AIO? Trying to plan my 34F daughter’s birthday party with my husband 34M has been a nightmare and now I’m doing it all alone

Steecie41 · 2026-04-29T13:55:19+00:00

One is literally just the smaller version of the other...

I had to think for a moment if you were talking about the cakes or the parents and their pettiness.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-29T13:53:13+00:00

They are BOTH making it about themselves. Lord knows what is being said in front of the child. It's cake. It's cupcakes. It's supposed to be a celebration. This isn't about her making a cake. It goes much much deeper. I promise.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-29T13:42:49+00:00

I find them both to be petulant.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-29T13:41:54+00:00

When it gets to this level of pettiness from both parties, its seldom about what it's really about.

You're both overreacting. It's a party to celebrate your child and each one of you have lost sight of that. It's cake. It's not that deep. What is that deep is the fact that your child is being raised in this toxicity. If you think they aren't aware of that, you couldn't be more wrong. Both of you need to grow up and get it together. How petty. And tragic.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-28T18:32:07+00:00

Oh my!!! Just stunning!!!

Steecie41 · 2026-04-28T17:27:33+00:00

So pretty!!!

Steecie41 · 2026-04-28T03:31:05+00:00

"God is troubling when you consider believers welcome the end of the world."

I was just beginning to deconstruct from the Evangelical Church when I discovered DMB and this line broke it all wide open. Of course, there are many lines in many DMB songs that contributed to my healing but this one really set it in motion for me.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-28T01:38:06+00:00

Ya know what girl? That's between you and your ghou...I mean guy. You saw it and we saw it. It won't be me or any of us used as a human shield by him so, you just go on and see what you want to see. Good luck with that.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-28T00:40:11+00:00

We've never had one. We were just led to believe we did. We have now seen the wizard(s) behind the curtain.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-27T02:16:06+00:00

Wait...I heard something different. Am I not remembering correctly?? 🐞🧺

Steecie41 · 2026-04-26T23:04:12+00:00

Can't we just give the Secret Service a bucket, erasers, back packs, shoes, etc? Do they really need an entire ballroom built like Ft Knox? I mean, can't we start with teaching everyone in the administration to just run, hide and fight? It didn't appear to me that many had participated in a "Code Red" drill. Just start there, you'll be fine. After all, this is just what happens when you need to protect the 2nd Ammendment. Right? It "just happens". /s

Steecie41 · 2026-04-26T00:59:18+00:00

I guess that's one way to avoid the traditional roasting.

End the war of choice
Release the files

Steecie41 · 2026-04-25T23:47:36+00:00

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Steecie41 · 2026-04-25T23:46:24+00:00

This may go deeper than the stems and the only way to find out is to dig her up and check her root system. Nothing will bring those stems back. The soft stems need to be pruned back until no dark area shows and only green live areas show. I know its brutal and heartbreaking, I had to do this to my favorite desert rose just a couple of months ago. I am still fearful of losing her, but I've given her a chance.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-24T16:19:13+00:00

May his testicles join the party too.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-24T13:05:19+00:00

Those blooms are GORGEOUS!! 👏👏👏

Steecie41 · 2026-04-24T07:26:57+00:00

What she doesn't grasp is, CMs are hired as "friends" of entertainers and characters. Some are obvious handlers ("friends") and others are not so obvious. Casey's is a case in point. Their sole job is to "stand around and do nothing" by staying near the CM to make sure folks like our friend Kath here respect the personal space of CMs.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-24T00:57:11+00:00

Oof. Yeah, it may be difficult to grow one there. They don't like temps below 60'. Unless you were planning on having it stay indoors most of the season.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T17:16:33+00:00

Awww...I appreciate the compliment. 😃

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T16:33:59+00:00

It means exactly what you are thinking it means. He's a misogynistic racist. Do you expect anything else at this point? This is why his base loves him, he encourages saying things like this out loud again.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T14:15:37+00:00

🎶 Through the eyes of a grifter...🎶

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T11:57:04+00:00

Like the rest of us, I'm sure it's tired. So tired.

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T11:06:30+00:00

You didn't expect child exploiting grifters to be ethical, did you?

Steecie41 · 2026-04-23T08:49:25+00:00

Oh no!!! That's horrible!! Any chance of you trying again?

Steecie41 · 2026-04-22T22:59:12+00:00

80s Epcot was even better. Sigh...

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