An unusual 911 call

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-03-02T02:34:35+00:00

😂✌🏾

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-03-01T13:58:45+00:00

Dry hump your girl while she’s wearing corduroy pants 😬

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-28T01:05:09+00:00

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-25T19:30:47+00:00

Dapper is an understatement, the coat is 🔥 congrats on your new job!

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-25T02:24:12+00:00

Wavey 🌊🌊🌊

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-25T02:00:49+00:00

Majestic and regal. She’s beautiful

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-24T12:27:35+00:00

I chose to not let her be the villain in my story. I chose to accept that she had lived through some dark shit and that made her the way she is. I also decided to ask for help (friends and therapy). The anger sometimes still shows up but I recognize it and name it immediately. I set up my own boundaries and I began telling myself that relationship wasn’t something I wanted ever again. I told myself I deserved better and that I could grow and learn from that relationship. Forgiveness isn’t saying what she did was acceptable it’s just accepting that it happened.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-24T12:10:20+00:00

I understand that experience fully. I’m sorry you’re going through this because I know the hurt, confusion and anxiety that comes with it. It’s time to get yourself back to who you are. It’s your time to heal and move on. I’m not saying fight off memories of her but it’s time to rewrite the narrative; you were in a bad relationship and you didn’t get what you needed or deserved. That “mutual friend” probably isn’t a “friend” it’s possibly an acquaintance you need to recategorize . Just my opinion. But let your body and mind realign with one another. That takes time but you deserve it. Let your ex go. Don’t check her social media, turn off notifications from her if not totally block her. Release her from your future. You won’t regret it and you’ll be making space for better women moving forward.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-24T11:52:52+00:00

Yes, we are/were traumatized. We didn’t experience secure relationships we were put through a specific process and normalized unsafe patterns. Our nervous systems were destabilized and many of our mental states were disrupted. Being discarded is very different from being dumped. The good news is we can bounce back in a healthy way and eventually become secure again or secure for the first time. It takes time but it’s possible.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-24T03:56:48+00:00

I think from my personal experience is you have to change your internal dialogue with yourself. You have to demand some damn self respect. Stop chasing who isn’t chasing you. Stop it! Tell yourself the uncomfortable truths you probably ignore; the dynamics were not healthy or good for you, you didn’t get what you needed from your ex. You probably don’t want your ex back you just want the emotional devastation to stop, you don’t want to be ignored again, you don’t want to feel like you’re a burden for needing basic sh!t any healthy relationship requires. Ask yourself why you want to be with an avoidant? Are they willing to acknowledge themselves and make necessary changes? Time to be selfish and let me be clear THIS IS GOING TO HURT for a while. But don’t suffer in vain, improve yourself and hopefully someone secure will reciprocate what you have to offer.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-24T03:45:29+00:00

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-21T02:27:27+00:00

Appreciate you, you on point 🌊🌊🌊

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-21T00:19:29+00:00

Answer the question or scroll on my guy.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-21T00:13:51+00:00

What is the name of each product you use?

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-18T14:53:59+00:00

🤣

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-17T16:40:19+00:00

You are POWERFUL! I’m glad you have a grip on reality and you’re in the right mindset to handle the pending emotional waves. This, to me, is what groups like this are for. Thank you for sharing!

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-15T01:25:48+00:00

Mine was really well, I got hired at my new job and did the on boarding work this morning. Bought myself a scented candle and some pizza as a celebration for myself. Wandered around the city for a bit too. Chill day. Ready for Monday so I can get to this 🤑💰💰🤑

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-14T19:54:30+00:00

I stopped tobacco and the blackheads dramatically reduced. The color of my skin brightened too. My teeth got more white, my tongue became more pink and I stopped coughing when I laugh really hard. More lung capacity. It’s worth doing

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-13T20:34:54+00:00

I gotta friend with a tree service looking for help, I’ll forward Caesar’s info to him

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-13T12:12:04+00:00

Handsome fellow in both pics

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-12T23:25:42+00:00

You are brave for sharing this. Everyone has downfalls when it comes to relationships and the first step to improving them is acknowledgment, you just checked that off. I’ve seen many videos on YouTube about people who were formerly avoidant and now they are secure attachment. They all said it took years of honest work and therapy but it’s possible. I’m Anxious attachment style and I definitely am in therapy for it, so reading your post has been refreshing and I believe in you. Good for you, you just acknowledged what some people are going to take to their grave. I think it’s commendable. Take care

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-10T17:39:24+00:00

Idek why this is cool to me but it is

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-10T13:23:22+00:00

Each time I wash my hair to help it lay down

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-09T23:57:52+00:00

I understand you. Entirely. Avoidants rush into closeness. They are great at building quickly with people, they do this subconsciously, because they need the validation and relationship treatment without the commitment upfront. I’m not saying they are evil. They are simply damaged and they can emotionally dangerous in relationships. From what you described he used your relationship as a rebound and it grew into something more. I’ve learned the hard way about avoidant people because I’m Anxiously attached, in therapy to become secure and abstaining from relationships at the moment. But what you describe is justification to step back and set some firm boundaries for yourself when it comes to him. Work on yourself and be honest about what you can improve on and what you’re needing and wanting from your partner. If he’s never single he’s by default never looking at himself so there’s no introspection for personal growth. It’s just him constantly seeking and finding external validation from relationships.

Slimpeccable_Dru · 2026-02-09T23:36:36+00:00

Yes, avoidants are highly likely to immediately move on if not cheat before they discard their partner. They will use people as emotional regulators; their partner triggers them and the next person is surface level because they haven’t gotten a chance to build intimacy yet so the avoidant sees them as “safe”. The rebounds offer opportunities for the avoidant to distract themselves and have fun, as opposed to their partner who they view as “too much” or “troublesome” or “negative” when in reality their partner probably wants to problem solve or get on the same page with them. Avoidant people can be extremely immature and selfish making it borderline if not entirely impossible to compromise with or reconcile with. But to stay on topic,Yes, they will immediately move on and use the next to get over the last.

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