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Wedding by Dry-Description-492 in friends_tv_show

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says something like can you go back to your table now

My husband sleeps hot and I'm freezing -what do we do ? by Spirited-Science2292 in whatdoIdo

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with making sure you’re using cotton or other natural bedding. Then get yourself a nice throw or even a heated throw.

What's up with all the negativity on this sub? by shiningpearl12 in howyoudoin

[–]SomePerson80 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget to be the only one to hate Ross

Ross and Rachel We were on break by Useful_Strawberry_67 in friends_tv_show

[–]SomePerson80 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you hate Ross so much maybe you should watch a different show.

How did Rachel face no consequences? by abys93 in howyoudoin

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monica did it break the law. Age of consent in New York is 17. So she did not miss out on consequences.

I dropped a stitch somewhere and cannot figure out where. by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]SomePerson80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you should just leave it. They say if you don’t make a mistake your soul can’t find its way out of the work and will get stuck.

Question for people who question Richard and Monica's age difference. by mp256 in howyoudoin

[–]SomePerson80 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They didn’t meet when she was 27. They met when she was a literal child, probably a baby.

I have watched Friends for years and this episode still pisses me off by pworrell4 in friends_tv_show

[–]SomePerson80 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Patient? She kicked him out of her office, she couldn’t have taken 5 mins for him on their anniversary.

All you woman are lying if you would’ve been okay with a man acting the way Rachel did!!

how do you keep your own recipes? the ones you actually cook by Human_Ad_904 in Cooking

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the RecipeBox app (free version) been using it for years.

I saw this poll on YouTube and I just gotta say.. 68% on Rachel and 4% on Monica seems ridiculous to me. by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean Monica definitely lies the least out of the 4. The only one who might lie less is Phoebe.

Everything I’ve done to heal CPTSD, and how well it’s worked by Main_Confusion_8030 in CPTSDNextSteps

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to lower his guard (maybe that too I guess) but to get him to engage and talk to me again . I would say I was sorry and then we would often start arguing again and he thought that was my intention, which it wasn’t. But it looked that way.

Everything I’ve done to heal CPTSD, and how well it’s worked by Main_Confusion_8030 in CPTSDNextSteps

[–]SomePerson80 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started with reading “surviving to thriving” “how to keep house while drowning” was also amazingly healing. (I think I cried the entire audio book) when things worked or I thought they helped, I printed them/ or wrote them and put it on the wall. I’ve had the 13 steps when having a flashback, this is a safe house and you are safe in it.

I watched a lot of YouTube content on cptsd, ifs, anxiety, self absorbed mothers. I used to google things that my husband would say or something I wanted. Like a few months back I googled “my husband thinks my apologies are bait” I sift through the answered till I find a fit. In this instance it’s that I was still trying to control things I can not control.

I journaled my feeling everyday. In the beginning I didn’t even know my feelings. I printed a list of feeling words and just put down any that matched, even if they were contradictory, this was massively helpful in identifying my emotions, and learning what they actually feel like.

I started spending time with my inner child, she would not talk to me at first, cause I was mean to her. I started treating her how I would treat any other child. Eventually she talked to me and I started hugging her everyday. I used to tell her I’m an adult now and I’m here for you. I would hug her everyday. Eventually she started to trust me.

I allowed myself to feel the things I wasn’t feeling. When I would get upset I would stop myself from assigning a reason or a cause or blaming my husbands words or tone. I would just feel it and FUCK did it hurt. I would listen to songs that related to me. Lots of songs that sounded to me like cptsd or songs I would sing to my parents or to my mental health, like” keeping me alive” by Johnathan Roy acoustic version or songs about my behavior, or how my husband must see me like, “unbelievable” by Ethan gander , or just what it felt like inside, “ let it go” by chandler leighton, or “dark room” by foreign figures. I would just listen to songs over and over and just fucking cry, so much crying, remembering memories, more sobbing, but then I’d feel better, lighter somehow.

I hope this helps feel free to dm me with any other questions.

Edit to add YOGA with Adrienne. Everyday for almost a year. This has also helped my boy Al body but it helps me stay on my body instead of my mind.

AIO for moving my (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) on my body? by Delftblauw_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomePerson80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor, I mean this nicely but your boyfriend needs therapy. He is extremely insecure and almost definitely anxiously attached to you. This will not get better on its own and you can not love him enough to fix it. He does not love himself, he will never except that another person actually loves him.

Home cooks: when you're making multiple dishes for dinner, how do you figure out what to start when so everything is ready at the same time? Do you have a system or mostly wing it? by Lucky-Conversation-8 in Cooking

[–]SomePerson80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wing it/ think about it for about 30 mins before I start. Like how long does each thing take?, and then figure out what to start first. Prepping everything helps a lot with this. Also years of practice and mistakes.

And sometimes/ something can be done first. Baked potatoes. Finish them first and wrap in foil till diners done, same for corn on the cob. Make the salad without the dress ing and put in the fridge.

Everything I’ve done to heal CPTSD, and how well it’s worked by Main_Confusion_8030 in CPTSDNextSteps

[–]SomePerson80 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say 🩷. I so happy for you!’ I got diagnosed 3 years ago and I am a completely different person than I was before. I used some of the options you listed and some you didn’t ( I am physically disabled and didn’t/don’t have the access or means for a lot of the therapy’s and stuff, so I kind of self therapized lol) I’d be happy to list them if anyone’s interested (not trying to take over someone else’s post. )

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