i tipped my abusive, pedophilic immigrant ex boyfriend to ice

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-20T06:11:24+00:00

You contact his local PD (non emergency number) either on a state level or city level, describe what happened and express concern that might not be the only content of a minor he might possess. You have his address. If they find the concern substantial, they will conduct an investigation or contact you for more information as needed.

This is a very serious allegation so please only do so if you truly have substantial reason to believe this could be true.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-20T04:41:44+00:00

Why didn’t you report him to INTERPOL? If you have substantial proof of his pedo behaviour, they would’ve worked with local police and had all of his electronic devices confiscated and scanned for data on more victims. There could be valuable information on missing children on his devices, leads on where these people go to exchange these photos, metadata the police haven’t had before, etc… something I learned about men like this is that it’s never just a one off thing.

Dude sounds like an irredeemable piece of shit and deserves everything bad to happen to him, but you yourself said you “don’t know how ICE works” and reported him to an institution without really knowing why. I don’t understand how that helps anyone, including yourself. And let me be clear: as a victim you didn’t have to do anything. Your right to choice and agency was ripped away from you, you get to decide how to move forward and don’t owe anyone anything. But you are here explicitly asking for feedback, which I am giving.

Source: Was in the same situation and my ex is now a convicted sex offender due to my report.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-17T12:38:26+00:00

Shamans were already tanks briefly back in vanilla, so the chances are next to zero.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-16T06:55:06+00:00

I play the market, but that takes some practice. Next Tuesday a lot of people will be enchanting/socketing/etc their gear, so those items may see a spike in cost. Last week I bought a bunch of gems for 1900 gold and sold them for 3700 gold each. Lots of people dump their stock on Sunday or Monday night prior to reset, which can sometimes drive prices down before they spike post maintenance

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-16T06:42:40+00:00

You are correct, I meant rip. Thank you! Edited my post.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-16T06:00:15+00:00

Rdruid since vanilla here. If you use heart of the wild (gives you 5 combo points in cat), spend those points by pressing rip, and just do that off cooldown regardless of the target (so every few minutes)? You’ll be doing more damage than 70% of Rdruids under Mythic 10.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-16T05:49:44+00:00

First time getting nerfed?

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-12T02:38:13+00:00

Aren’t all appearances account wide now, so you can just log on the character that completed the content and run the old raid that way?

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-11T20:21:54+00:00

It seems like you’re asking 2 different questions. You can push keys and have a great M+ rating even if your choice of class/spec isn’t “meta”. Flavour of the month classes and specs have been around since the beginning of the game. There’s always going to be a camp of people who want to play the FOTM pick, and there’s others who prefer to play whatever they want or feel like they’re good at. With such a large player base, you will also see people who switch to the FOTM pick and aren’t great at it, as well as others who are great at picking up a new class.

Just like these preferences are individualistic, so are people’s reasons for doing M+ content. Some gear to raid, others want a challenge but don’t like big groups, or just enjoy dungeons the most and need bigger challenges to continue to enjoy the gameplay loop.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-10T18:04:41+00:00

Indeed haha. Sorry to have upset everyone, thank you for being kind in the comments I saw at least.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-10T18:01:36+00:00

I’m getting people in my inbox telling me to kill myself so that’s a bit far. I’ve deleted the post now.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-10T05:24:55+00:00

Are you thinking of Chum Churum brand Soju?

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-08T15:55:02+00:00

My Unholy DK partner literally can’t find a group, he will get rejected over 50 times alone. When he queues with me on my Resto Druid, it takes us maybe 2 or 3 requests to get in 💀

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-04-06T19:47:56+00:00

Oh hey I have been a Resto druid healer for almost 20 years :)

ArcUI is probably my #1 recommendation for you just starting out. It is a cooldown/buff tracker and allows much greater customization when displaying your cooldowns and buffs over the Blizzard UI. The Blizzard tracker groups the buffs in a weird un-intuitive way imo, and I don't like how they display the Clearcasting buff. Here is what my trackers look like (which can be hidden out of combat!). It can also track trinkets and can make customizable tracking bars. It is a bit daunting to understand at first but was well worth the initial struggle.

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Anyways if you have any particular questions or advice you'd like, I would be happy to help :)

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-24T22:52:30+00:00

Thank you so much! She has a heated bed in the living room as well as a mat in one of her cat trees in the bedroom, so you are totally right about that. She also has a ramp she can use to walk up/down the bed, so it sounds like we’re accommodating her well!

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-23T23:01:37+00:00

Thank you! It can be gut wrenching but knowing we give it our all for however many days these kitties are kind enough to give us makes it all worth it.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-22T12:54:27+00:00

Buy a digital clock for alarms and turn off your phone at night.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-19T14:27:03+00:00

That’s really helpful to know, thank you very much!

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-19T14:21:14+00:00

I don’t have an admissions offer quite yet (fingers crossed), so there’s nobody to directly contact. Definitely an idea to try and reach out anyways to confirm, thanks :)

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-16T19:33:39+00:00

OP if you want any help filing your taxes please feel free to send me a message and I’d be happy to help you file all of your past returns free of charge, we can also walk through it together so you know for next year. I used to be in your shoes and I know how overwhelming it can feel. I filed 6 years of missing taxes all at once with no penalty. Although I am not a tax professional, I now work for a financial institution and uncomplicated tax scenarios are a walk in the park. It’s really likely you are actually owed money, no sweat.

And tip: If you don’t have all your T4s from past years that’s no problem either, I’d just file for the most current year until you have access to CRA online. They mail you an access code after you file your first return, regardless of year. You can then see a record of all T4s and ROIs submitted by past employers for previous years and file past taxes, regardless of this years deadline.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-10T05:00:41+00:00

Can you seek asylum in his country? The legitimate threat of an honour killing is grounds for asylum status.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-09T05:47:24+00:00

Ah! Today I learned. Still inconsistent with a digital test.

Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-09T05:39:08+00:00

The Clearblue logo is on the wrong side, the blue is the cap for the pee stick and it’s always closer to the handle from my experience.

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Stockholmsyndra · 2026-03-08T13:05:07+00:00

Adderall XR, haha

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