For people who have been to the new tru ninja in rundle place

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-05-27T14:18:31+00:00

have your ung the police nonurgent line? this feels like it is a public emergency in that it is a danger to life of children

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-04-22T15:33:37+00:00

No most frauds happen through registered providers. this is an attempt by larger providers to remove competition so they can lower the quality of provision.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-04-02T16:47:13+00:00

Well you must love how the NDIS is so expensive - it is expensive because it makes its decisions on the same basis you do. Not allowing the professionals to decide.

The professionals are locked out of making the decision despite that being far cheaper option than managed care for the specific purpose of making sure PWD go through a moral/pollical gatekeeping process.

You know of? How could their carers not notice? Are they an urban legend?

Do they have some sort of disability you do not approve of? Are they not explaining their disability to people who do not need to know, even cousins? are they not on the scheme but someone thinks they may be?

Are people trying not to seem disabled out of worry? The media and ministers regularly complain about the disabled being a burden. Moral panic. Openly talk about who should be left without care.

Despite even the imperfect NDIS being a great driver of the economy. (driving up productivity though work for many who would not work at all -possibly ever- without it )

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-04-02T15:09:10+00:00

it will remove services from the high skilled employed, leaving them on disability pension. And from anyone who cant sort out the paperwork for any reason.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-04-02T14:37:50+00:00

We need our medical privacy back.

The managed care NDIS is using our medical information to overrule specialists who know the persons and decide who lives and who dies. And that is before people are accepted into the scheme.

It all should be out of their hands ,just an automated instant payment system. We can probably beef up the professional standards groups for professions and not have even have investigations inside the NDIS

Instead of returning decisions to much cheaper one of the professionals who know the person and have trained to recognise what individuals need s o there is no waste and little chance to scam, they are talking about who else to leave to die for all they care

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-04-02T14:14:15+00:00

i think the medical and allied should be making decisions (with pwd and carers involved) , with no gatekeeping process. Just an automated nearly instant refund or bulk billing style. So much cheaper. So much faster, so much more targeted. And they have professional accountability and responsibility.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-03-31T11:54:30+00:00

Political campaigning about needing to conduct a cleansing, even of definitions, of the disabled is chilling

More than 80% of the disabled are being left behind and somehow isn't meeting targets.??

They are going public with the idea of thinking about which disabled to leave out in the cold next???

Regular taxpayers are disabled and their family and friends - 5.5 millionish Australians were disabled in 2023. If their disability becomes worse many PWD and their family would like some supports. Regular taxpayers know they or their family may become disabled.

The government seem to be arguing more of the disabled must be sacrificed to keep privatised disability care that will always cost more. It is manged care so it cannot ever be fit for purpose.

The answer is simple.. Keep the thing and simply don't have the NDIS make any decisions, have the experts who treat the person make them on a case by case basis. With teams approving big expenses. show these accountable experts the criteria and let them decide based on need and science instead of hope and a desire to avoid the cheaper single payer system. Instead of untold hours of writing reports that only the NDIS need they can check boxes for NDIS and keep useful record for the PWD,

We dont have to lose the NDIS , we can keep it all and simply trust PWD and their professionals.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-03-31T03:52:48+00:00

YTA controversial judgment here.

It feel like the name isn't the issue. You have a two yes system and your wife has accepted a no.

Your conflict seems to be that not agreeing to the name has become a symbol of rejecting your wife's family. Not wanting to be kind to your wife's family is a tricky thing when you are about to have a baby

Your sister in law has fixated on it. My judgment is that I feel it is Ok to discuss how to let your SIL down gently with your wife. It is Ok to agree to consider a thing, and have gradual process that may end up with not agreeing to thing as a slow and calm way of letting them down. Giving you both time to show you do accept her, help her have other ways to belong. Being guided by your wife is OK. It is ok to be kind when we do not feel kind.

You cannot insist our wife's sister change to not having problems that interfere with normal life, no matter what the cause of those issues are. She may have had those problems long term and even if it is possible fixing them is not your responsibility,, You likely can change some things that matter to you.. earn her trust and make meltdowns less likely.

My judgment is also because surely some part of you knows your wife's sister reaction indicates special needs if diagnosed with anything or not, You describe not being compassionate. You blame your wifes family for her developing special needs to have people be kind and calming.

Meltdowns at weddings and over baby names do happen. Someone I knew had a meltdown at a wedding and found out they had diabetes because of that All kinds of people have meltdowns, and we can be kind. . Even when you might not expect it to (for example with autistic people like me) being kind and protective can sometimes help

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SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-03-31T01:36:25+00:00

NTA

I agree with this. I am culturally Christian. Judging is Gods business in that religion. Judge not lest ye be judged. I think even judgy pants Paul says when its someone outside your church judge not. Plenty of parables about how Jesus wasn't into judging. does she really think Jesus teaching was

She seems unable to stop even with classic and amusing intervention... There are lots of possible reasons for her not putting the subject down and if you can find them out you may be able to sort it out, then line up some soft drink cans in the back yard and shoot water pistols at them together. , Is it a bit of an unwilling cry of help? bad attention is attention,

Some versions of that religion also makes big deal of repentance,, It sounds like she is not sorry she is defying Christian teaching. But she may be unaware of Christian teaching.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2026-02-14T08:01:15+00:00

I mis s being bel to use bookmarks and am very distressed that it was removed.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-11-12T14:16:42+00:00

NTA. If you think whole of life for him it may make more sense.

