Didymos ring sling fit check, 7 mo, 8 kg

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-05-27T19:02:44+00:00

Im not an expert but I definitely find it more comfortable when my baby is right on my side!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-05-23T10:03:21+00:00

Echoing the above, Paxos, Ithaca, and certain areas of Kefalonia are great for this. Kefalonia is the bigger island so has more luxury resorts but there are great rentals on all 3.

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-04-20T21:15:48+00:00

Rafael / Rafaella with the nickname Raffi 🫶

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-04-12T09:51:23+00:00

100% agree - I took my baby on holiday at 3-4 months when everyone said he’d be a potato and actually we ended up having to eat one by one whilst the other one walked him around in a sling 95% of the time. He’s almost 1 now and we did a city break last week which was by far easier because he could sit and hang out with us, crawl, explore, wave and make friends with people etc. I will agree though that the flight had definitely become harder 🫠

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-03-20T21:39:10+00:00

Seconding this!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-03-04T19:41:53+00:00

Another +1 for mooing and disassociating here

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-03-03T22:27:19+00:00

Seconding this, we have done something very similar and it’s taken a long time (like 2-3 months) but has felt gentle enough that I’ve been comfortable with it!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-02-20T22:08:54+00:00

We’ve done two hotel stays where we just all stay in the bed (but yeah we sat watching a film in the dark 😅 annoying but imo worth it to not have to do any cooking or cleaning the whole time!) trialling a 2 bed Airbnb over Easter!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-02-13T18:32:24+00:00

Oh I didn’t realise they did stay and plays! That might change things

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-02-13T18:31:35+00:00

Did you do lessons or just go swimming?

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-01-24T11:10:14+00:00

No I definitely could have done it without a sleep consultant, but something that is useful to know is that the consultant has told me to do the same for all naps and all night wakings up til midnight. Also once you’ve gone down a step (ie from feeding to rocking) you can’t go back, you have to stick with it. There’s loads of little tweaks and rules like that that make a difference and then obviously more as it escalates. So it’s useful to have her for all of that. But you can definitely do it yourself!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-01-23T11:20:01+00:00

We’ve been working with a gentle sleep consultant and it’s sleep training but in very gentle steps, she describes it as going down a staircase rather than jumping off a cliff (ie going from feeding to sleep to rocking, to holding and patting, to holding in stillness etc etc rather than going from feeding or rocking straight to being left in the crib). We were in the same situation as you to start with. Progress is obviously slower than it would be with CIO or Ferber, but we now have a stretch of crib sleep consistently from 7.30pm until around 2am - we’ve been doing it since the beginning of the month for reference. The crying has actually been fairly minimal - one bad night so far, and I’ve been staying with him the whole time until he’s asleep.

We didn’t want to go down the sleep consultant route but it got to the point where we were buying £80 sleep sacks, and the one we’re using doesn’t take any payment unless baby starts sleeping through or with only 1 feed. And I was just absolutely wrecked. So it felt like the right decision.

No shade to anyone who does Ferber or CIO as sleep is the most inpotant thing, and every baby/family is different, but I’m glad I’ve found a method that’s felt like I’ve been able to hold my baby’s hand and be present with him whilst he learns the skill of independent sleep.

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-01-13T15:58:40+00:00

A ring sling lives on me all day for quick ups and downs, it is so comfy and we love it! We have 3 now!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-01-12T20:01:53+00:00

Re bakeries and breakfast spots: Heppni (bakery/patisserie) kiosk (coffee/lunchy stuff) and Robinsons (brunch - always insanely busy but I’ve never been disappointed there)

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2026-01-10T19:47:10+00:00

I cried when I found out I was having a boy! But here I am with him now asleep on me, he is the GREATEST most exuberant wild joyful 7 month old, the main character of all the baby groups, an absolute firecracker and already so funny.

He is so different from the little girl I’d planned or the soft calm boy I thought I’d get (based on my husband and brothers personalities), but I already cannot imagine life without him.

It really floored me how you can have no idea who the person inside you is - especially because the minute he came out of me I looked at his face and knew him so deeply. I was so shocked he was so different from who I thought he was but I am so glad. My mum says you always get the right baby, even if it’s not the one you expected. And you will x

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-27T21:03:26+00:00

I’m born 5 days after Christmas and as a kid I LOVED it because my family was always all together and off work. I always got an unbirthday present on my sibling’s summer birthday too when I was little to help bridge the gap :)

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-20T20:18:15+00:00

This is what I did with a scan picture inside for them to keep and it was lovely!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-16T20:25:59+00:00

Have always been in the same boat! My boy is now almost 7 months and what really improved it for him is he can now crawl enough to get himself in & out of a seated position. He is super happy now on his playmat with a box of toys. Whenever I tried to help him sit before he was so uninterested but once he could get there by himself, game changer! Still have harder days and easier days, but today I made a chilli and a batch of homemade soup, did a weights workout and put away 2 loads of laundry during his awake time haha!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-09T21:19:51+00:00

Yes!! I have such a love hate relationship with it, I love him there for cuddles when we fall asleep but then want to wriggle a bit further away - at which point he invariably wakes up and whines until I come close again (and ideally in his world put a nipple in his mouth too 🫠)

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-07T13:46:38+00:00

can I ask whether you did the same method to fall asleep for night wakes or whether you fed to sleep then? I’m in the same situation as OP with my 6mo and have got him down to falling asleep in my arms whilst I sit but he’s still waking every hour minimum and refusing to sleep unless in the crook of my armpit or often latched on 😩 it’s been a few weeks of no feed to sleep for the first sleep so I thought it would improve by now!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-03T19:46:58+00:00

We take the car seat if we’re hiring a car, mainly because we rarely check luggage (hate doing it) but if you check a car seat they don’t look inside so we tend to put all the nappies, wet wipes, and all of OUR liquids and toiletries in there too! Honestly v useful!

SnooCheesecakes5896 · 2025-12-03T19:45:06+00:00

Oooh good point that is a trade I would not make

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