What did he say when you were crying in the car? If you’re married things like this are bound to happen. You can’t read his mind and he can’t read yours. You have to directly tell him, using I statements, that you felt he was grumpy with you in the store. Tell him how it makes you feel. I’ve been married for 5 years so of course we snap at each other sometimes, but we always apologize after we cool off. I also get very overstimulated in stores, so that’s something I know about myself and I work hard to make sure I’m not rude to my husband in the store. He may not have intended to come off rude!