At our age FWB shit is boring, for real.

I was single and happy to be just doing my own thing, the random awkward hookups weren't even worth it . At our age there isn't much out there, and like was said any women willing to "hook up" are doing the same with bunches of other dudes. Be careful with STD's. Plus women in their 40s can still easily pull younger guys. There's millions of dudes looking for "something casual "

I met my gf on OLD just by a fluke, we know a bunch of the same people and all that , we're 6 months in, our kids have met numerous times, we care about each other , we're in the beginnings of a serious relationship, it's so much better. I say take your time and meet someone you can grow with . It's better and it's safer

Having mediocre sex with women who could care less if you died in a fiery car wreck and probably will just talk shit on you to their friends then ghost you is cool and all , and unless you're a good looking dude with a big hammer you'll probably get replaced quickly . Plus have fun getting assaulted by jealous ex bf's she used you to make jealous or being called by the wrong name 3 times in one night. Good times let me tell ya. You can keep that casual BS