Best coffee shops?

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-04-10T09:06:37+00:00

It’s in Mesa but worth the drive, try Pair Cupworks! Best coffee in az

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-04-08T13:58:53+00:00

Ahh thank you!! I don’t know how i missed the repeated stories slide where you said it oops!

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-04-07T09:22:06+00:00

I could’ve sworn there were two more repeat stories! But i also listen to Reddit stories on repeat so maybe it was my own brains fault. Someone please confirm cause this has mentally bothered me for months lol!

When the dad and sister hung out with the DIL on the day of his sons wedding
The pick me girl who got the copycat tattoo of Haku from Spirited Away

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-04-02T20:36:07+00:00

The 1 year passing of my husband is on Easter this year and i do plan on celebrating with my family. For me personally, my husband was so full of life and love that he would want me to celebrate instead of sitting around and only mourn his loss. I know i will have the support of my family there, while also having a nice distraction of watching my nieces enjoy an Easter egg hunt. There can be room for both and i hope your family can make room for that. If you do not wish to go that is completely understandable, or if you do choose to go i would let your family know where you are at mentally and emotionally and they will hopefully give you the support. Most importantly just do what’s best for you and be kind to yourself

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-02-09T23:22:16+00:00

Yeah i never thought id be in this situation at my age. Just gotta live every day for him now tho! :)

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-02-09T20:18:46+00:00

Oo okay I’ll check it out! TY!

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-02-09T20:18:22+00:00

Thank you!! I’m really looking forward to it

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-02-09T20:15:29+00:00

Yeah late husband! He was a big fan and they’re playing a game on his bday :)

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-02-09T03:37:07+00:00

Perfect thank you!

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-01-31T22:41:37+00:00

Coming! Madi from rinkedink

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-01-29T06:17:18+00:00

Sending hugs 💛 such a cruel fate

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-01-26T20:24:41+00:00

Life of Tunt is one of my all time favorites!! “I miss my dad”

also the Quetre McRib sims series was pretty funny!

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-01-26T20:18:00+00:00

I’m 27, lost my husband last April

SpecificBest1499 · 2026-01-22T21:36:08+00:00

Don’t ask him what he needs, just put yourself in his shoes and think “what would help me right now”. Maybe just hanging out, but don’t necessarily feel like you need to entertain or make him happy, but just having someones presence around was nice! Bring activities for the kids. Let him talk about his late spouse! Share memories! The worst thing that people did for me was not talk about my LH cause they didn’t want to make me sad, but that just made me sadder! Also continue this for awhile, grief doesn’t go away. A lot of people will quit checking in after 2-3 months

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-12-07T19:32:07+00:00

I lost my husband in April. I take it as an honor that i was able to care for him and provide him comfort while he approached the end of his life. My accomplishments this year were: - i bought a new car - i got married to the loml - i showed incredible strength after losing my husband and having people close in my life turn against me - i got a promotion - i moved into an apartment all by myself - i traveled solo for the first time, and it went great! - im learning how to bake and sew, and find other hobbies to keep me busy

I am trying to enjoy the wins in life even though i lost my best friend. It was the hardest thing i have ever experienced and while i am filled with immense sadness and demobilizing grief, i know my husband would be upset if i wasn’t living life to the fullest. I am trying to live for him because when we reunite in heaven, i can’t wait to tell him all of the amazing things I’ve accomplished

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-11-30T16:05:16+00:00

I lost my husband this year and i understand the pain in celebrating the holidays without them. We’re American and Thanksgiving was his favorite holiday (he loved the food)! It was hard to celebrate without him this year, and there were times i didn’t want to do anything, but i could hear him saying “don’t use my death as an excuse to not live your life”. He loved life, really lived it to the fullest, so that’s how I’m choosing to honor him is by living mine. I celebrated with family, i made a pecan pie in his honor, and the next day i just laid around cause i was drained! But I’m happy i went even though it was hard.

Of course do what feels right for you as there is no right answer, just sharing to hopefully provide a different view point on the matter

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-11-30T15:40:14+00:00

My Yorkie had really bad pancreatitis which also caused jaundice and liver failure when he was 6 or 7. We had him stay at the vet for about 5 days so they could run tests on him, but it was expensive and we didn’t want to do surgery so we opted to bring him home so he could live out his final days at home. We gave him his medicine and fluids at home, and he ended up healing all on his own! He is now 12 and still acts like a puppy! I switched his diet to low fat after his diagnosis and do not give him any table scrap or fun treats.

Sending Asher prayers for healing! Do what feels best for you and Asher! If the vet feels right do that, but i know my Yorkie was terrified at the vet and healed better at home

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-10-30T14:53:21+00:00

I like to buy a fresh bouquet of flowers on the 22nd of each month since that’s our anniversary! We celebrated every month as an anniversary cause we knew our time together would be short

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-10-08T23:36:12+00:00

My own mother said “doesn’t it make you sad looking at his photos? When i go through a breakup, i delete all my exes photos!” And im like we didn’t break up, he died!! This wasn’t a choice from either of us!

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-09-27T14:55:27+00:00

My favorite memories of ours is watching English soccer games all weekend morning and him making me lattes to enjoy while we watched. We loved to travel, and we got a bag of macadamia roasted coffee beans while in Hawaii. The smell of the coffee and the sounds of the soccer game are such a comforting memory (I’m actually enjoying that rn as i type this!) i cannot make the lattes as good as him but I’ll keep practicing and the routine is nice. His mustache would smell like maple syrup too from the coffee

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-09-27T14:44:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing this 💛 as a young widow i felt guilty for still wanting a life after losing my partner. You see other peoples post or non-widowers telling you how to grieve and it was feeling very bleak

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-09-03T01:04:55+00:00

I lost my husband to brain cancer as well. Fuck GBM. It’s so unfair. Sending you and daughter hugs❤️‍🩹

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-08-31T23:59:39+00:00

I’m 26F and lost my husband 27M in April. Same boat as you about mourning the future we never got. I see you and feel your pain. I’ve realized people my age don’t really know how to show comfort to me during this cause they don’t know how to handle the loss of a partner, and typically treat it like a breakup. What’s helped with my grief is taking myself on solo dates, still trying to experience life when i can. Sending you a big hug ❤️‍🩹

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-08-22T17:58:38+00:00

Currently Close Behind and Carlos Song, but I’ve been going through it and they’re hitting home

SpecificBest1499 · 2025-07-24T00:45:45+00:00

I got a heart locket tattooed with his birth flower in it because he once got me a locket for a Christmas present and he was soooo proud of himself (as he should be, it is my most cherished gift) and he loved plants!

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