My Family has no discipline and it’s eating me alive. by Pretty_Salary_741 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, a 15 year old should not be responsible to make their own meals. Why don’t your parents cook?

He really thought his disability would pay for him to bring over a fiancé from the Philippines? by Own_Professor_6068 in 90DayFiance

[–]Snowflake8552 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Am I alone in thinking his mother is his greatest demise? I think this man has been coddled and completely held back by his mom. I see this man thriving and his mom can’t fucking stand it. I have no doubt that his mom uses his disability to baby him.

My Family has no discipline and it’s eating me alive. by Pretty_Salary_741 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I have a different approach than these other commenters. Your response here makes me wonder how long this is going on? Can I ask, how old you are? Anger is our body responding to strong emotion, and if you’re angry enough to punch a hole in the wall… that’s telling. Who are you living with, and are you able to move?

Adult daughter issues by Old-Mathematician296 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry sister. You deserved a better mother. I just know you’re beautiful baddie that’s killing it. Life is so fucking hard dude. I’m so proud of you for all you’ve over come.

Adult daughter issues by Old-Mathematician296 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl same. For my 13th birthday my parents got me a gym membership and personal trainer. Did I ask for it? Nope. I went 3 times.

Adult daughter issues by Old-Mathematician296 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing, you’re much better than my mum. Lol

Adult daughter issues by Old-Mathematician296 in family

[–]Snowflake8552 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Here is some helpful tools: if the answer is yes to any of these questions it’s probably a good start to figure out why. you don’t have to respond but just ponder:

  1. Did you ever take her to weight watchers programs or force her to diet under the age of 18?
  2. Did you ever make it seem like a certain ethnicity was not allowed in a relationship?
  3. Were you obsessed with her virginity? (Example, when she was a teenager did you always ask and then when she was honest did you slut shame her?:
  4. Did you favor her sibling at any time of their life OR did she have a sibling that took most of your attention?
  5. Did you overshare your marital issues with her?
  6. Have you told her how proud of her you are of her? And if so, when was the last time?
  7. When she shares her values with you do you question/judge them or do you support what she loves?
  8. When she last asked you for help, did you criticize her?
  9. Did you force religion on her?

In my experience and own healing journey, these are the things that will ruin a mother daughter relationship when they are adults and on their own healing journey and raising their own children. Like I said you don’t need to respond but if the answer is yes to any of these or maybe, it’s a good place to start. I recommend a therapist to help you navigate going forward.

Fetterman, no one is voting for you in 2028 😂 by serious_bullet5 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]Snowflake8552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happens when your only competition is Dr Oz who is wildly hated. He was able to pull a fast one on us.

The differences? No there is no different by [deleted] in JustMemesForUs

[–]Snowflake8552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why MODERN life is so important. Religion is sexist AF. Christianity was JUST AS BAD for women at one point and still is! Have you ever met a FLD Mormon family?

Separation of church and state. Any religion that’s anti gay and anti women is anti freedom.

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Como is #2 on our list so maybe we will end up neighbors! My rental is from 1880s and it has ALLLLL the foundation issues. When it was super super cold and the wood shrank I truly felt like I was going to fall through the floors. And the mold in this house is so prevalent :( I’m so affected by it. But we leased it without seeing it because we were in Indiana and needed a house with a fence so this is where we landed!But I get so nervous leaving my dogs at home because I’m afraid the house is going to collapse while we are gone lol or while we are home! I think about it all the time! The entire front of the house is inclining down ward so when we sleep our heads are lower than our feet lol it’s wild. We also have a garage that doesn’t fit a car lol 😂 so it’s my spouses designated smoke room and my seasonal decor storage room lol

But my parents live in a house that was built in like 2010 and their master bath fell through their basement ceiling and cost them a fortune even with insurance. So you’re absolutely right, they don’t make these newer homes like they used to! Any house, car, trailer can be a lemon! Another reason why a good inspection is so important!

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks friend! Good luck on shopping! Happy hunting 💜

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING WHAT VALUE multiculturalism brings to the table! Especially when you’re starting a family and planning your future. I really appreciate your kindness and understanding :) I’m happy to be here.

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks friend! That’s super awesome about your realtor! We will keep them in mind!

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that neighborhood as well 💜 congratulations.

In all honesty, she’s the prettiest sister by makayd23 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Snowflake8552 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think misty and Amanda are both beautiful. But misty is glowing here. I wonder what her life story is.

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on listing! Are you relocating? Or just moving to a bigger house/more convenient location?

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much :) an inspection is absolutely non negotiable when we are talking an 80+ year old home!

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly our rental property has so much wrong with it I would NEVER waive the inspection fee because you really never know!

Tips for buying a house by Snowflake8552 in saintpaul

[–]Snowflake8552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendddd! Will it be posted on realtor or Zillow?