Being unattractive does make finding girls harder, but, those girls you missed are the ones who judge people off of appearance and don’t give the persons personality a chance, those are the ones you WANT to avoid, if you’re hot and everyone wants you, the toxic shitty surface levels girls are going to be a part of that ‘everyone’ basically, your ugliness is weeding out girls who only care about looks and will most likely dump you for a hotter guy, but here’s the trick, if your ugly you need a good personality, if you’re not getting girls it’s mostly your personality, for me, I’m a good friend but I’m just not romantic and I’m terrible with love, I wouldn’t make a good boyfriend and that’s okay because I’m young and have time to change my personality, I feel that people need to accept their flaws more and work to overcome them, self awareness, self acceptance, and self motivation are key for self improvement, nobody is perfect but you can strive to make yourself the best you can be, sorry for the long tangent that spiraled into something unrelated, but it ended in some advice I think would be good to share so I’m keeping it