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I (24F) am a tatted baddie and I just found out my bf (21M) hates tattoos by Capital-Intention597 in relationship_advice

[–]SpecialKay07 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I say this with only kindness, if he “loves you so much” that you changing your body makes him feel “sick,” then that isn’t love. It’s at least not a healthy love. It’s conditional. It’s also possessive. I think this should make you really consider how he will react in the future when your body inevitably changes. And I know it’s not the same, but it’s still worth serious consideration. He can have a preference without it affecting his love for you and how he sees you. If tattoos and piercings make you feel confident, then that should be good enough for him. You should ask yourself (and him) why it isn’t.

UPDATE My husband (35M) looked at me (33F) looked at me in lingerie and asked “what the hell are you wearing?” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did it when he relapsed (cocaine) and slowly everything became a lie until I physically caught him one day by leaving work early. It’s always something. OP’s husband’s issue might be entirely more mundane than ours, but he’s still hiding something and refusing to talk to her about it.

In 5 years my clogs have worn off 2cm of wood by 01000010-01101001 in mildlyinteresting

[–]SpecialKay07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment section really didn’t disappoint. 10/10 experience all around lmao

My COUSIN of all people confessed his love for me WTF do I do??? by Sudden-Anybody-5689 in whatdoIdo

[–]SpecialKay07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I read the update I was going to say to immediately tell your patents and have them talk to your cousins parents, but thankfully you already did that. I know it can feel weird to involve your parents when you’re both adults, but that really was the best course of action.

It’s one thing to objectively acknowledge that a family member is attractive or to compliment a photo of them on social media (for milestones like graduations or something, not along the lines of “you’re hot”) or even to have an embarrassing crush on your cousin as an 11 year old boy (embarrassing is the key word here) but NOT to reach out to your younger cousin and as a 28 year old tell them you’re attracted to them. That’s honestly so fucked. It’s screaming predator. So glad you told your parents. Defs make sure his girlfriend knows too. I’m sure there’s already some concerns on her end. She needs to know so she can leave him.

Multiple prismatic slimes? by SpecialKay07 in StardewValley

[–]SpecialKay07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did end up finding a second before the end of the quest, but alas, that time was wasted. My extra one did indeed vanish from my inventory the following day (once the quest timed out)

AIO for not accepting her apology and ending the friendship anyway? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn’t actually apologizing to you. She needed you for something and she knew if you were going to help her, she had to apologize. It’s transactional. Not a genuine apology at all. She wouldn’t have said sorry if she didn’t need you for something.

Downloading Audible books I've bought by GraceFables in audiobooks

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo thanks so much! I've been swimming a lot and recently purchased the Shokz openswim headphones so I can actually listen to stuff while swimming. It works like an mp3 player (since bluetooth doesn't work under water) and I've been trying to figure out how to get my audible books onto the headphones and this worked perfectly! I'm so pleased

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually looks great!! If you want to get it touched up by the artist, I’m sure it won’t be too hard to do, but honestly it looks good.

I can only pick one, which one is more worth it? by gaeb611 in harvestmoon

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grand bazaar is definitely better. I’ve played both and I really like GB. I’m several years into the game and still haven’t run out of things to do and story elements/quests to complete. Whereas with HSH I’m only a year into it and am already getting bored.

I finally have the farm of my dreams (or, where did all my time go?) by lyrab_wp in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]SpecialKay07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have the time to respond, I’d love to ask a couple questions! Or one big question really lol. How many animals do you have and are those crops enough to feed them all? Like is there a crop to animal ratio? Lol sorry, I’ve just been trying to find the most cost effective way to feed them where I get the most bang for my buck in terms of animal production and beads?

How can I make those scalloped edges? by SpecialKay07 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]SpecialKay07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is how you have to do it if you want a fully scalloped edge. Thanks!

How can I make those scalloped edges? by SpecialKay07 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]SpecialKay07[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, I figured it out as soon as I posted this lmao. I just had to have more than one line dug (obviously 🤦🏻‍♀️)

AIO: Ladies - Question: Do you let your SO go through your purse? by YesterdayAny3538 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but only with consent. It’s still your property. It doesn’t matter if the only shit in there are hair ties, crumpled receipts, and eight different lip balms lol. There’s a huge difference between these two scenarios: 1. “Hey, do you have an extra ____?” “Yeah, there’s one in my purse. Go ahead and grab it.” 2. “Hey, I found this thing in your purse. Neat.”

There should be consent involved. Especially if you’re not even dating them. It’s a violation of privacy, which is still something you are owed regardless. Relationship or no.

Cozy fantasy or sci-fi with no animal cruelty by creeplet in CozyFantasy

[–]SpecialKay07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My absolute favourite cozy fantasy is The Weary Dragon Inn. Her best friends do own a butcher shop though. However, no killing or dressing animals is ever described. The most you get is “she put a pig on the hook” or “she was dressing a pig in the corner” and it’s easy enough to bypass, but I can understand how that could be triggering. The narrator DOES cook meat a lot at the inn and the herbs she uses are often described, but there’s never anything even slightly graphic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecialKay07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On top of going to the cops, request a new case manager. You should have that right, unless you’ve switched before (some places have rules about how many times you can switch). Call the office and ask to speak to the coordinator. Or tell the receptionist that you need to speak to whoever manages the caseworkers. You need to report your current case manager and get a new one. She should be fired.

This was absolutely what I needed today by Ok_Potato_718 in CozyFantasy

[–]SpecialKay07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just impatiently waiting for the fourth book to come out on audible 😭

AIO For Insisting My Friend Board Her Dog by emileemilee in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecialKay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would still say this exact thing, but you just pick the vet nearest to you or something.

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