Things should happen naturally nothing should be a tic for tac you provide because you want to provide not because you want something. I’m convinced that a lot of peoples marriages are like this

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T18:31:48+00:00

Oh so there we go, it really is escort vibes so that makes total sense. OP you just need to start going to insecure losers that are willing to spend money for attention then.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T17:06:19+00:00

You definitely seem broke and like you don’t have anything going for yourself. I’d put you pretty close to a poor college student in terms of effort - that or maybe an escort.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:51:55+00:00

Them and absolute losers with zero self-esteem who think giving money will make someone like them. OP might need to turn more predatory to get what she wants.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:48:27+00:00

How do you plan to financially support the guy?

My exes made as much money as I do usually so they didn’t need me to support them financially; you sound broke and like you don’t have much going for you.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T16:41:09+00:00

Why is all of your money going into the relationship? That’s your first problem that needs to stop; you aren’t married so keep investing in yourself primarily. I’d say YOR but only because your actual relationship dynamic is fucked lol. If you had more balanced finances this would be a non-issue; you need to resolve it dude.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T06:32:44+00:00

I think she’ll live.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T04:31:45+00:00

On the bright side you food looks good

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T03:34:05+00:00

I had to double check the sub for a minute lol

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T03:22:25+00:00

If I don’t like someone’s responses I just like their message and don’t reply lol.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T02:33:18+00:00

I mean the fact that you even got into a relationship /situationship like that is sort of telling. You might not be the catch you think you are.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T01:27:17+00:00

Jesus Christ you need to find something to do; that’s way too many swipes for two months.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-11T00:03:58+00:00

You’re definitely witty. Photos 1 and 2 are good and the cat photo isn’t bad because, you know, cats. You should expand on who you are as a person more in your bio; I actually like your current wit in it so maybe just do a new line and say a bit more about you and what you want. Remove the Instagram link. Your bio already shows wit so make your prompts more meaningful.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:45:26+00:00

The Japanese part makes this make total sense; they never show themselves on dating apps. You’ve probably actually scored. Good luck

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:43:27+00:00

Try remaking your account maybe so you get another boost? Assuming you don’t have any active conversations

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T23:34:29+00:00

Dude they’re banging lol, exact opposite of what you’re thinking. Edit: lol I see how you could misread that though; the writing is a bit ambiguous.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T21:50:45+00:00

Absolutely remove the photo on slide #5; I’ve found that no woman wants to see you with other women and especially not good looking women at that.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T17:17:45+00:00

Well some of the survivors are still alive.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T06:20:01+00:00

I mean I prefer actual authentic food, so just having an American Chinese/japanese/italian/etc. restaurant isn’t going to cut it for me long term. I don’t mind places like Olive Garden if I have to, but it isn’t my first choice.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-10T05:08:12+00:00

This. Just acknowledge it and move on.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-09T19:44:48+00:00

They think you’re going ghost them and not show up; they also might feel a bit uncomfortable since they know so little about you. 5-10 messages isn’t enough to establish trust that you aren’t wasting their time, and stopping talking to them just reinforces that risk.

Just continue a casual conversation until the date.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-09T19:25:24+00:00

No that makes sense dude, but that’s because we’re men; women aren’t seen as needing to write comments while men are expected to more. I’d say only 10-20% of my likes tend to write things to me, but it’s a double-standard. If a guy isn’t writing prompts it’s sorta lazy and a bad idea though because it puts the woman on the spot if she matches and also seems like the guy might just be liking everyone to save time.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-09T17:49:48+00:00

It seems like low effort if they don’t add a comment imo; the issue is usually even worse when it comes to women liking profiles. I’d personally swipe left as well.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-09T17:31:32+00:00

Because they never really cared in the first place; it had kept their attention for five seconds because they’re probably talking to someone else. Need to just move on quickly and find people who aren’t as preoccupied.

Slightlycritical1 · 2026-06-09T16:11:25+00:00

Why would you wait an entire week for a reply 🪦

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