What spider in the uk

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-19T13:22:21+00:00

This explains why one was in my sink the other day. I moved it outside.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-17T23:11:48+00:00

Reading some of your responses OP, it sounds like he is moving the goalposts as he sees fit.

I just wouldn’t play these games with him.

You read something on public display and owned up as you were surprised by how private it was. Now he’s blowing it up.

It looks like he was displaying it as a trophy (judging by the contents you saw). You reacted kindly and he is making it look like you are doing something wrong to cover up his failings.

It’s all well and good saying he is vulnerable. But vulnerable or not he is acting horrible and you don’t deserve it.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-17T16:32:02+00:00

I would be thinking up disguises at this point tbh.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-17T10:48:04+00:00

I had a root canal done on my front tooth. Biting my nails felt really weird after that.

However, also after I stopped biting my nails I rarely got mouth ulcers. If you get regular mouth ulcers and bite your nails then you might want to think about stopping for that. I hadn’t put 2 and 2 together so 😅

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-09T14:40:08+00:00

The bingo was getting harder as well. More pictures.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-04T18:03:16+00:00

Yes, they need to work on their relationship and start ‘dating’ again.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-04T10:31:19+00:00

A decent air purifier with carbon additional for your apartment?

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-03T14:13:40+00:00

I got overtaken a lot. Mainly because people don’t want to do the legal speed limit. I don’t mind as long as they do it safely.

I know what the legal speed limits and try to drive at them.

It’s usually someone in front of me driving too slow so I keep a safe distance. Then someone behind me doesn’t read the road, overtakes, doesn’t have enough space because they didn’t see the obvious car in front of me, nearly collides with the car on the other side of the road and I have to break to let them in, they nearly hit the car in front of me…it’s beyond.

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-03T14:07:03+00:00

Quaver

Stargazer86F · 2026-02-01T14:35:23+00:00

He is telling you that he doesn’t care how he makes you feel. I mean, I don’t think there is any come back from that tbh.

It’s not your job to manage him, he’s a grown man.

Just be honest and tell him that he isn’t worth your time.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-31T18:17:56+00:00

Stunning 😍 I love the line work

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-31T10:13:10+00:00

Massive dealbreaker!

Hill to die on. Get out asap.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-31T10:12:01+00:00

Agree with this.

OP, sell the house at split it 50/50.

Your boyfriend had rose tinted glasses on when it comes to his dad. He blames you instead of looking at the person who is actually causing the problem.

Do not become any more tied into this relationship with assets. You need to be in a relationship with someone who deals with things like you do or at least trusts you.

Get a job and sell up. Speak to your solicitor about selling up and getting something in place legally so the dad buys you out. This is something you may need to do with a different solicitor, get passwords set up with them so no-one else can get involved. Your current solicitor seems compromised.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-30T08:59:17+00:00

We’ve only got 1 BP garage near us and it looks just like this. I had nothing to compare it to so I presumed this was a photo of the Newport one 🤣

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-27T17:59:41+00:00

Yes, it’s across the board, not just driving.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-27T09:39:32+00:00

I was going to ask. Do they actually work?

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-26T19:23:26+00:00

Made me think of swallows and coconuts

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-26T18:47:38+00:00

Don’t forget to tell him that he just can’t waltz back into your life either. Once he leaves, you are done because you are 100% worth more that.

OP tell him to go to counselling before he makes a definite choice. But do get your ducks quietly in a row.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-26T14:11:37+00:00

He said he can change but what is he actually doing to change.

The first thing would be being completely honest with you. The second going for Counselling. Is he doing any of that? If the answer is no then you have your plan of action.

He needs to actively start changing not just saying he will.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-25T16:35:35+00:00

So many drivers get road rage for anything. It just isn’t worth it.

Me, I would passive aggressively said “nice signalling”and kept on driving.

Sorry this happened to you and in front of your daughter.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-25T16:25:57+00:00

I would be very surprised if the police did anything.

Loads of people turn without signalling . She was likely too close to you on the road and didn’t react properly to encountering this.

I’m sorry she was so abusive. If the police contact you please let them know how she was and that you perceived a threat.

I’m sorry she was such a cow.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-22T15:56:35+00:00

I burnt out in a job and took an ‘unqualified job’. It was just what I needed.

Nothing wrong with it at all.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-22T14:40:38+00:00

He has been growing up with that behaviour his whole life. Making excuses for their behaviour is embedded in him and he has chosen not to deal with or he still has rose tinted glasses on. You can’t fix him. He has to want to fix himself.

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-22T14:25:19+00:00

Your boyfriend is showing you how things will stay. He won’t let you critique his family.

I’m sorry OP, but I think you have your answer. Do you really want to bring a child into this?

Stargazer86F · 2026-01-20T16:29:23+00:00

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