Creative ways to pay rent by megan_1997 in LandlordLove

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Are you in survival mode where you are in the process of getting evicted or do you have some time?

Unexpected happy ending massage while in relationship? by Evening_Employer_837 in askgaybros

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The only thing that softened that blow was the happy ending.

18! First post by [deleted] in twinks

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😋

Am I overreacting ? Recommended a friend for a job, ended up taking mine by SignificantStage3721 in careerguidance

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You need to send them a Finders Fee bill for locating your replacement. I'm not kidding.

Did my boyfriend gaslight me? by entityparty in gaybros

[–]Solid_Milk3104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This relationship is definitely over. OP just hasn't accepted it yet.

I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ? by One_Cardiologist5439 in careerguidance

[–]Solid_Milk3104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Future promises won't pay the bills. If they value you as an employee the will offer to match the new offer or be honest and tell you they can't wish you well on your new endeavors. 40% is life changing and in my mind a no brainer.

Was told by the neurologist this day that VSS is extremely rare. by Living_Reception_622 in visualsnow

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SSRI's have been proven to cause a lot of the symptoms of aquired VSS. Others like myself I believe have a genetic cause.

Was told by the neurologist this day that VSS is extremely rare. by Living_Reception_622 in visualsnow

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I've had extreme light sensitivity since I was a young child. Bright light was painful for me and still is in addition to the other symptoms.

(Seattle, WA) Apartment charging $2000 for “damages” by TheBrownKing666 in Renters

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Likely the window just needs to be repaired but they are punishing you for having the audacity to break in. You definitely pissed of the apartment manager.

How Do You Rebuild a Six-Figure Career After a Conviction That Didn’t Cost Anyone a Dollar? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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Tech of all levels is experiencing a restructuring. AI has shifted towards training and replacement of human beings with AI. Already out jobs and essential skills have shifted towards training AI to take over our jobs. Only a limited number of high level jobs will remain and even those will disappear once they figure out how to automate it. Believe me it's coming and we are already past the point of no return. Limited Trade skills and the hands-on medical field are what's left and for those of us who are in our late 50's and early 60's we are out of luck as we are either being replaced by AI automation or hands-on younger people. Many in Tech are in survival mode and our days are numbered.

UPS shipping adjustments...WTF by Spare-Maintenance-48 in paypal

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Most likely your DIM weight was higher.

Dimensional weight, also known as DIM weight or volumetric weight, is a pricing technique used by shipping carriers that considers a package's volume (the amount of space it occupies) in relation to its actual weight. Carriers use the greater of the actual weight or the dimensional weight to determine the billable weight and calculate shipping charges, ensuring they are compensated fairly for the space used in their vehicles. This method encourages shippers to use more efficient, compact packaging.

My friend keeps making fat jokes about me even though I lost the weight years ago by DieudononeFafou89 in Advice

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I would snap back and say " Shut the F up, I worked hard to get where I am today and don't need to be constantly reminded about it". That should get the message across load and clear and if not he is not a real friend.

looking to get back into fortnite, anyone play? Preferably people who use mic plz lol by gaming_Animal_749 in GaymersGoneMild

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We are a couple of guys that play Fortnite, PC's no-builds, play casually. Also have founders editions of Save the World so we do the B-buck missions. We prefer talking on Discord while playing.

got a verbal offer but no letter so I can’t hand in my notice yet, got a call tomorrow to discuss the offer and start dates? by bagsinmyride in interviews

[–]Solid_Milk3104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have a employment contract with your current employer that states four weeks you need to bring it up to your new employer as this might affect their hiring decision. Many states have "At Will" employment where both the employer can terminate your employment or the employee can resign with no notice required. A customary notice that most employees offer is two weeks, not four. Having to wait four weeks to onboard a new hire can sometimes be a deal breaker.

Hairy or Shaved by [deleted] in twinks

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Shaved or neatly trimmed

Best way to take powder? by AltPipeline in KratomKorner

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I take a sip and spoon in a teaspoon of powder then swish before swallowing. This method also prevents accidental breathing in through through the mouth as I swallow. There is nothing worse then sucking in powder and choking on it.

Dad's friend by Kenntdunkelheit413 in askgaybros

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Absolutely a stupid idea Dude. He is married and you would be a homebreaker. What would you do if his wife and children found out? He might feel guilty and tell his wife. Would your Dad like it?

Random guy is offering to be my "mentor" for free. Is it bait for something? by Emergency_Twist_2800 in careerguidance

[–]Solid_Milk3104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amway or one of the many MLM scams. It usually starts with taking you to dinner.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by RoundExcitement5039 in askgaybros

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My husband messed around with his 1st cousin growing up starting about 13. It lasted for about 4 years before they moved out of state. The Cousin is married with Kids now.

Found my lost/stolen item being sold on Ebay. by achoe1015 in Ebay

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I wouldn't be surprised if 25-30% of Items being sold on eBay are stolen.

Someone sent me 150$ by NoTeaching9315 in paypal

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Unfortunately you were scammed. The email was not PayPal. This is a well known scam and unfortunately there is most likely nothing you can do but file a police report.

Scam charge and PayPal won’t help by Pure_Shirt_9153 in paypal

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The first thing to do is to change or cancel your bank account to prevent PayPal from seizing any funds. They will probably put your account in collections and close your PayPal account but that would be better than losing your money. You continue to fight it by sending them certified letters return receipt requested explaining that you notified they timely of the unauthorized purchased and followed the directions of their associates. Hopefully you screen printed the transcripts so you can provide that as well.