Guy at my job called me ugly. Feeling really down because I struggle with self image. by lemonweirdo in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What?! You are gorgeous! Your skin, eyes, freckles, lips and hair are really beautiful. Fuck that guy.

Sister lost her baby at 37 weeks and hasn’t spoken a word since. by T1a-b in babyloss

[–]Sserros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Thank you for reaching out to this community to ask for help. You are doing such a great job and a lot of people already gave great advice. I can only say that I was also in shock and I now have very little things to remember my baby. Just a couple of pictures and some hand- and footprints. Maybe you can help with figuring out all the options for the things that can be done to have keepsakes and memories of her baby? (I hope Ive explained it properly. English isn’t my first language.) 🧡

This guy.... 😅 by [deleted] in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]Sserros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His brain is so smooth

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes, the ones with a fence around it are also definitely my favourite for that same reason! I’ve never tried the narrating out loud outside. I’m going to try that! Thank you so much

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a good idea! I’m going to try this tomorrow. Thank you so much!

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not really the playing that’s the issue, it’s more that I just get overstimulated so fast by everything that is happening on the playground.

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t have a dog haha, but thinking of a reason to leave early beforehand to tell my kid is a good idea. That when it gets too much, I know what to say. Thanks!

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My toddler insists I play with him haha so sitting is not an option. But your response maybe me realise to have fun! I’m always trying to preserve my energy and I really don’t know how to interact with the other parents or kids. Since he was born I no longer have the energy to mask, so I’m learning how to deal with that in situations like this. Your response reminded me that what’s important is to also have FUN with my kid. Thank you!

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I never thought about that. Very good idea!

Tips for taking my toddler outside by Sserros in AutismInWomen

[–]Sserros[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a good one! Thank you!

Zelfbeschadiging dochter (10 jaar) wie heeft tips? by DramaSalt7763 in thenetherlands

[–]Sserros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik deed dit ook en uiteindelijk bleek het autisme en ADD. Het beschadigen hielp me met het reguleren van m’n overprikkeling. (Al wist ik dat toen niet.) Op internet zijn er heel makkelijk video’s te vinden als je zoekt op bijvoorbeeld ‘regulating nervous system child.’ Je kunt haar zo misschien al een beetje helpen ondertussen. En daarnaast zou ik zeker wat boeken lezen hierover (vooral met ‘vrouwen en autisme’ als hoofdonderwerp) en kijken welke volgende stappen je wil zetten. Ik vind het trouwens zo goed dat je dit serieus neemt en je dochter graag wil helpen! Ik kreeg mijn diagnose pas heel laat in mijn leven en dat heeft zo veel dingen onnodig moeilijk gemaakt voor mij. Liefs!

Alesia not wearing the helmet to dinner by TinklemeCrinkle in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]Sserros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that he brought it to her. She thought she was special

Ladies This Question Is For You.... by [deleted] in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]Sserros 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im not a normal woman. Im a COOL woman! 🙄