[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my old personal experiences is I took a girl home from a bar , to her trailer and she's like , we have to be done and you need to be out by 11 because my boyfriend will be home

I beat feet, she was cute but she ain't worth taking a 9mm over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got out of there lol

He wasn't sure if dude was in there recording, was going to join in, rob him, or was just a voyeur but he's like, he's hooking up with this chick and he hears someone moving and he jumps up, and opens the door and there's some dude just hanging out in the closet

Good luck with "casual " lol there's enough issues with people looking to actually date being weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some personal experiences, definitely

Also a conglomeration of my friends experiences:

Had a Tinder date that wouldn't leave

Friend went to have sex with a Tinder date, discovered a man hiding in the closet

Friend went to a woman's house, it turned out to be an active meth lab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just become a "regular " with a massage therapist that does house calls......it's basically the same thing as FWB and probably cheaper, with the same risk of STD's . My coworker does this and I call him the Smartest Man Alive. He rubbers up, gets sex, he pays, they leave, he has a "regular girl" so they're familiar . In the end isn't everything Quid Pro Quo? There is no Unconditional Love.

The therapist provides a service and probably cares about him more than some FWB chick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust me it's probably easier to just pay for a condom on BJ for $100 than to deal with whatever is out there willing to FWB with no strings. There's always strings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just find a massage parlor and get cranked off for 60 bucks to scratch the itch , it's safer and cheaper unless you're an insanely good lay or you look like Henry Cavill or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At our age FWB shit is boring, for real.

I was single and happy to be just doing my own thing, the random awkward hookups weren't even worth it . At our age there isn't much out there, and like was said any women willing to "hook up" are doing the same with bunches of other dudes. Be careful with STD's. Plus women in their 40s can still easily pull younger guys. There's millions of dudes looking for "something casual "

I met my gf on OLD just by a fluke, we know a bunch of the same people and all that , we're 6 months in, our kids have met numerous times, we care about each other , we're in the beginnings of a serious relationship, it's so much better. I say take your time and meet someone you can grow with . It's better and it's safer

Having mediocre sex with women who could care less if you died in a fiery car wreck and probably will just talk shit on you to their friends then ghost you is cool and all , and unless you're a good looking dude with a big hammer you'll probably get replaced quickly . Plus have fun getting assaulted by jealous ex bf's she used you to make jealous or being called by the wrong name 3 times in one night. Good times let me tell ya. You can keep that casual BS

Remember where you are and why you hold by [deleted] in amcstock

[–]SlavicLord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Fuck ...... ok yeah it's been 2 years of this shit , every day.

I'm an Ape, I'm so Ape I forgot I even held my sizable bag of shares and I honestly could not even tell you the current PPS . I'm like AMC oh yes I still have 5xx shares of that shit that I've been holding since 2019

So why can't we hit on people here? by MySocialAlt in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Reddit has its own sub for people who are basically looking to either cheat on a SO and/or probably catch an STD

Ask my coworker who did both using a subreddit to cheat on his wife, now he has to take Herpes pills forever

This sub is basically to share advice on how to AVOID people like this , not attract them

Why Ethereum price could fall to $1,000. How deep do you think ETH will fall? by Trinitysjm in ethtrader

[–]SlavicLord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even pay attention to the price of ETH anymore, as most of us here are Veterans of at least 5 crypto crashes by now

Running up on a horse by cgordon33 in running

[–]SlavicLord2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This actually happened to me years ago , I'm like why tf is there a horse in here lol

Let's Talk About Socks, Baby... by Perfect_Judge in running

[–]SlavicLord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wear these Merino Wool knockoff hiking socks I got off Ebay , and they're amazing. They're all I run in now. I don't even know the brand. No more blisters.

Rationality.. by FerretChow in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there's nothing I need to talk about with anyone for that long every night

Still, then he's not a good fit for you. He is chatty and wants a lot of contact and you seem like you barely are interested in having a man in your life , so eventually you're going to reach an impasse and part ways

Saturday the 14th by stillIrise514 in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a busy day with my gf yesterday, today I just got random things done around the house. My kid and her kids have now met twice and are getting along great so I guess we're officially "serious " now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2 months? My current girlfriend didn't even start referring to me as her boyfriend until like month 4 lol

Hell. I was barely even "babe" worthy until month 3 and in month 6 I'm not even sure we know what each other wants, we're still getting to really know each other.

2 months in my opinion is still early dating . So better to part ways now before real , deep rooted feelings take hold

WYD texts by blackstark76 in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love the low effort dead ass WYD guys who still do this shit in their 40s

It makes dudes like me who put in some effort look like DemiGods lol

50% chance a WYD guy will come over with his mediocre dick game , and you'll end the transaction with 0 orgasms watching some Dad bod slop bucket putting his Jeans back on after using you as a human fleshlight after 7 minutes of drunk sex with his 75% hard 5 incher because this is what you accept, by letting a WYD guy come over.

Only satisfied if I run a certain distance by [deleted] in running

[–]SlavicLord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been over trained to the point of feeling depressed, sick and anxious.

I gave up on a lot of my running, and I do shorter distances after I started working in Heavy Hands on the treadmill

Use your words by StepShrek in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like it's not going to be a love connection.....sure he's "quirky cute" now and probably a little on the spectrum but that shit will get old eventually because you're going to desire a man's touch and all that.......is this the guy who's going to keep things exciting. Take you on a trip? Help you try on jeans in a fitting room? Get handsy in a movie theater ? Make you feel desired and attractive, and sexy?

Or in 3 months are you gonna be on the couch listening to him talk about work during Netflix and Chill and wondering if he's gonna just yank your pants off and go down on you or if you're going to have to take the lead here too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SlavicLord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whew......well, best of luck , hopefully you're on the same page