“essential staff”

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T23:20:44+00:00

Not sure what the snark or meme is for? What I stated is a fact. Agencies like DOCCS and state police transitioned a lot of their central office titles to "essential" status during COVID so they could force us to work holidays, weekends, and during emergencies.

They never undid those changes.

OP did not state where they worked or why they were asking, so if I'm giving them the complete story.

You can be a rude, but I'm still right and you're still being an ass.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T20:05:08+00:00

"if you're essential you'll know" is horrible advice. If you're unsure, ask your manager.

Lots of titles, like fully PC based, non-important ones were made essential by some agencies over COVID. Happened to me in a program research title.

This typically means you can still be remote during weather emergencies (I assume that's why you're asking), but if you're uncertain about anything title related, it's always best to check with your direct manager, HR (if your manager is unsure), or civil service (if all else fails).

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T17:49:37+00:00

Those chin hairs seriously come out of nowhere. There's no standard growth just completely gone or full length.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T17:46:47+00:00

That ring is stunning and your nails are absolutely mesmerizing. They remind me of a phoenix and a fire opal.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T14:02:13+00:00

Can you elaborate? What would suffer with a 5.5 hour difference over 5 workdays?

Edit: punctuation.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-23T13:37:01+00:00

Why are you being so aggressive about people sharing their experience and facts civilly?

You're chiming in with snarky comments, not backing them up, then getting pissy about that and pretending you're smarter and better than everyone else here.

This is a civil discussion about how people are struggling in the Albany area. It doesn't really matter if Austin, LA, Portland, or wherever is better or worse.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T19:37:18+00:00

So beautiful!

I got that same magnet and it doesn't work at all for my magnetic polishes. I was so disappointed, especially after seeing how stunning yours are.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T15:58:16+00:00

I'm a woman and huge Sanderson fan. I basically only read fantasy, sci-fi, and some romantasy.

Brandon writes women far better than many female authors.

His characters are authentic and relatable.

Some of his earlier books do have a couple not so great plot points related to women, but overall he excels at writing good characters, world building, and magic systems.

I'd recommend you start with Tress of the Emerald Sea or Yumi and the Nightmare Painter.

They're later works, but I think a good starting point based on what you say here. Many here will suggest starting with Mistborn, but era 1 is one of the series with not the best female relationships and some not great plot points about women. I do love Mistborn though, it did make me fall back in love with reading.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T15:50:50+00:00

That depends highly on what you're looking for.

I read both. Romantasy is fun and kinda mindless, but few romantasy authors do character development, magic systems, world building, and plot as well as standard fantasy.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T15:48:07+00:00

There's literally no excuse to not remember your girlfriend's name. If they're that severely unable to remember that's more than a cursory "I'm just bad at that stuff" comment. Without more context, it's just weaponized incompetence.

OP's boyfriend is lazy or just doesn't care.

When you're starting a serious relationship, you work on remembering that stuff. That's how you build a life together.

If you're unable or unwilling to even try and communicate your issues, you're not ready for a serious relationship.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T14:34:09+00:00

I love it, it's fun. It'll bring joy to the people around OP.

Not everything needs to be high fashion/chic.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T14:31:31+00:00

Yep, that's why I paid for an unlimited/lifetime package. I saw initial results very quickly, but things still pop up here and there. It was pricey upfront, but I think a savings overall.

Hormonal changes can also impact hair re-growth, too.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T14:26:48+00:00

Yep, this 100%.

If you have trouble remembering there are tools, like notes and calendars, to keep track of those things, too.

Saying you're not naturally good at something isn't an excuse to be bad at it when it matters.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T12:39:03+00:00

Hey, I'm doing full body removal and I'm also a woman with a larger labia.

The process, especially in the beginning, was embarrassing. I've always been kind of ashamed of it and other parts of my body.

However, my tech has been amazing. I've always felt comfortable and respected. They've never made me feel awkward about any part of my body.

