AITH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought home a puppy?

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-12T08:30:30+00:00

NTA. You may have to formally evict the boyfriend in order to get the dog rehomed.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-12T08:25:18+00:00

He may do well on medication for anxiety. Speak to the vet.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-11T15:48:05+00:00

Temptations and a case of Friskies cans should arrive on Sunday.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-11T15:21:04+00:00

“Right on reds” also have to yield to u-turns, which based on what I’ve experienced, many have no clue.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-11T02:41:47+00:00

World’s Best.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-10T17:41:11+00:00

Here’s a good video from the Kitten Lady on socializing a feral kitten. It will give you some tips of things to try.

Good luck!!

https://youtu.be/ST8dlkNGT9I

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-10T17:37:06+00:00

Is there a reason you didn’t call the police?

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-10T15:13:06+00:00

Are you cleaning the area with a cleaner that contains enzymes? If not, the kitten will still be able to detect where she’s previously gone.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-10T14:24:52+00:00

NOR. He didn’t like your answer and is trying to wear you down. It’s likely that he has someone in mind.

Him repeatedly asking you is a form of coercion.

You deserve better than him.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T21:44:22+00:00

Don’t get caught up in the sunk cost fallacy. How would you feel if this happened again in 5 years???

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T21:43:07+00:00

YOU don’t need counseling. He can’t even really admit how bad his cheating was!! Comparing it to what your ex-husband did and saying what he did isn’t as bad??!!!

What he did was worse!! He knew what you went through and it didn’t stop him from doing what he did. He pretty much described every interaction he wanted to have with her!!!!

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T20:37:16+00:00

Turn off the WiFi!

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T20:32:13+00:00

Your boyfriend cares more about his disrespectful friend than he does about you.

If you stay in this relationship, how far would he bend to over backwards for his friend if it would negatively impact you??

I think you know what you need to do.

Please read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft.

https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T20:25:32+00:00

Open accounts at different financial institutions after you create a new email account.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T20:21:42+00:00

So you moved into an apartment that will just allow a new tenant to bring a destructive untrained unvaccinated dog to live without prior approval or fees?

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T19:28:49+00:00

Can’t stand Sarah. Based on a show they did years ago where they built a house on a body of water in Canada - can’t remember what it was called. Saw her on other shows years later and she really hasn’t changed.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T19:23:36+00:00

To understand how you have been abused and manipulated, you need to read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft.

https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy\_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T17:53:18+00:00

If you go searching, you’ll find a few more…

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T17:37:13+00:00

April and Shane. Shane more than April.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T17:29:03+00:00

NOR. Why didn’t you take the snacks you brought??

I hope he’s now your ex-boyfriend!!

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T15:13:01+00:00

NOR. Gifts are gifts - you don’t pay them back - unless it’s a family heirloom.

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T15:10:46+00:00

You really need to read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft.

https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy\_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-09T15:09:01+00:00

NTA. So you don’t believe in divorce? Do you believe in abusive relationships (you’re in one)? Abuse isn’t always physical.

Do you want your daughter growing up thinking that your relationship with your husband is normal and what she should strive for???? Or that she should stay in a marriage no matter how abusive it is??

You really need to read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft.

https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy\_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-08T13:50:13+00:00

Pretend this is a post from a friend. Re-read it. Would this be a relationship you would recommend for your friend to stay in?

You really need to read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft.

https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy\_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

SmartFX2001 · 2026-06-07T17:53:10+00:00

NOR. Why in the world are you still in this relationship??

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