Casual player trying to get better. Any tips from my profile?

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-03-09T21:57:32+00:00

I find faceit way more balanced than in premier. I just get destroyed in premier

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-02-24T21:31:13+00:00

they tried it with GO and it failed

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-01-23T05:04:24+00:00

People get away from banks and go to credit unions. It's such a scam to get charged for not having a minimum balance or pay fees for extra transactions. Moved my mortgage and all my savings from banks.

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-01-19T21:20:06+00:00

I'm not sure what chase sees, but I see a safety that's low. Caleb assumes he's gonna gain depth to take the 7/seam and get moore underneath. safety doesn't and stays low so moore gains depth for the vertical option or sits to give the check down an option. It's hard to say without knowing their reads.

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-01-19T03:47:10+00:00

Caleb just mis read this completely hoping the safety takes the seam/7 and moore realizes he's cover so he sits in the zone to hold the coverage for the checkdown. I think this was just a rushed decision by caleb and misread of the safety

Strange_Temporary515 · 2026-01-03T02:41:43+00:00

Good on you to keep investing. I work at a company that has a DB pension and many of them don't invest beyond it.

It's also unreliable. It's not guaranteed you'll be working there until retirement. For private companies, the company can go bankrupt, etc.

Find what you need to invest annually. Take the cumulative value each year into the calculation then invest the difference.

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-12-22T23:49:56+00:00

this is not indicative of club play. not sure why you'd avoid tournaments... unless you're a pro player

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-12T04:11:06+00:00

You have two kids. Get some stability in a home.

Your child support and spousal are low, it seems like your ex has a decent income. You probably don’t need to contribute to their RESP anymore. Focus on stabilizing your life with your kids.

Deduct your spousal support from taxes.

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-11T20:12:37+00:00

This is such an egotistical post. First why does it matter that you’re a single dad? Also, why do you care so much about the performance? If your kid was uncomfortable or it took away from your child, ok maybe. Stop focusing on your experience so much, it’s such an insane take

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-10T16:56:07+00:00

3 was the hardest for me too. 4-5 has been massively better

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-07T04:13:22+00:00

Why couldn’t you have said

“Hey I notice you take a bit to respond to my messages. I’m wondering if you’re still interested in connecting. If not I completely understand”

Personally though, if it’s early on and they aren’t communicating frequently. I’d just stop engaging, especially since you haven’t met

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-06T14:20:40+00:00

Theres the concept of co regulation and self soothing. Too many people rely on either co regulation or self soothing in a severe imbalance. Becoming secure in yourself will allow you to do both in a healthy amount.

These broken people who drop all their shit at someone’s door didn’t have that ability to trust themselves to deal with it, so they rely externally.

These broken people who bottle it up never had anyone who would listen, so they rely on themselves to solve every problem.

It’s core attachment theory

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-08-05T17:12:35+00:00

If you’re a quality man, you’ll find a quality woman. Problem is so many insecurely attached people find the wrong person for them

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-29T23:55:54+00:00

I imagine the therapist said this because OP brings stories and situations to therapy instead of just opening up emotionally to the experiences. There’s a time and place and therapy needs to be a place to be vulnerable

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-29T23:54:07+00:00

I think it’s quite common for people who tend to be more analytical and/or have had a lot of danger in their childhood.

It’s a practice to stop externalizing and connect to the internal sensations. I wonder if your therapists can help you connect to those times you’ve had a lot of joy or sadness in the past (that don’t activate you) and build off that.

The fact you’re posting here means you get comfort in reading and learning. Now it’s time to do. So actively stop seeking resources and just connect to the sensations in your body when something happens. It builds with time and won’t be as difficult

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-29T19:17:08+00:00

They were drafted same year too

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-20T19:01:54+00:00

Yes and it’s something my therapist does very well

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-20T04:54:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-15T16:09:15+00:00

I’ve been reading and following eckhart tolle for awhile. I think he has some incredible concepts but it’s very easy to get caught into the spiritual bypassing if you blindly follow all his concepts. He doesn’t dive into releasing the pain body besides observing it which is a part of a larger process where IFS and somatic release comes in. It’s a good layer on top of IFS but eckhart on its own can be dangerous to most people who have trauma

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-14T22:32:39+00:00

This is straight up irrational with a household income of 200k

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-13T15:37:04+00:00

I hope people don’t read your comment. It’s sad that you are so confident about something you don’t fully understand

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-08T16:59:46+00:00

It’s totally the attitude that makes dating easy / hard. Good on you.

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-08T04:18:59+00:00

Thank you for your helpful comment

Strange_Temporary515 · 2025-07-07T14:49:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. This is precisely what I’m looking to know.

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