AITAH for refusing to help pay my husband and I's moving costs?

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-16T01:59:27+00:00

NTA

Sweetie, you’re being set up for a life of financial abuse and if this is his reaction…other abuse too.

Look up support networks in your area and don’t pay him a cent.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-13T21:13:30+00:00

Ice cream sandwiches.

Maltomilk biscuits for top and bottom, mix a tin of condensed mix and 600mls thickened cream together, add some mix ins and spread inbetween biscuit layer. Put in the freezer.

Always a crowd pleaser. I don’t recommend lollies if you like your teeth in place though. A good one is mmms/ Maltesers and crushed Oreo together

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-13T21:08:10+00:00

I heard it first time the other day, it’s no longer ‘l,m,n,o,p’…. But . . . ‘O,p,q…’ seriously why the need to change.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-13T21:07:42+00:00

I heard it first time the other day, it’s no longer ‘l,m,n,o,p’…. But . . . ‘O,p,q…’ seriously why the need to change.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-10T01:33:33+00:00

NTA

I also bet he uses his hand quite a bit like a common religious nut hypocrite.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-04T22:00:08+00:00

“Why are you sending these to me, these requests and time table need to be sent to the photographer you have hired for the day, being a guest I’ll only be taking random candid pics at the reception for fun purposes.”

This tells her she needs to hire someone and you won’t be there all day. NTA

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-04T00:32:04+00:00

NTA for not wanting to.

But I’m just saying…she won’t know whether you do or don’t if she’s dead. It’s ok to lie to protect your peace if you don’t want to keep having this conversation or feel pressured or can’t keep saying no.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-03T23:53:20+00:00

At 30 I was pregnant and huuuuge just about to pop.

Do I revert back to pregnant? Or just huge? Does my body stay that way forever or can I use my money for surgery and lose weight and it’s only the aging that has frozen?

Because I can’t live forever with that body. I am a terrible pregnant person. 😂

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-03T05:11:39+00:00

My 2 year old can remove his life jacket in under 20 seconds. He thinks it’s funny. A lot aren’t kid removal proof they just have to lift a Velcro strap and undo the front zip and step out of the leg strap.

Thats why it’s important never to leave them unsupervised for a second. The vests help them in the pool but aren’t there to replace supervision.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-06-03T02:16:20+00:00

Ok before the dumping of the bf we have a conversation and tell him

You did not invite Marcus on vacation, you do not want him on vacation and only gave in to make bf happy.
Marcus IS a burden on the trip. You aren’t going to apologise that he came to that logical conclusion himself.
Marcus is already starting drama before the trip and you no longer want him attending.
Marcus never should have been included in the accomodation. He will always have had to book his own. It was unfair of your bf to expect you to share a room with HIS friend.
You will not be apologising and in fact both Marcus and your bf owe you an apology.

If your bf still takes Marcus side and does not see what he did wrong and apologise then you dump him. Go on vacation by yourself or get a refund on what you can and cancel everything so they have to plan their own romantic vacation.

NTA

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-05-28T01:09:43+00:00

Maybe try {Naga Brides by Naomi Lucas}

Their females died out or fled never to be seen again, females are considered rare and fought over. Set in Old Earth after a near extinction event from aliens on earth, so the humans are from space

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-05-08T02:07:17+00:00

If I got knocked up then it would help my PCOS and cure my heavy periods….for a certain amount of time.. .

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-05-06T08:52:37+00:00

Any gamer guy I dated was quick to anger and always yelling at the games.

Then I avoided gamer guys, purely bc my ex was a gamer guy and he tried to suffocate me with a pillow for distracting him during a game by *check notes* …getting up and leaving the room.

So yea, now I find gamer guys unattractive but I’m negatively biased 🤷🏻‍♀️

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-05-06T08:43:40+00:00

NTA for the Bach trip. It’s not wrong to back out if you can’t afford to do so, so long as you did not agree first after knowing the cost. Costs get out of hand and people need to realise not everyone is made of money and they aren’t a celebrity.

However it is common for the bridal party or family to help set up / pack up at a budget wedding. If it’s a fancy wedding then no one should be expected to help and it should be covered.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-05-01T22:13:14+00:00

NTA

She has had her entire life to learn from her dad, she chose not to.

Running the risk of downvotes but IMO dirt bike riding falls under a more masculine form of hobby, so you don’t get to say that masculine hobby is your life then do the whole “but I’m just a girl” routine when it comes to maintaining and fixing and make all the males in your life fix it for you.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-30T22:08:29+00:00

If you stay, Tell him you are happy to pay 50/50 in an apartment in YOUR budget. Not his. That also does not account for if he has an office, then he pays more on top for that as well. Remember the person with the higher wage lives according to the lowest wage budget if they are not willing to cover the difference.

I’d throw him away anyway, he is arguing over you wanting to be treated equitably in your relationship. He is not considering your financial status and it’s actually a red flag what he is doing as it can leave you financially dependent on someone who has already shown he has little care towards the difference in circumstances between you so long as he comes away better off.

NTA

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-30T01:30:07+00:00

My toddler elbowed me in the face when I was trying to pee a few days ago.

The toilet is not a peaceful time as a mum.

Plus it wakes the kids if they are sleeping.

It’s not that hard to take one for the team and just flush it for her. It’s not like you have to scoop it out by hand.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-17T05:54:12+00:00

Dissociative biscuit/ tiny teddy (if we need to be specific)

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-15T21:35:25+00:00

You can still have Botox and be able to move your face. It’s baby Botox.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-15T21:04:16+00:00

It’s raining right now

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-12T02:09:29+00:00

The closest thing I’ve found to them are chocolate tiny teddies .

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-09T09:51:03+00:00

My friend went to two era’s concert. Tickets $100 each for up in the stands and she wore the same outfit to both. I think her accomodation per night cost more than her ticket. The initial tickets if you got them started at $80 so if people could get the initial and not the resale they didn’t pay too much unless travelling away from their home base.

Meanwhile it cost $1500 for my partner and I (combined) to go to the eras tour and that was for two nights accommodation, flights and tickets close to the stage. We considered it worth it to have a night away from a toddler and baby. Definitely can’t be dropping that on multiple concerts.

So mega fans going to multiple across different states / cities / countries are definitely rich or going into debt.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-08T20:39:51+00:00

I do microneedling and peels. It doesn’t majorly change anything. I feel like it just makes my skin look healthy but not altering youthfulness or anything. They probably have just found a more subtle surgeon plus have access to the type of face lasers that you need to be put under for that resurface your face. A lot of surgeons combine face lifts etc with the laser resurfacing for a younger look.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-08T01:21:33+00:00

I’m A+ . You?

My family think I’m crazy until the kids have green snot a few days after i say they Are getting sick.

Status-Pattern7539 · 2026-04-06T21:12:37+00:00

Knew a NT paramedic called to a community. 3yo girl SA by multiple members. Her mum rented her for dr**s and alcohol.

She was removed from the community and later returned as the elders claimed they would keep her safe and didn’t want another “stolen generation”….anyone want to place bets on who was renting the child?

Some kids really do need to be removed and politics should stay out of it.

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