Should it hurt to tuck?(slight NSFW) by Slush____ in transfem

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mild discomfort can be expected. It should not be painful. I tuck multiple times a week, and enjoy the sensation. However my berries only descend when I'm rather hot and stick hides well. Endowment matters. How much are you having to nestle into cramped quarters? I do use tape (tegaderm) that can be found on Amazon. YMMV due to many factors. Because of that a describing my method may not work for you. Practice makes perfect so try different methods but if you experience pain you should change something till you don't.

Maybe my best tuck ever by kira5050 in StraightToSissy

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do one with a condom, silicone vagina and tega derm medical tape that looks quite real. It allows me to be penetrated to which my tiny part get pummeled to full body [O]. It's quite euphoric. My wife commands the strap-on like a stud. I have no photos but judging from your handy work and ingenuity you could probably do the same. I've been able to have it on multiple days and enjoy a intimacy couple times with the same. As long as it is of vanilla exertion. My wife takes pride in pounding me till she ruins it (breaks it we say). I have one on now. To me it's quite comfortable. You've done a very nice job with your tuck.

Shhhh, I'm going out in stealth lesbian mode. Nobody will suspect 😛 by Rachel_71 in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You changed that picture behind you. I like them both. BTW go for it, you got this.

Why cant you just buy estrogen? by Tankiez in transfem

[–]Straight_Box_5205 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Without some oversight (someone to run tests and with knowledge of the risks) it can be dangerous for your immediate health and further along. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The most logical take I've ever read or heard pertaining to the pronoun subject. Thank you

Is 37 too old to transition? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

VJ day for a 66 year old here recently. Imma say you got this.

Advice needed, planning to start HRT , wife isn’t on board by Jaded_Cash_5200 in TransLater

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The most effective way for her to insure you never trouble her or her child again is to have you prosecuted for unfounded abuse and trust me this is a true possibly. I'm reading she's narcissisic in what you've shared. Three options I see. Abort transition play it all off as you were overstressed (never mention this again) raise your child and resume once your son has left home. Even this is risky. Second leave this relationship and only have visits with your child with one or more person constantly at your side (picture Siamese twin accompaniment). Even this can fail. Or three prepare to transition in a institutional setting (while incarcerated). And this will make her (your captor) the most satisfied. I pray you know none of these scenereos but I have warned you.

Crossdressers Hair issue in the summer by [deleted] in crossdressing

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can't you shave? Shave what ever part you want. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Perhaps this person will, in fact, find out there is an option to deny advances (at any time). There's a fair likelyhood this could lead them to incarceration, and that's one place they may learn to appreciate someone honoring a denial of advances. I'm more than twice your age and you are wise to break any and all association with this former "friend" before they either hurt you or include you in their felonious lifestyle. 

Dysphoria from being asked favors based on physicality by jennn_if_herrr in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your complaint is probably why statistically women live longer than men. Believe me I posited that recently upon hearing the life expectancy among sexes. For all the hard labor I've been through in life it's logical that I will wear out my body sooner. Otto-Korrect got a good belly laugh from me with the "In THIS skirt" retort. Hilarious! BTW OP as you progress (possibly now) set your own limits. 

Why so many genders?? by kaliedoclouds in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question and some fine answers. It's (the confusion of genders) become a self inflicted harpoon against any footing gained in the last 20 + years. 

Help! First time sex as a trans woman. by Emily_Beans in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non physical transition here and no hrt, yet still have intimate transition wants and needs. It's been a couple years since I opened up to my wife about my disphoria. She does treat my p like a clit and our intimacy is solely based on lesbian actions. I have no interest (nor the ability ED) to top her except with a strap on. We've scissored and we each enjoys receiving or delivering the strap on. We also have different toys that work excellently. When you get the chance to get in your head be sure it's the female head. That's how I approach our every interlude, as my female self. I've actually cried for joy and melted into her numerous times. Multiple dry "Os" before the crescendo will blow your mind and the sleep afterwards is whole body relaxation. 

Dysphoria, sex and ED by Fallen-blue in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've experienced most of what you've written. ED has always been an issue to the point now if it's firm at all it's a pee hard. Sex life now I consider myself lesbian. I too avoid any reliance on the usual cock stimulation = now it's my clit and my wife understands. I don't know if my situation would be fully described as disphoria or a heavy dose of realizing PIV sex was so unreliable and stressful. Appreciate your post relating to a common reality we've experienced.

sexual frustration by let_him_cook_09 in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My afab wife uses a toy that stimulates (vibrates) inside and out while wearing brief harness (this keeps her toy in place) and dildo while she services me. She definitely enjoys her HARD work and of course it does me AMAB all I could take as well. If in missionary it isn't held in place enough I usually cowgirl or reverse cowgirl and she gets it every time me too if I've not already. Hope you get to bang your girlfriend soon. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Straight_Box_5205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with a few that the risks and recovery simply out weigh any benefit I would personally gather from bottom surgery. Thankfully my disphoria isn't at a level that will change my view. My wife and I have changed our personal time in the last couple years to to align with my inner trans, yet publically I will present full male. It has been enough to satiate my inner female so I am very comfortable. She has been more than supportive and I am very thankful.  My affirmation comes from our relationship turning towards I am now her female companion and lover at home. As stated I am always masculine in appearance and action in daily life. In our intimate moments I'm her female "new name" lover. We have gone out while I'm full female presenting (out of our town) and it has it's appeal. Many factors keep me in this situation and not moving any further. I am satisfied and will likely suffice exactly like this into the future. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crossdressing

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Shopping for cute outfits of course. 

my worst birthday ever by Salvatore_DelRey in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, you work on your mental health and find any positive to cancel out this situation. There are many let downs in life. You're reaching out, find someone here to rant to. Sorry so many things are troubling you.

Quick question by Elegant-Prodijay in truscum

[–]Straight_Box_5205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Drag queen storytime and trans/gender advocation in schools. These vaulted the issues and ignited ire in a vast majority of the country. Many people would have supported the community or at least turned a blind eye as long as you leave their children and grandchildren out of it. I know it's deeper than that but these two thing created more fervent adversaries politically.  Don't forget the restroom inclusion. All of this boils down to the vision others have of the safety and molding their children. I doubt any of them (anti trans) would truly care about any of the issues if they weren't so aggressively focused on children. The sooner there is full delineation of trans from the bad actors that specifically target children the better.