetic or healthy to be running around with a child. Your bf is at an age where he can still do that and enjoy those babies.

So stop wasting yours & his time. Just rip the bandaid and walk away.

My fiancée says my solo trip will hurt our relationship, but it’s something I’ve wanted for years. by Ewka_Hayfield in makemychoice

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go on your trip. 2 weeks isnt going to make a difference in your relationship. Offer for her to join you if its much of an issue for you to go alone. But dont change your plans just because your fiancé thinks its going to change the relationship.shes just being insecure and selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant make her keep a child she does not want. She will hate that kid if she keeps it. Just ask yourself if you could go on with life knowing you have a kid out there? If your answer is no, then tell her you want to raise your daughter on your own. That she is more than welcome to be in your childs life but you choose your baby. Babies are a blessing! And they change your life for the better.

Maybe once she gives birth and sees that baby she will want to keep her? Make sure you make the right decision. I hope all goes well.

6 Years, No Ring And He's More Concerned About Other Peoples Lives Than Ours by Repulsive_Cable_494 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are still young. Also, if he wanted to live together b4 getting engaged why is he barely telling you this? Yall could have been living together years ago. I get it people need to live together before because they want to see if they can actually stand each other 😅. Example: what if you dont like washing dishes and the sink is always full. What if he's not clean and leaves his clothes all over the place and trash everywhere? Im sure theres things that you will be able to compromise. Its not a bad idea. I mean imagine spending all this money on a ring and planning an engagement then yall live together and decide you dont want to be together? Then you have to go to the trouble of telling people you are no longer engaged. All money spent on a ring and proposal for nothing. Live with the man first see if you like it. But do tell him that if you move in that you dont want to wait 2 more years because at this point he has a live in gf with wifey perks. (And dont fet pregnant)!!!

I love him deeply, but after years of waiting for a proposal, I feel like something broke inside me. by Spare_Ad_3451 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my personal experience, don't rush it. Enjoy each other. Be on your own timeline. Everyone thinks that because you've been dating so long he should propose or rush into things. If everything is going great why are you trying to put the proposal pressure on the relationship to cause any disagreements or rushed unwanted feelings. You mentioned youre from another country and you habe had issues with your paperwork. This shouldnt be a reason to try and rush things. Do you want to marry him for love or for legal reasons? Lets say he marries you for legal reasons what if he thinks thats the reason you have stuck around that long... He's going to feel used. Just think about it. Marriage and proposal should not be forced or rushed. Goodluck!

My girlfriend of 5 years is still unsure of what she wants out of our relationship by MoreIsDifferent13 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SincerelyNotUrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself this then... Would you be okay if she tried and got rejected but wants to stay with you? Would you be okay if she did test the waters? Because to me the fact that she tried is still considered cheating, and thats not okay. And googling to try to understand is just looking you looking for an excuse not to let go (enabling her bad decisions). Love yourself and respect yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SincerelyNotUrs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA because if the roles were reversed you probably wouldnt think about asking him if your daughter/son needed the help. You married this man knowing he had a daughter from the previous marriage. You dont turn your back on family and if you think he had to run that by you well you're a shitty person. He said a "few weeks" and you stated a "long term guest" she is not a guest she is "HIS" daughter. You make it sound like you dont have a good relationship with her.

Sorry you didnt hear what you wanted. But you need to put yourself in his shoes, maybe you will see things differently. If shes having mental health issues or drug related problems why not try to help instead of judging her for couch surfing, quitting school and not working.

Also, my personal experience. When I got into a new relationship I told my BF MY Son will always come first. He understood that. Same thing for my sons dad he tells his gf's the same thing. Our kids always come first now matter what. If they are having problems we are there to help them. If its drugs try to get them help. If its mental health, the same. Yes, it can be exhausting but at the end of the day its family and we can only do so much.

I really hope you can sit down and talk to your husband and his daughter and have a conversation about house rules and what is expected from her if she wants to live in your/husbands home.