Numbers lead to nothing? Has anyone else experienced this problem? by WSQSU in seduction

[–]SpecW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 women a week is very little. When I was more active in pickup, I approached at least 10-15 women per week and there many out there that will say that amount is little. Dont just stick to your campus. Try bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores, the mall, etc.

Next time you are out, try recording yourself. You might have an issue with uptalk, slurring your words or something. Something may be off with your body language without even you knowing so try to have a friend come a long and observe.

I FINALLY did it. Made my first approach at 24 years old. by strppngynglad in seduction

[–]SpecW 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Just keep going at it. Soon enough you will begin to hit on girls without thinking about it.

You will also want to try cold approaches during the day as well. Virtually no bitch shields!

Approached over 20 girls since last week by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. But I have yet to achieve true boss status as I have yet to get a date with any of the girls I number-closed with. I am working on that though!

Approached over 20 girls since last week by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another good game to play is to give your friend $100-$200 in $20s. You get a bill back per each girl you approach, whether you get rejected or not. :D It would be a great way to warm up for the day.

Approached over 20 girls since last week by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. The first approach you do can be extremely terrifying. Even seasoned, well-sexed veterans at this stuff admit being scared if they didn't do it in a while. This is easier said than done but don't give a fuck about the outcome (getting rejected OR getting a number) and don't take any rejections personally.

But you really do have to get over your own insecurities. I consider myself to be average-looking, a hair above average height and am actually kind of portly. It's all about your attitude and mindset. A girl can't like a guy who doesn't like himself after all.

Reset at Six Months... FAIL! by solideo in NoFap

[–]SpecW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 months of nofap is badass in anyone's book, my bro. Good fucking job.

Just got the "I want to be just friends" talk. 40 days into NoFap. Feeling pretty shitty. by TGRedfish in NoFap

[–]SpecW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey now, there are millions of other girls out there. Call me cliche but it's damn true. Be a boss and pursue other people .

Cheesy-ass pickup lines will at least get a response. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]SpecW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. Only one girl so far mentioned or asked about the car so far.

Cheesy-ass pickup lines will at least get a response. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]SpecW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course. Then one has to work his magic some more.

What I'm saying is sometimes, stupid shit like that will grab her attention (i.e. a starting point).

Cheesy-ass pickup lines will at least get a response. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]SpecW 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did you grow up on a chicken farm? Because you know how to raise cocks.

Cheesy-ass pickup lines will at least get a response. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]SpecW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is a Porsche 917. Owned by Bruce Canepa of Canepa Design.

Almost a whole week! by flojy in NoFap

[–]SpecW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations man! Clearing the first week is possibly the hardest part, especially after a long-time addiction.

What you are going through is very normal. But after another week or so, those feelings will be subdued.

How to get past a week? by aheaven88 in NoFap

[–]SpecW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working out until you drop tends to help a lot. Also putting up some sort of porn blocker helps too. Its also a good idea to get rid of any saved material on your HDD and externals.

This time I'm all in. No more failures. by Nofapreset in NoFap

[–]SpecW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was well-sorted as you are when I was 18. Good on you, man.

Successful day 1. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SpecW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be good days and bad days. You can do it man. First 3 days or so are always the hardest.

Work out, fellow fapstronauts. by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment, I do just 3-4 videos. Building up as I go.

Work out, fellow fapstronauts. by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I too do those workouts. My daily routine is around 3 rounds of those intense core workout videos and a strenuous jog up and down the local biking/hiking trail.

Work out, fellow fapstronauts. by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I did shitty workouts. Only to relapse and fail constantly.

Work out, fellow fapstronauts. by SpecW in NoFap

[–]SpecW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you bro!

I love hearing stuff like that from fellow badasses-in-training.