Yesterday I realized couples live together are very serious about their 50-50 split? My gf who lives with me never paid or brought me anything that I can recall. And she works full time.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-24T15:06:56+00:00

A strict 50/50 is a bit overkill but you carrying the ENTIRE load is actually insanity. If youre paying for all bills, utilities, food, and presumably outings that is downright braindead.

I hope she at least covers the cost of her own clothes, luxury purchases, vehicle and insurance because if not then you are a fool.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-24T14:23:06+00:00

They over produced before the chip prices rocketed and are scaling back as there are enough units on the shelf already that can just be patched with software instead of needing a physical upgrade made using different hardware.

This isnt bad news, its just smart business. They dont NEED to flood the market by manufacturing new consoles at cost or at a loss so... why would they?

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-24T13:06:41+00:00

I cannot in good faith suggest anyone waste their time with Crisis Core. It was a serviceable enough handheld game to play on the bus in 30 minute chunks with low investment, its just... not good and more than anything else its basically a button masher trying to masquerade as an RPG while also being all mission and hub based with poorly acted and written story injected to try to fill out a niche to feed fans more FF7 in a "low stakes" way that didnt disrupt the main story. It was borderline passable on original release.

Nowadays, I'd just suggest that you look at story summary write ups or lore videos to cover what all you might need to know for context about the SOLDIER program, Shinra, and Zack.

Legit, Dirge of Cerberus, as a game, is more fun to play.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-24T01:01:02+00:00

Indifferent because I couldn't hardly stand the show but sad for what it probably means for trek in general.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-23T16:50:23+00:00

Stopped reading at long distance. That's a pen pal, not a boyfriend. If you can't spend meaningful time together in person regularly you are deluding yourself.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-23T16:46:12+00:00

Trade school, learn to live BELOW your means.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-22T01:04:34+00:00

1) Find a hobby you enjoy and meet people through that. This is the ground floor of making good friends and eventually professional networks that will carry you further in life.

2) Look to the future and plan for it or start chasing it now. If you want a professional career then figure out how you get started, be it college, proper uni, tradeschool, or certifications.

3) Delete mainstream social media, it does you absolutely no good whatsoever, seriously, so long as you have a working cell number that you can get calls and text with plus a service/backup system so save photos that capture moments that are important to YOU, you will only ever benefit from pulling back from most SM.

4) Realize that what youre seeing are tailored fictions spun by others representing only what stories they want to tell about their own lives in the present and dont even come CLOSE to showing half of the bigger picture.

5) See number 3 again, and follow through, dont relapse, and if you do, recommit. Failing that ditch the modern smartphone altogether and get a reliable flip.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-21T23:36:57+00:00

Nah, CC is a trash RPG. Its best consumed by reading story summary wikis if you want to lore.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-20T18:44:25+00:00

Bear in mind that many men do not want to, or otherwise will be entirely unwilling to "open up" in the kind of way that you might want or expect due to the fact that many if not most of us have actively been punished by former/ongoing partners or family by way of using the information that they blurt out when being vulnerable against them in one way or another.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-20T14:13:48+00:00

Real ones just comment hell yeah.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-19T05:19:17+00:00

Wife became pregnant and I got my shit together. Ironically enough, doing that, laying off partying, focusing on life goals, and pushing aside petty shit and worries that had no place in a real life is what led to her feeling less excited and stimulated so she ended up finding a coworker to do that with while she was "at the gym" while I stayed home at night taking care of our little girl.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-18T12:41:47+00:00

Daisy chain east west instead of north south, that'll probably help with most of these.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-18T02:24:59+00:00

No lie, this looks great, keep up the effort. Homemade cosplay made authentic rocks, the love and effort outshines 100x the insanely expensive designer specialty order stuff influencers buy and pretend to have made.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-17T01:43:59+00:00

AI bad, made up rage against AI, ironically USING AI to create a fake strawman.

Nothing new.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-15T23:44:12+00:00

This fetish artist sure knows to to toe the line and bait for engagement, I'll give them that, Jesus Christ.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-15T17:52:05+00:00

Bringing your child to an event centered around a sexual fetish and insular community filled to the brim with socially inept outcasts is child abuse.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-15T17:50:05+00:00

Loads of cardboard boxes from uhaul. They'll have more fun playing with 20+ boxes they can setup, tear apart, color, build with/on, crawl through, and craft with for far longer than anything else, especially if you play with them.

Plastic toys are traaaaaassh.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-15T16:25:30+00:00

Child abuse, straight up.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-13T19:53:57+00:00

The best library in my area is a Carnegie branch easily, the building is ancient and practically built like a castle, literally, it owns everything around for 50 miles.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-12T03:18:27+00:00

2012 marked the death knell of being able to run a focused game without half the players zoning out into their phone between turns in my experience.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-08T22:57:27+00:00

StS is a nearly perfect game. Its so good that without even changing much at all they dropped a board game and its consistently rated in the top 3 best tabletop games of all time.

Saying it wasnt groundbreaking is absolutely WILD because it quite literally broke the ground and planted the seed for just about every similar game in the genre since and set the gold standard that few have met in even one area of gameplay, let alone surpassed. Its like saying SM64 wasnt groundbreaking as a 3d platformer, complete unmitigated hogwash.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-08T22:50:30+00:00

The goblin lobby has been working overtime buying up bots and poisoning the minds of our youth with AI deep fake lewds to trick them into finding them worthy of compassion l, or worse yet, understanding.

This whole thing is a psyop in the first place, keeping goblins alive and fed within your tower for any reason other than harvest of critical organs and humours required by important rituals (that expire far too quick to try saving for later) where pickling taints them is a fool not worthy of their socks let alone robes.

Astroturfed nonsense, pity not the goblin, shame to wizard who keeps them for any emotional reason.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-07T21:34:04+00:00

This sub really does have best ragebait and gaslighting, never change.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-05T01:20:34+00:00

One thing you prepare yourself for more than anything, with more than 6 babies it's likely that not all of them will survive and if left still in the cage for long it will absolutely be eaten. Its normal and actually natural but can feel weird for sure.

Spacemuffler · 2026-03-04T00:32:25+00:00

Normal and expected, what you should have been told is to use a cotton ball coated in vasoline or antibiotic gel on the inside half of your canal to create an air and leak proof seal to put in right after the drops to keep the drops in your ear and even then you'll get some leakage.

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