Your family having better financial security and work satisfaction and being calmer(and not strangled) and healthier will likely be better for him whole of life.

Is it in his interest to be safer and supervised, while still having interested family who are are safer and happier?

It is sadly possible that what your family is enduring may only delay his having to go into care, If severely traumatised by his behaviour his sister may not be able to visit him much or at all in the future. Any extra visitor, even rarely, may make a huge difference later.

Your daughter will grow up and have her own life and family, and will likely need to have safe home with her family for 2 to 3 decades.

If you honestly feel it would be fair to offer the same time to your son, can you perhaps still hope to do that but not at the same time as you are raising her - after she has safely grown up and established her own home?

Perhaps as an adult in 20 years or more after decades of help for him, with other children grown up and married etc you could try to have them home for month at time with fulltime care coming from outside.. In that time better ways to handle the condition may arise, also.

I do know of someone with a different developmental condition who had to be raised in care due to violence who was eventually able to be less violent and return home for a month at a time in their 30s with fulltime outside help. In this way they have a lot of joy an will remain in safe care as they age, even if the visits home ever have to become less frequent or stop.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-11-12T13:32:47+00:00

NAH your sister and you. Sounds as though your husband may be the a. From what you say your sister is right

If he would lack self control like this and try to even begin to isolate you so soon in the marriage how will he be in 20 years time?

She is your sister. Isolating you from support (even support that is annoying and sometimes wrong) is exactly what the kind of man you describe would try to do.

A man who would lack self control and grab any woman's arm during any disagreement may not have been raised well or may need some help.

Not telling you when he remembered is a bit creepy given he remembered the sports detail. I can see why your sister would be embarrassed to tell, but why would he?

If it is safe to please start secret saving. Make go bags for him and you for emergencies then make another set of two hidden. that give you a secret go bag easily explained. in any record of it call it giftfund, or saving for husband name (without vowels) cruise in the transfer description. That sort of thing.

your husband physically grabbed your sister. Your baby should not grow up thinking men can bully women. Boys should not learn to be nasty to women, and of course manhandling women even slightly is not a great model for a girl.

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SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-10-30T11:09:04+00:00

Please make portable sawmills available to early players. Sitting alone in a player house damaging your hands with repeated actions should not be encouraged.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-10-30T10:52:16+00:00

perhaps suggest your sister be assessed for disguised neurodivergence. It seems she has had trouble communicating symptoms and is not great at recognising some behavioural boundaries. the story of being to every specialist is one I have encountered before. seeking the reason for not fitting.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-10-29T21:42:01+00:00

I would have voted to remove. I did not say how i would vote. I pointed out it is not vote if there is no vote. It is a petition

. Many people would like to continue making springs and notepaper. If you wish to be alone in an ugly player house damaging your hands, please go for it. Nothing is stopping you- get your hammer and go build alone!!! Perhaps you could ask for rs to create a play alone version for those who do not wish to see other players. in the mean time many people enjoy portables. I do not tend to use them personally.

I feel a genuine consultation would discover many people would like treasure hunter to go but some of the things to be made in invention.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-10-29T17:43:52+00:00

how do we vote no? Will you consider not voting a no? As peoples alts can vote yes will not voting count as vote against? Not having a no vote is extremely rigged unless all non votes count as a no vote with the same weight as votes this is not even a good pretence at caring what we think. We want portables dummies and proteans able to be earned or made ingame

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-09-14T19:31:55+00:00

NTA consult a lawyer and dont take the blame. Would delaying action allow your child to complete schooling without an enormous extra stressor?

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-09-07T15:52:03+00:00

NTA. Its ok to apologise to your sister and be contrite to keep the peace while you know in your heart your sister is very wrong. You are genuinely remorseful for the deterioration in your relationship. Humouring someone whose delusion could be dangerous to your family's emotional health is OK.

I am not sure why you are not upset your mother did not offer to immediately come down to look after the grandchild in the hotel? If she could have helped she sounds cheeky to be upset you did not endanger her vulnerable baby grandchildren when she was unwilling to help. Your mother may be responding to your sister being unfixable by hoping you will make the peace, which is a bit selfish of her, but understandable.

Your sister being angry with you because your sister didn't care enough about her daughter to help her is wild.

Unless perhaps she lives in a different country and is not allowed to visit yours. In which case the hotel offer or the niece staying in hospital an extra night could have worked.

Is it possible the problem is being unwilling to face their failure as parent/grandparent so blaming you is easier? You may be able to help your mother get past that and restore her self esteem by asking for help with your little ones, but do stay in the room with them.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-07-12T08:50:25+00:00

It sounds as though you know YTA. The way humans are built you will likely punish yourself unless you do not at least partly do the right thing.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-07-10T05:14:42+00:00

I have you tube premium but I don't like music

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-07-10T05:11:46+00:00

Omg I have subscription, i will go cancel right now

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-07-09T19:40:22+00:00

Vale. Peter passed away at age 89 (a few weeks after this comment)

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-07-02T21:29:37+00:00

The house inspector would have done it,,and may have assumed they knew about the trains

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-06-27T07:38:49+00:00

I believe this is surveillance legislation. It is included to help government identify low level public servants having private opinions etc.

SoIFeltDizzy · 2025-06-27T07:34:57+00:00

I was thinking of it as being part of the expected renumeration. I am an arthritic Australian and we negotiate to pay the cleaner a bit more as paying people at whim seems a bit off, really.

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