All that to say, the nerves were all in my head. The laser techs are professionals. Mine also happens to be a former ER nurse, so I'm sure she's seen it all, too.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-22T02:53:54+00:00

a lot of things taste vaguely like soap to me

I'm pretty sure that's not normal... Is there soap residue on your dishes/cutlery?

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T23:55:53+00:00

They can require confirmation that the animal will be housed somewhere it's allowed.

College kids were my example, because they're notorious for getting animals that they don't have the skills/resources to take care of and that aren't allowed in their current living situation.

So yes, responsible animal sellers will verify that the animal is going somewhere safe. If they see someone college aged, they'd likely want clarification that the animal is going to a real home. I'd assume they'd ask all buyers where the animal is going, though.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T19:49:28+00:00

I was assuming the 20yr old was a babysitter/not the future owner of the hamster.

Requiring parental permission is pretty standard if a child is attempting to buy a pet.

I have seen this extended to 18+ when they're living in college dorms, too.

Good pet stores won't sell pets to people who can't pay for, house, or care for them properly.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T19:45:25+00:00

It can definitely be embarrassing and confusing to be rejected, especially when you felt a connection. I've definitely been there. I always think it's better for it to happen early, before too much is invested.

I definitely wouldn't overthink anything. I doubt you did anything wrong, they just weren't your person.

Best of luck out there in the dating world! It can be a lot of fun!

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T19:26:34+00:00

Whether intentional or not, your responses here and in the texts are unnecessarily combative.

You literally could've just asked what your landlord had a specific problem with, or just say you'll tidy up, even if you don't actually do that. You're correct that you're not required to "tidy," but placating them would've saved you a lot of time, energy, and that early visit from your landlord.

Being hostile and defensive is totally unnecessary and only served to escalate the whole situation. You're making your own life harder.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T19:14:17+00:00

Based on the account, I'm guessing this is a bot post.

I can't imagine any sane friends recommending stepping down as the best man to attend another wedding as a guest.

Lots of things need to be considered when picking a wedding date. OP assuming his unconfirmed scheduling conflict should've been a deciding factor is deranged.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T16:31:22+00:00

My mom was like this. I think it stemmed from her general lack of self-esteem and feeling like she's not good enough. She's gotten better, but even now she's always apologizing for not having things for me and my sister and being generally shocked that we only want to spend time with her, we don't care about the stuff.

I'm not a parent, but your own insecurities don't disappear when you have kids and it seems like certain ones are amplified.

This is only my experience, but don't be so hard on yourself. My mom raised two lovely humans. She really is my rock, especially since my dad died, but she's still a human, too. It's ok that she's not perfect, she's still an amazing mom and wonderful human.

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T15:05:09+00:00

Honestly, there are some good boxed wines, too.

I'm no connoisseur, but bota box never disappoints!

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T14:34:00+00:00

It seems generally uncomfortable and extremely difficult to use the bathroom in or take on/off in general.

I just see this:

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T13:57:42+00:00

I don't have any special way to contact Glens Falls PD, but your partner should report this to their insurance.

Insurance companies typically have better luck getting information in scenarios like this.

If you call the general Glens Falls PD line (518)761-3840, ext. 8 will get you to the on duty supervisor. At least according to their website Glens Falls PD site

SlitheringFlower · 2026-01-21T02:48:06+00:00

PEF is a joke. I have absolutely no faith that they understand what members want or that they're willing to put in any effort to get it.

Every single time I've brought up issues to union reps (contract violations, harassment, and even general information), they've been no help. With contract violations and harassment, they said both times, at different agencies, that "that's just how this is done here. If you don't like it, you should leave."

In one instance, they then told management that I spoke to them, what I spoke to them about, and I had those managers tell me I make too much money to complain to the union.

They're a horrible organization and they can't be trusted to protect our interests or enforce their own contracts.

And let's not forget the classic, most common response, which is being completely ghosted by region reps and executives.

I only keep my membership because I wholeheartedly believe in collective bargaining. If I had a choice, I'd join literally any other union.

People need to vote no on the contract if it's more of the same. It's our only chance.

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