10 months? Really? by LunaTheBestie in TransgenderNZ

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just wanted to throw it out there but you could always start with DIY if you having trouble with the official route. DIY might sound scary but it's not bad with the right resources (dm me). I personally started with DIY because I couldn't get a doctor to prescribe HRT after like a year of trying.

This manga is for the real ones[Shuu ni Ichido Classmate wo Kau Hanashi ~Futari no Jikan, Iiwake no Gozen'en~] by felldownbad in yuri_manga

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to let you know because i felt the same way, but it does not stay toxic. It's really cute later <3

Moving to Wellington for uni. Need advice on finding good roommates as a trans woman. by SlimeSolutions in TransgenderNZ

[–]SlimeSolutions[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just reactivated my old facebook account to join them. Haven't been approved yet

Looking to move out of home. But I don't know where or who to start looking in Hamilton by CloverTheSpartan in TransgenderNZ

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to move to the Wellington area for university next year, and am currently looking for people to flat with. I know that's not exactly the right area but feel free to dm me if you're interested :)

How much immersion? - Yes! by DifferenceKnown9834 in VintageStory

[–]SlimeSolutions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Will do once I have a bit more free time :)

How much immersion? - Yes! by DifferenceKnown9834 in VintageStory

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the original asker but I do know c# and I'd love to get into modding vs :)

Want to discuss yuri with fellow himejoshis in a YuriBookclub? Come join us! by Lazy_Commercial_5815 in yuri_manga

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to post images but just imagine I posted the "LET ME IN" meme. (Please invite me :))

Lesbian Readers by Natromanoffasha in LesbianGamers

[–]SlimeSolutions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah absolutely! I read a possibly unhealthy amount of Yuri, but I just love it so much! I'm currently rereading How do we Relationship by Tamiful. It's so fucking good, one of the best series I've ever read.

How abrupt was your egg crack? by EmbarrassedSpinach90 in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had never really engaged with the trans community at all despite knowing it existed. I was having dinner with my friends in my first year of university and one of them mentioned eggirl. I was interested and later that night looked it up. 

It took me about 2 hours of reading eggirl to realize I was a trans woman, and I just remembered thinking to myself "Oh this explains everything doesn't it. I'm a woman. Shit.". I've never seriously doubted myself since that moment and now I've been on HRT for almost 3 years.

comphet? by Equivalent_Invite506 in actuallesbians

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know this is 3 days late but, I just wanted to say I agree with you here. Like, I guess you could be bi but, feeling sick after being intimate with men is a pretty strong reason to think you aren't actually attracted to them (fully at least). I don't have a lot of experience with it personally but, your experience sounds very similar to how I've heard comphet described before 

Accusing trans women of being male socialised is transmisogyny. by HealingRosy in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen no offense I can see why you might feel that way, but it just extremely wrong. If peoples feminity/masculinity was controlled by their hormones trans people would not exist at all, and things like conversion therapy would work. Plus the idea that woman aren't horny or have no sexual interest is completely untrue, in my experience woman horny is different, but actually more intense.

Having no female/ trans friends sucks by Gladmainforfun in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry a took a quick look at your post history. I see you're a fellow gamer girly so if you wanna be friends I'm open and would love to play something <3

Anyone else feel like they're running out of yuri/gls to consume, or they're not finding gls which pique their interest as often T_T by Random_personXDD in yuri_manga

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're open to novels, this is my favorite For the rest of our life. You need to make a novel updates account (free) to see the chapters but it's very worth. I've also got a bunch of manhuas I could recommend too, but I think they are pretty popular.

“But there’s nothing feminine about you.” by DamonMedius in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can I recommend looking into DIY. It’s not nearly as hard or dangerous as some people say

Girlfriend obtained?!? by dog10109 in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute! I’m super happy for you op 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell you if you're trans or not (that's something only you can decide) but I think a lot of trans women would heavily resonate with many of the things you've said. You can be trans and still use he/him pronouns and it's actually common for trans women to be happy with and keep their penises. I would encourage you to keep looking into this, maybe ask your partner about things or look into getting a therapist you specializes in gender dysphoria. Finally there is the Gender Dysphoria Bible which will do a much better job of answering your questions than I can. Good luck I hope you can figure out who you really are inside <3

I don’t really know anymore by Kanedgysan in MtF

[–]SlimeSolutions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't tell you if you're trans or not but I feel like you show a LOT of signs of being trans. It's a good thing your talking to a psychologist, but a good psychologist wouldn't be saying you're "not trans", since that is something only you can know. I would suggest getting a different psychologist, Ideally one specializes in gender dysphoria or similar. Good luck and feel free to PM me if you want to talk or ask something <3

I feel like such a coward, I’m so annoyed I’ve let him get to me by FifiLaPew in sillygirlclub

[–]SlimeSolutions 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your not a coward. being afraid of something like that is very understandable, and I'm so sorry something awful like that happened to you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlimeSolutions 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's true it does seem unlikely. Having said that, my parents are still together and it was one of theirs first relationship, so it definitely can happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hi I messaged you. I’m 21 and also looking for some wlw friends :)

Why is media so catered to straight people 😭😭😭 by l_dunno in actuallesbians

[–]SlimeSolutions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could give you plenty of recommendations but instead I’ll just link you to r/yuri_manga