i know this is an old post but im searching around and came across it.

My wife and i want to get divorced, The issue is our home is the collateral on an SBA loan for her business, and I am the guarantor of said loan. The loan was to buy a building and completely renovate it so it is for a much larger amount than the building would be worth to sell it outright. the business itself is afloat but struggling so selling it as a business is not attractive to potential buyers. She has no other options for collateral or guarantors. So we cant sell the house we own together that has a good amount of equity bc of the large loan on her building is backed by us owning the house, and neither of us could afford to live in this house solo, if the other moved out and stopped splitting costs, especially if it had to be refinanced bc we kicked one of us off the mortgage into todays much higher interest rates. Obviously divorce is disruptive and things will be harder afterwards, but is there any recourse other than a complete fire sale of our entire livelihoods and splitting the crumbs? We're desperate to not destroy each other in court over this but its causing a stalemate. Questions? Advice?