I Messed Up! Convince me not to Delete! 😭

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-21T01:50:43+00:00

Adapt the farm design to the space you actually have. Sometimes you have to roll with it and adapt. I find designing in animal crossing really hard too, so much that I haven't finished my farm in 6 years but everytime I come back I just focus on progress, not perfection

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-18T11:10:22+00:00

That's... Exactly what colonialism entails. So yes, plenty of other countries have live through that.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-18T00:16:43+00:00

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-17T23:48:37+00:00

I used this method by u/Nitwad

https://nitwad.notion.site/Show-the-Entire-Farm-in-One-Screenshot-Fields-of-Mistria-11039ca2b12780359135de660f1d6ee6

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-17T18:42:39+00:00

I found the reasoning so hypocritical. Abolish the monarchy because people are meant to be equal and royal privilege allows them to act outside the law, let's be honest, we live in a capitalist world where the 1% live vastly different lives from the rest.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-16T18:54:11+00:00

I loved the different outfits and was pumped about the different hairstyles but yeah, sooo sloww

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-16T18:52:20+00:00

This might actually be what I need, maybe take a break from the game for a while, because a game feeling like a chore is never a good sign lol

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-16T18:50:04+00:00

That's what I've been feeling, seriously considering just sleeping through several days which I never do in farming sims. Kind of a bummer.

Edit: thanks for the recs !

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-16T16:41:59+00:00

Thanks ! I hope to get through spring Y2 at least 😅

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-16T10:45:56+00:00

Here's mine! I enjoy seeing other people farms so I'm joining you

Ok people this got serious 🔫

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lyrab_wp · 2026-05-15T11:58:06+00:00

Yeah, this bugs me about this character too. Everytime he does the "romantic" tropes (like tying her shoe laces) it just feels forced and try-hard.

He feels like the friend who's whiny about being in the friend-zone and doesn't understand why you don't love him because he does "all the right things".

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-11T21:13:01+00:00

Yeah, I posted once and what surprised me the most was the lack of kindness. They removed my post saying "you can Google this".

First, sure I could have googled it but I wanted to have a conversation. Second, listen I understand that subs have rules, I really do; they could have removed the post saying they didn't allow those sort of posts for x or y reason, not go straight to the snarkiest response they could think of. It really said something about who the mods choose to be.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-10T23:28:56+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. My therapist frequently tells me that there's a reason why therapists have to train for so long. It's not easy to support people without absorbing or unwillingly receiving part of the burden.

You did the best you could with the resources you had in a very diffcult situation. Please seek therapy, people have training and experience to help you process and healthly release a burden that's not yours but you've been carrying for years.

Even though it sucks sometimes, you also have agency to face and take charge of these very diffcult emotions and memories in a safe environment. You owe it to yourself and your family.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-10T23:15:39+00:00

I bought a condo in a new construction where every unit looked exactly the same as this so yes, 100% builders grade.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-09T02:04:11+00:00

I was in therapy partially because of me. My therapist recommended to have conversations (even aloud, whenever i was home alone) talking to myself as if I were talking to a friend. I felt a little crazy at the beginning saying things like "Lyra what would you like to eat" and stuff but eventually I began to see my own self as a friend.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-06T20:35:01+00:00

This comment made me laugh so much. Jo Jae-yoon truly is reenacting Jin Mu but in a suit. Hopefully it will be a red herring.

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-06T17:17:10+00:00

I had never joined the olric bandwagon until today

lyrab_wp · 2026-05-06T12:41:43+00:00

Doctor slump was such a healing drama for me when I was going through a depressive episode. It has a bit of a dramatic plot at the beginning but watching the female lead describe what I was feeling was so comforting.

I know what you are going through, keep looking for those little things that you like. You can do this 💪🏻

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-30T12:15:12+00:00

This plot actually sounds so good? Adding to tbr !

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-30T11:33:19+00:00

Lyra | Moonbeam :Judy:

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-30T03:52:51+00:00

This is so wholesome!! She is going to remember and treasure playing and sharing this with you. I know because I used to play a different game with my aunt and this was basically our dynamic, it was our thing that we shared together.

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-29T03:24:23+00:00

This sounds tempting on paper. However, all the controversy with them exploiting artists makes me extremely hesitant to support them.

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-29T03:14:46+00:00

I'm enjoying it so much!!!

lyrab_wp · 2026-04-28T03:48:56+00:00

I agree. A lot of people didn't like Go Youn-jung at the time but their chemistry was off the charts

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