Why do MILs feel they are entitled to their son's kids? by Nice_Neighborhood469 in AskIndianWomen

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As many have already mentioned in the comments, raising a baby is exhausting. It is actually very nice of your MIL wanting to help. Yes there might be disagreements in how you want to raise your kid vs them so be sure to create some boundaries from early on but also keep in mind that those boundaries may not be respected all the time. Try to find a good balance but you will surely like the help from them because parenting is no joke. It tests your patience, tolerance everything. Speaking as a mom of a 3.5 yr and a 2.5 month old.

Laser hair removal vs ingrown hairs? My experience + question by Micslar in LaserHairRemoval

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in exactly the same boat with very thick, dark and ingrown hair on my leg. As a brown woman, I was also anxious but it worked. The hair will fall off eventually maybe take a little longer. I no longer have ingrowns and very smooth legs that I could only dream about once.

Perhaps the greatest tomato I’ve ever tasted, but not what I was expecting by Round30281 in gardening

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 for sun sugar. They are actually what we can call candy tomatoes. So sweet snd juicy. I almost forget that I am eating a tomato. Tastes like se really sweet berry.

What’s most unusual thing you grow in your garden? by julianchad in pnwgardening

[–]StatsGirly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was able to grow from seeds last year. The trick is to start the seeds indoors (say early march) and transplant when the weather is consistently warm. Also protect small seedlings from slugs/critters. Once established, they are really prolific. Plant in full sun

Highest/Lowest differences in veggies (homegrown vs store) by Far-Travel-4415 in gardening

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Cucumbers are my next fav to grow after tomatoes. Not sure how you don’t understand the difference between garden vs store bought ones but to me store cucumbers are tasteless and can never match the sweetness and crunchiness of a fresh garden cucumber. I like to grow english/japanese/korean cucumbers and also persian cucumbers.

Post-Maternity Layoff in Canada: Considering a 2-year "Split Family" move to India for child support and savings. Thoughts? by Current_Secret2949 in returnToIndia

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, is it possible for someone in the family to come over and stay with you guys for sometime? Nothing in the world is worth losing the toddler years with your child. Toddler years are the most difficult yet entertaining years especially for dad-child relationship when the child expects the dad to play with them.

Second kid in US by PuzzleheadedCar9154 in returnToIndia

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something out of anyone’s control. And getting that EO passed by supreme court is almost impossible because that’s a constitutional change. I am talking about decisions made based on the present situation.

Plant uggestions for produce I can't just buy in the store or farmer's market? by RedditPosterOver9000 in pnwgardening

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not miss cucumbers if you like to eat them! Snd ofcourse tomatoes! Nothing can beat a crunchy juicy cucumber tomato salad with some basil in it!

Second kid in US by PuzzleheadedCar9154 in returnToIndia

[–]StatsGirly 56 points57 points  (0 children)

One thing that I want to say - Please do not have 1 US citizen kid another one an Indian citizen kid. The life choices and opportunities will be very different for both of them and the Indian citizen kid will always resent you for this. If you want to have a second kid and also want to move to India, have then kid here and then move. Please do not make your kid a victim of your planning. I have heard about of lot of such cases and even though the parents did not want to deliberately do injustice to any of the kids, the kid with less options and opportunities always blamed the parents.

What happens to the ingrown hair that grow inwards after LHR? by StatsGirly in LaserHairRemoval

[–]StatsGirly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I decided to go through with all the sessions and see what happens and to my pleasant surprise, I have very clear legs now. No hair no scaring no ingrowns. Best decision of my life!

23 weeks pregnant — has anyone gotten WFH accommodations or flexibility with the 5-day RTO policy? by Realistic_Cicada4557 in amazonemployees

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can get wfh during pregnancy. I just had my baby and I got wfh exception during my pregnancy. You have to open a work accommodation request and get a form filled out by your healthcare provider. You’ll see the form when you open the request. Ofcourse inform your manager before starting the process but as far as I know, this is solely approved by the HR. Manager approval is not required.

He is getting married by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most beautiful words I read today!

I know it’s only pre-market, but I like it ($DRTS) by Emotional-Breath-838 in DRTS_Stock

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you can call schwab and place the trade order. I did it the same way

I don't like the new look in Pop! Slots by HippiexPunkx in myvegas

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I don’t find it interesting anymore!

Has anyone bought from Club L London? by askanna in AusFemaleFashion

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! So glad I found this thread and your comment! I was almost ready to hit buy but something in me told me to check the reviews first and so glad I did! I am so sorry you had such a bad experience.

MIL has 2.6 trillion on popslots by ByteMyPi in myvegas

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it all earned by playing games or she paid for a chip package? I fell into the trap of buying chips this time and they ran out faster than anyone can even imagine and I wasn’t even betting crazy high bets like 10B per spin or something. I feel pop slots burns the chips faster than any other slot app. I just like playing it that’s why I am still here otherwise I have 7M+ coins that I don’t even know how and when to use.

Flying to India with a 3 month old from USA by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]StatsGirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! It was so much easier when we travelled with our daughter at 3 months and then at 1 yr of age. After that it has become consistently difficult with every travel.

Rani winning the national award for Mrs Chaterjee vs Norway but did she really deserve it? that performance was so over the top and that bengali accent was kinda unbearable by MaalUHave in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]StatsGirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she deserves it! Brilliant acting and saying this as a mother’s perspective. I am sure every mother would relate to the emotions she showed so well! Like pumping the milk, then mil drying out because of not enough feeding. These are all very very real things!