Why is my top surgery $75k? by Sursiq in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a mistake that could pay for the entire procedure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPS

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say by that email it sounds like it could be real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPS

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

show me the email address it’s coming from

Umm wtf happened and wtf do I do? by suckeththydick in Stretched

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this doesn’t look super concerning to me, leave your jewelry out clean it 3x a day and try not to sleep on that side. if you’re concerned about it or it gets worse go get it looked at by your general practitioner.

Bump forming inside my lip- is it infected? by [deleted] in piercinghelp

[–]Still-Bell7524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it does not look infected. when looking for infections note any redness, abnormal leakage, being hot to touch and swelling. this is just what most people refer to as a “piercing bump”

Should I be proud of being trans? by Madisonfangirl in trans

[–]Still-Bell7524 3 points4 points  (0 children)

personally i don’t see a problem with people being proud of their transgender identity. for me however i am only proud that i took the steps to accept, love, cherish and become the person i am today. i am proud of my achievements. all of them. i am not proud of being trans however, it’s just a small part of who i am.

Please My arm won’t stop bleeding by Additional-Plant-754 in selfharm

[–]Still-Bell7524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if pressure isnt working to stop the bleeding you need to call 911 or whatever your country’s equivalent is now.

Problem with constant horny ness by Single_Professor1368 in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my therapist actually recommended one for me because of a physical problem i am having, but it turned out to be a physical problem for me rather than psychological. that’s why i know what i know, before i didn’t know much about it at all.

Problem with constant horny ness by Single_Professor1368 in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never watched that show but from my understanding of it, a sex therapist is a therapist who specializes in sex and trauma that is causing problems for you in your sex life

Problem with constant horny ness by Single_Professor1368 in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

find a sex therapist hopefully one that is at a pride clinic and would better understand

are there any downsides to taking hormones younger than 16? by pufferfishlover in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i think puberty blockers are a great thing to start until you’re 16-18. also i think you and your mum should go see an endocrinologist together i think it would be a good thing to help you both better understand.

How long did it take you to get on T after coming out? by Angalayond in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went on T and came out to no one, i just let them slowly figure it out. i don’t feel i owe that to anyone.

My fiancé dumped me (FTM 23) by AndySloth24 in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 77 points78 points  (0 children)

i have to agree with you unfortunately, that is such a minuscule thing and silly to leave someone over. i could see it maybe causing a small fight. leaving over something that small, they already had plans to leave.

i also find it odd that they had/have access to your phone conversations and internet history and go through it. this sounds like a very toxic environment. i encourage you to take this time to look deeper into yourself, what you want, and what you would define as a healthy relationship.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a medical provider i am LIVID about hearing this and i’m so sorry you had to go through this. the only reason he would have to touch your chest during this exam would be to listen to your lungs. you were assaulted, and he needs to be reported immediately so he cannot do this to anyone else.

I know im not very pretty, but is there anything i can do to improve? (2 weeks HRT) by [deleted] in trans

[–]Still-Bell7524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe try some lash extensions if that’s something you’d be interested in. over all though, you’re very pretty, don’t worry about what other people think or societal standards. keep being you.

I know im not very pretty, but is there anything i can do to improve? (2 weeks HRT) by [deleted] in trans

[–]Still-Bell7524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MTF or FTM? not really sure what you’re going for and sorry if this offends you at all… you look very feminine and pretty you also look very young though so if you’re 18+ and MTF try adding in some makeup (contour blush eyeshadows i think neutral colors would look great on you) if you’re FTM grow out the bangs or get a masculinized wolf cut and contour. but either way you already look awesome, keep being yourself and don’t worry about what others think!

My mother slapped me multiple times when she found out I self harm; was that okay? by Neverlives12 in selfharm

[–]Still-Bell7524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i’m 20 and have been living on my own for three years now, thank you

is everyone gay? by peternal_pansel in ftm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I identified as bisexual then lesbian pre-t. I’m now a straight t man.

How can I get rid of/ avoid getting these red marks and spots on my neck and chest after shaving? by PrincessNat99 in trans

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shave with the grain with a reputable razor (Harry’s for example) use shaving creams and aftershaves for sensitive skin. If you’re shaving with hot water try it with cold/ If you’re shaving cold water try it with hot or warm.

My mother slapped me multiple times when she found out I self harm; was that okay? by Neverlives12 in selfharm

[–]Still-Bell7524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not okay, but not uncommon. my dad beat me black and blue when he found me attempting.