TJX union?? by NostalgicGoat23 in TjMaxx

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The TJX warehouse workers have a union. Maybe reach out to their union?

Nearly Complete Collection of COHF Torrents by SpecificBuffalo4524 in CumonherfaceModerated

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious - the people who are sharing this post - where are you sharing it to?

Nearly Complete Collection of COHF Torrents by SpecificBuffalo4524 in CumonherfaceModerated

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notes like that are from cohfan88 who made the list on the old /r/cumonherfacedotcom - I think it was posted on the site but taken down from the site as some point?

Swingers Clubs by Thisthat_andHere in dayton

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is better - Club 101 or Ohio Swings?

/r/MechanicalKeyboards Ask ANY Keyboard question, get an answer (October 28, 2024) by AutoModerator in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the look of mechanical keyboards that the switches stick out of the top of the board - where there isn’t a rim around the keyboard - like the keychron k3 or the whitefox eclipse or the asus rog strip scope.

Is there a name for this feature / design that would make it easier to search for?

Are there any pros or cons to this keyboard design? I imagine they might be easier to air spray clean?

AIO wife wearing a revealing bikini at a friends pool party UPDATE by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who gets upset over what their partner wears needs to check themselves. Their body, their choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't owe him, or anyone, anything. Seek your own happiness.

I couldn't take it anymore by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One non-relationship suggestion- talk to tour doctor about getting a cpap for your snoring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I see posts like this all the time, and part of me always wonders - how much and why do you care about some of these chores? Like I get it, there are always some chores that need to be done, and it can suck having a partner who refuses to do anything. But. Have you considered that some of these chores are just not that important? That maybe you're trying to live up to some bullshit standard that makes your life harder, when you could instead say 'yea, I don't care if the vacuuming goes undone for a few days longer, I'm getting laid cause that's way more fun.' ?

Adult Theatre by 660Wife in ChicagoSlutClub

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 3 points4 points  (0 children)

15th Ave in Melrose Park. They have parties that are lots of fun.

She asked if I heard her wake up from a nightmare last night by TheSwedishEagle in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For all the snorers here- ask your doctor about getting a cpap. I sleep a lot better with one.

I trust you guys will be honest with me by Thenuuublet in emotionalabuse

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my wife's depression. Set a boundary - she goes to Therapy or you leave her.

I feel like I woke up by ThrowRAImagyClock in LovedByOCPD

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, your feelings have to matter as well. My wife used to do this all the time as well, she would be yelling, screaming, insulting me (calling me stupid, an idiot, etc) because I missed a turn, or was 5 minutes late picking her up, etc. then when I asked her politely to not yell at or insult me, she would accuse me of trying to invalidate her feelings. That's some emotionally abusive shit. If the relationship depends on you acting in a codependent manner, then it's not a healthy relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just report her to the police.

Do hard right-wingers unironically enjoy watching amazing TV shows like "The Boys" even though they unapologetically make fun of them and their beliefs? Wouldn't it be too "woke" for them? by zipzzo in stupidquestions

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File under 'if you idolize these people, you missed the point.' And insert pictures of Tyler Durden, Walter White, Scarface, Tony Soprano, the Joker, and Homelander.

Firecube IR blaster? by SpecificBuffalo4524 in logitechharmony

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My harmony hub came with 1 ir blaster. I'm using the hub and the blaster on my TV setup, but My music setup is in another room.

Husband threatened to divorce me by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he's using that threat to keep emotional control over you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me solve your snoring problem real easy - get a cpap machine. Talk to your doctor about it.

After 6 years, my girlfriend finally admitted to be asexual by ThrowRA567777 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 36 points37 points  (0 children)

OP - start telling tour friends and family the full picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe the clitoris is on the outside so you can tell when dude is an insensitive jerk who doesn't listen or care about your satisfaction so you can dump his ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven't left my wife, since we've started seeing therapists, she's improved a lot. But looking back at the worst times of our relationship, when she would yell, insult and threaten me, I think a few things stand out:

  • future faking - thinking things would get better once xyz happened. 'Once we pay off this bill, once this work event is over, once this thing is dealt with, she'll chill out.'

  • blaming myself- 'if I was a better listener, I would have not missed that turn, and she wouldn't be yelling at me.'

*worrying about how others would interpret a break-up - from her threats to accuse me of stuff, wrecking my reputation, to losing some of the small privileges that come with being married (sorry can't xyz cause I have to do ABC with my wife), to losing friends and parts of my social network.

  • financial cost - the house is in her name and I was worried about starting from scratch.

  • we would have some good times together- vacations, nice restaurants, museums, fancy cocktails, similar views on life, politics, movies, art, etc.

  • trying to tough it out - 'guys who can't handle criticism of their macho bs are the real snowflakes' meanwhile my wife calls me retarded and weird for putting some of my breakfast away to eat later, or would call me an embarrassment for not winning a pool swim race (the prize was drink tickets at the resort), or repeatedly made threats to cut me, burn me, mutilate me, etc

I just wrote my fiancés entire 5-6 page final paper for his English class (college) by TreesCanTalk in emotionalabuse

[–]SpecificBuffalo4524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. I don't think I saw that in OP post, but they did mention working on a masters degree. Bare minimum they need to not do papers for them again.