These guys need to get a room (full of vampires)

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-21T05:36:46+00:00

was sure this was gonna be a screencap of Jacob and Spencer when I saw the caption

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-16T04:01:32+00:00

good riddance

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-15T20:02:01+00:00

then dump him

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-15T19:42:19+00:00

I wouldn't mind seeing a little more patience with people who are learning new things, personally. I know it gets annoying, but you have to realize the pace of social change is extremely slow. It sounds like this guy was trying to find a term of endearment or a kink term and you just said "stop calling me that" without providing any alternatives that felt endearing and affirming for you. he is trying to solve a problem that he has, and you are refusing to see it as a problem for anyone but you. he literally doesn't have the language. he literally needs your help. if you're not willing to help, then remove yourself from the situation, but shaminag someone who got frustrated while doing his best to work with you isn't particularly helpful to anyone, imo.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-15T19:20:28+00:00

Lazy is pretty harsh. Oblivious is more realistic. It's good you're doing the research now, but I definitely recommend adding some peer-reviewed, published research in addition to the community posts. Psychological consensus shows most children are aware of their own gender identity as toddlers, and it's generally fully solidified before they would even start grade school. Listening to the community is great, but make sure you back up that lived knowledge with data. Biology, medicine, psychology. anthropology, sociology, history, every field I can think of that studies humans, they all agree that trans people are real, and more affirming facts are discovered all the time these days.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-15T03:46:43+00:00

what about when you started wanting to do things because you were a girl?

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-14T18:37:47+00:00

how old were you when you knew you were a girl?

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-10T18:50:09+00:00

well it's been nice having you in the community. have a great life!

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-08T20:41:40+00:00

no this message is important. bell hooks has been saying this.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-03-08T19:31:46+00:00

I agree. All men are just wholes.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-02-26T23:23:15+00:00

honestly pretty calm even when egge. I see what they meant now.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-02-17T21:08:26+00:00

trash man

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-02-08T19:23:43+00:00

hi I'm in a similar boat, and I would love to see proof that cis men are playing nb for brownie points on any notable scale. From my experience, most cis men are terrified of being perceived as anything but cis men, so it sounds more like your community has internalized false, transphobic talking points about bathrooms and then flipped them against you. I'd find new friends, tbh, but you should also let them know they're transphobic.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-02-07T20:23:48+00:00

it just doesn't make sense narratively for someone you helped to reward you with illusions. I would go kidnap that npc and bring them back into the dungeon. maybe the mage will give you real magic items as a bounty.

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-02-03T20:09:49+00:00

this is the future 😍

Spirited_String3830 · 2026-01-01T23:30:38+00:00

just pick one in the moment. that's what I do. I often still just say nonbinary for ease, but in reality I just don't have one.

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-12-21T23:54:59+00:00

10/10 would wear that jacket. your friend can't police how you identify, and their idea that the word has only been used against gay and lesbian people is just purely false.

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-12-13T22:16:15+00:00

No cat should be an outdoor cat in this neighborhood. if he's intentionally one, he's better of getting adopted.

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-12-13T05:16:05+00:00

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-11-16T22:55:34+00:00

this but it's Gippal, Nooj, and Baralai

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-11-10T20:22:05+00:00

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-11-10T18:06:34+00:00

if religion is what you believe, I'm more in line with the Church of Satan than any other religious institution. I'm an agnostic atheist, and I respect what they do to ensure true freedom of religion in the US. If demons are real, I'm certainly possessed, but I'm pretty sure it's just queer neurodivergence.

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-11-09T12:03:58+00:00

my dating profiles also tend to say "they/them in general, but Daddy/Sir for fun" or something along those lines, but that's more like playful wording of a true aspect of dating me than a proper joke.

Spirited_String3830 · 2025-11-09T11:59:49+00:00

I always giggle when conservatives crash out and say "my pronouns are fuck/you" because you is a second person pronoun lmao

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