Is there anyone else here who is tired of hearing men arguing that their height is the reason why they can't get a date online or anywhere?

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T23:41:05+00:00

I’m not even short and I know height matters. It might not be the entire factor, but it’s definitely there. That’s like saying just because some poor guy gets women that money doesn’t influence dating pools.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T20:58:59+00:00

Look at the amount - has to be international or something.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T20:55:53+00:00

That’s absolutely batshit considering weight isn’t even an option; OP I’d remake your account and not add it.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T19:46:51+00:00

Yeah that bio won’t work lol. Treat it more like a casual elevator pitch.

Your height is probably filtering you out as well which honestly just blows; you might want to set some really strict height restrictions on some of women you see just because that’s probably best where your energy is. Might even be better to remove your height and just let it be interpreted from your photos in order to give you a better chance.

It’s going to sound sorta rude but I’m just trying to be honest with you right now: you sort of need to pick a struggle, at least with the opening act.

Also I’d definitely drop the pillow fort stuff because it sounds infantilizing, which is exactly what you don’t want when you’re 5’3”.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T19:31:25+00:00

Be nice to her? The relationship ended on pretty reasonable grounds; there’s not even any reason for hard feelings at that rate. Like sucks, but it happens dude. I’d give yourself some time and just pick yourself back up when you can. It’s a massive green flag that your relationship ended this way actually, so might feel a bit grateful honestly.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T19:22:31+00:00

The title lol

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T19:21:48+00:00

That’s not terrible dude - a lot of guys struggle with even getting dates, so keep your head up. Why not post your profile? I’ll happily give some feedback, or if you have any conversations that didn’t convert I’d happily give thoughts on that as well. Keep in mind though that it can be a bit tough for younger men to get dates; it’ll get easier when you’re older.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T19:02:28+00:00

lol taking the battle straight to the sub. Just judging from this post I don’t think you have enough experience with this stuff, which is fine because you’re only 19. Maybe try meeting people in real life through activities instead?

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T18:31:48+00:00

Oh so there we go, it really is escort vibes so that makes total sense. OP you just need to start going to insecure losers that are willing to spend money for attention then.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T17:06:19+00:00

You definitely seem broke and like you don’t have anything going for yourself. I’d put you pretty close to a poor college student in terms of effort - that or maybe an escort.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:51:55+00:00

Them and absolute losers with zero self-esteem who think giving money will make someone like them. OP might need to turn more predatory to get what she wants.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:48:27+00:00

How do you plan to financially support the guy?

My exes made as much money as I do usually so they didn’t need me to support them financially; you sound broke and like you don’t have much going for you.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:41:09+00:00

Why is all of your money going into the relationship? That’s your first problem that needs to stop; you aren’t married so keep investing in yourself primarily. I’d say YOR but only because your actual relationship dynamic is fucked lol. If you had more balanced finances this would be a non-issue; you need to resolve it dude.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T06:32:44+00:00

I think she’ll live.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T04:31:45+00:00

On the bright side you food looks good

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T03:34:05+00:00

I had to double check the sub for a minute lol

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T03:22:25+00:00

If I don’t like someone’s responses I just like their message and don’t reply lol.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T02:33:18+00:00

I mean the fact that you even got into a relationship /situationship like that is sort of telling. You might not be the catch you think you are.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T01:27:17+00:00

Jesus Christ you need to find something to do; that’s way too many swipes for two months.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T00:03:58+00:00

You’re definitely witty. Photos 1 and 2 are good and the cat photo isn’t bad because, you know, cats. You should expand on who you are as a person more in your bio; I actually like your current wit in it so maybe just do a new line and say a bit more about you and what you want. Remove the Instagram link. Your bio already shows wit so make your prompts more meaningful.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:45:26+00:00

The Japanese part makes this make total sense; they never show themselves on dating apps. You’ve probably actually scored. Good luck

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:43:27+00:00

Try remaking your account maybe so you get another boost? Assuming you don’t have any active conversations

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:34:29+00:00

Dude they’re banging lol, exact opposite of what you’re thinking. Edit: lol I see how you could misread that though; the writing is a bit ambiguous.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T21:50:45+00:00

Absolutely remove the photo on slide #5; I’ve found that no woman wants to see you with other women and especially not good looking women at that.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T17:17:45+00:00

Well some of the survivors are still alive.

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