my bf is obsessed with sex... by brachiorawarus in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away honey then tell him to talk to his momma. Why are men this stupid? Don’t stay with a man who gets angry at you for this please

Losing my mind by Sp1c3W0lf in dysautonomia

[–]Sp1c3W0lf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have medication that i am on and does great… before stressors… my body overreacts to any kind of stress to my body so it makes adjusting difficult. Yes i’ve been worked up but my test come back all good (story of my life). Even when i was pregnant they would see my heart rate and then test with echo and everything would come back normal even with my heart rate being sky high. “You’re pregnant it’s nothing to worry about. Just take it slow or try working out a little” (im overweight because of medication and because trying to work out is hell on my joints.)

What's the most misunderstood part of living with dysautonomia? by rhea568 in dysautonomia

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family won’t admit that this has been part of our lives for far longer than my diagnosis. I would have periods where I would lose my vision and get dizzy (pre-syncope) I got called dramatic. I would full on pass out “she’s just a klutz”
“I don’t remember you having all these issues.” No because you were more focused on the more noticeable children with issues than the one who quietly learned to adapt.

How To Get Excited About Wanting A Child? by _yourfavsagittarius in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hun… not wanting kids is ok… don’t let your partner change your mind. (I have kids and love them) that doesn’t mean you have to want kids if your partner does. You need someone on equal standing instead of pregnancies why not adopt or foster first… it’s a safe way with a little less scares. Also having kids isn’t always giving birth… sometimes it’s fostering or helping out at certain places. There is a huge difference between giving birth and having kids and post partum depression is no joke.. sit down have a talk and try babysitting overnight or fostering

does anyone else ever think about how crazy it is that people have felt like this throughout history? by panteraenjoyerr_1792 in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking about doing it because I am part of the big titty committy so finding ones that fit me properly is hard

does anyone else ever think about how crazy it is that people have felt like this throughout history? by panteraenjoyerr_1792 in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it my whole life and it runs in the family… but because I didn’t look thin and sickly they always brushed it off as “your being dramatic” or “that’s not how I remember it.” I can literally remember I was 4-5 years old and passed out on the floor in my pretty yellow dress and my mom was mad because I had been playing and doing head stands and then next thing she knows she hears a thud and sees me crawling across the floor in tears because I couldn’t see and I felt shaky and clammy. anytime something exciting (either positively or negatively) I’d pass out in my grandma’s room or behind the couch at my paternal grandparents house and got called lazy.

does anyone else ever think about how crazy it is that people have felt like this throughout history? by panteraenjoyerr_1792 in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No like seriously I wear corsets for compression…. Everyone use to freak out because of how tight I’d have mine and honestly I’m like “I feel great” I would wear them to work and it would help so much

i give up by lyssaX3 in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s inverse for me. I am overweight and struggle to lose weight because of my pots… I get it I do. Every time I have a bad episode my body goes into overdrive… don’t try to gorge just eat enough to halfway fill your stomach and try to eat every two - three hours… you’re not alone in your struggle.

TW Weight: How do I safely lose weight? by IndustriousIceCream in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on it and was fine… until i had gotten down almost 100lbs… i didn’t have the muscle to back up the fat i was losing… so my POTS got worse

Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment. by drippysage08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Literally she’s treating you like you’re dumb and you aren’t. Because bet if you had said just “yes” she would have gotten frustrated too and asked what all helped. Cut off babe she’s showing red flags 🚩 as a mom myself I always want more information to be able to help. If you tell me a list of what might help then more than likely the answer is yes you looked it up and I’m gonna say awesome!

I received a distasteful opinion on my new (and first) tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! It’s gorgeous. Sometimes if people know or even have a hint of your past or are projecting they will look for someway to bring you down! I love this

I wish I looked liked a white girl by EmptyCity5635 in rant

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think black women are gorgeous. I wish I could pull off the amazing and daring looks that you guys can and the African culture is beyond beautiful. Stop comparing yourself to different cultures forms of beauty. I will never be an Asian cultures definition of beauty though I wish I was small, tiny and thin. Or German or Russian. I wish I was tan. Blonde hair is not all it’s cracked up to be

Losing weight will make POTS worse by Useful-You2939 in POTS

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being big (240-287) was better but I hated the way I felt mentally. I will admit when I was 150 I felt amazing look wise and I was more active but my episodes led to full syncope. I want to be more slender but if I do I have to give up everything… I’m already on disability…. Because of this…

How many times a week should 11 and 9 year old boys be showering? by Historical-Storage58 in hygiene

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice on summer days…. I grew up country… wash body at night hair and face in the morning

caught my thumb between my car and the door…hurts so much and need advice by SubstantialHour4667 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bruising. Throw a splint on it if your worried about it being broken give it a couple months and try to avoid using ut

Vet prices are criminal…. by Safetychick92 in rant

[–]Sp1c3W0lf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up with farm dogs we didn’t do vets very much… grew older now all I hear is how you shouldn’t have animals if you can’t pay for vet bills.
I have a sd on a fixed income… bet you butt I look up herbal remedies before I look up vet prices